Oral sex last night was weird (warning tmi!)

[FaithD]

So partner and I had a small disagreement yesterday evening, nothing serious, but enough to be annoyed.

Later, I initiated sex and asked him to go down on me. He did but at the end he did something he had never done before - after I came, he rubbed his beard all over both my thighs, clearly to get rid of 'me'. I was in the afterglow and it wasn't pleasant.

I can't explain it exactly but the move felt kind of aggressive. Am I over reacting?

The relationship is a good and happy one otherwise, but it wasn't nice.

Same!
@FaithD Why didn't he just wash his face and beard if it bothered him that much?

It wasn't really an argument, a small disagreement only. I thought it was over by the time we had sex.

But clearly it wasn't!

I'll have a towel ready next time for the aftercare if he needs it!

Isn't there a way of stopping PMs? I never open them.

I have them disabled. You can do that in settings.

If they wash their beard after there won’t be some massive build up of bacteria in it 😂

I think it clearly was and you’re just jumping to conclusions! If his beard is outgrown right now am I right in assuming he doesn’t usually have one and hence hasn’t been an issue for him or for you before? Jesus.

Wouldn't bother me tbh.

This.