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Disposable income

91 replies

Welverine · 28/08/2024 18:53

Hey,

totally nosey question so please just scroll on if you’re not interested….

after you have paid all of your essential bills/costs, how much disposable income do you have left to spend/save?

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Thurien · 28/08/2024 21:15

Welverine · 28/08/2024 18:53

Hey,

totally nosey question so please just scroll on if you’re not interested….

after you have paid all of your essential bills/costs, how much disposable income do you have left to spend/save?

Hey !

About £9k on average last six months. But it varies - best was 4x that two years ago.

What matters more is discretionary spend -v- non-discretionary spend.

Temporaryname158 · 28/08/2024 21:16

About £200 but all of that goes into sinking funds for Xmas, birthdays, car bills and a holiday

Loopylou7219 · 28/08/2024 21:17

Honestly what is the point of a thread like this

OneRingToRuleThemAll · 28/08/2024 21:19

About £750, which I split into long term savings, short term savings and "pocket money".

Welverine · 28/08/2024 21:32

Ours varies between 3-4 depending on how much extra freelance I do

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Rainbowbrite83 · 28/08/2024 21:39

Probably about 20k a month, doesn't include pension contributions though, so some months can feel a little tough.

Lesina · 28/08/2024 21:48

Around £2500 depending on the food shop & what the horse needs. Slightly more in summer when the horse is out 24/7 around £200 less when he is in at night in winter.

Justbeliketheraggydolls · 28/08/2024 21:52

Loopylou7219 · 28/08/2024 21:17

Honestly what is the point of a thread like this

To make people feel shit…

OP clearly wants to brag

Ours varies between 3-4 depending on how much extra freelance I do

Certainly not posting for advice because she only has £2.53 left after paying rent before she buys food for her kids 🤷‍♀️

people are either very out of touch with how most people live, or they genuinely get off on bragging about how rich they are. It’s not a good look

whatsthequestion39 · 28/08/2024 21:53

imisscashmere · 28/08/2024 21:06

This thread is going to make a lot of people feel like shite.

Exactly. I hate these threads. I would never put it out there just because of how shitty it could make people feel.

Justbeliketheraggydolls · 28/08/2024 21:54

Rainbowbrite83 · 28/08/2024 21:39

Probably about 20k a month, doesn't include pension contributions though, so some months can feel a little tough.

Sending thoughts and prayers 😬😂

Magehemela · 28/08/2024 21:56

Nothing or negative (i.e our savings are going down). I guess without discretionary spends like buying the kids the odd toy or having an occasional meal out we might have £100 or so a month.

We are currently paying a lot in childcare and I am studying so not earning (we built savings when I was working). Once we are out of this period of our lives we should hopefully go back to having a bit more.

primroseandplum · 28/08/2024 22:01

Rainbowbrite83 · 28/08/2024 21:39

Probably about 20k a month, doesn't include pension contributions though, so some months can feel a little tough.

😂I can imagine. Having to tighten your Gucci belt must hurt.

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/08/2024 22:03

Money isn't everything, can't take it with you when you die.

Overthebow · 28/08/2024 22:09

I think about £2.3k after all bills, mortgage, childcare, food, clubs. We save out of that though so have less disposable then that.

Marmite27 · 28/08/2024 22:12

Probably about £1500, but every penny has a job in this household, so nothing is ‘spare’.

newusername2009 · 28/08/2024 22:13

Nothing at the moment but now we can’t afford private schools anymore it will go up massively as everyone else will be paying for the education of my children on top state schools! 😀

hangxiety · 28/08/2024 22:18

PiggieWig · 28/08/2024 21:05

About £100 a week but there’s usually something like a car repair or a birthday that swallows a chunk up each month.

I'm glad to read of someone the same! We are lucky if we have £80-£100 per week

sunseaandsoundingoff · 28/08/2024 22:18

Olympi · 28/08/2024 20:12

About 2.8k after all bills including food, fuel, life insurance, dogs etc. We are currently paying over 800 a month off debt so will go up in a few years, but we are also moving house so will take on a bigger morgtage.

Holidays / Christmas etc tend to come out of my DP bonuses. Appreciate we are very lucky

why aren't you paying more off your debt??

sunseaandsoundingoff · 28/08/2024 22:20

newusername2009 · 28/08/2024 22:13

Nothing at the moment but now we can’t afford private schools anymore it will go up massively as everyone else will be paying for the education of my children on top state schools! 😀

and your disposable income will be spreading out throughout the economy instead of stuffing the pockets of one already rich tax-dodging private school!

their prices will come down soon enough when everyone quits.

Olympi · 28/08/2024 22:25

sunseaandsoundingoff · 28/08/2024 22:18

why aren't you paying more off your debt??

The 800 will mean it will be gone in 18 months which is absolutely fine with us. We are also putting money aside incase we need it for a house move if we don't need it we will have a lump sum to do what we wish with.

We also like enjoying life, and DS so I spend a good chunk of money on days out and experiences for him... Money comes and goes time with my DS while he's young does not.

We are early 30s, and both salaries are increasing later this year so the debt doesn't worry us.

whyNotaNice · 28/08/2024 22:29

My husband who used to pay it all is now paycheck to paycheck but I saved my all, so quite a nice amount for any slack, additions or if something happens very unexpectedly. He knows it all. Agreed

DoAWheelie · 28/08/2024 22:43

About minus £175.

Going further into debt every month.

Sparrowball · 29/08/2024 00:51

Loopylou7219 · 28/08/2024 21:17

Honestly what is the point of a thread like this

I only have about 22k left per month after all essentials, times are tough are the minute. 😛

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EarlofShrewsbury · 29/08/2024 00:57

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 28/08/2024 19:26

What do you consider essential? I save for ds and for us, we pay for clubs, subscriptions, is my car essential? What about paying to have it cleaned? What about broadband? Mobiles? Haircuts? I mean I could cut it myself, but others might see lashes and nails as essential

If you said what do you have left after you've paid mortgage/rent, council tax, gas/electric, phones and groceries (for example) it would be clearer, because what some people consider essentials is different to others

I consider essential anything non negotiable where you don't really get an option on price.

A car could be £0 or £600 or anything inbetween, it's a choice.

Rent/mortgage, council tax, water, gas&electric, home insurance I would consider essentials.

Broadband also in this day and age.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 29/08/2024 02:02

Around 1550 after all bills, food and expenses (petrol etc). 1750 without overpaying the mortgage.

DH is self-employed and only takes a salary of just under 12500 a year, so the business account is a lot more healthy than our joint one.