Just out of interest...how do people feel about how their name (if they are British) is pronounced by Americans, when the English and American English pronunciation differs?
So Naddalee for Natalie or Nuh-TAHH-shuh for Natasha, Serra for Sarah etc?
Or, say Scottish or Irish people who would pronounce Clare, or Eleanor very differently to an RP speaker from Surrey?
Or how a French person would say naturally Charlotte or Emily or Alice or Zoe in their own accent...should they emulate the British pronunciation for British Charlottes, Alices, Emilys, Zoes?
Do we think that everyone else in the world should all reproduce the exact way we personally say our own name? Even if it means unlearning an accent and learning entirely new vowel sounds? Do we hold it against them or accept the natural accent difference?
I ask because I'm British Asian, my immigrant parents pronounce my name very differently from each other and me myself as we all have different first languages and accents. My grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins etc on both sides also pronounce it differently again. And Americans, French, Spanish, Polish, Italian people all pronounce my name differently to me...because we all have different accents. It genuinely doesn't upset or offend me at all and would never have occurred to me to be offended. I just accept it's an accent difference. It's not that deep. I'd only get pissed off if they shortened or Anglicised my name.
Are we all tying ourselves in knots here un-necessarily? Bearing in mind, I am making an effort to say it as Kamala Harris herself does and can easily reproduce it so no skin in the game.
I'm just very aware, there is no way my Scottish MIL will manage to pronounce it the same as KH no matter how hard she tries and it's really not her fault. Pronouncing it similarly to the beginning of Cameron or Camera is as good as it gets for her (rhyming with Pamela), Come-ala or Comma-la sound nothing like what Kamala herself says in MIL's accent. MIL says comma like coma. Oddly, when I say it out loud, Come-UH-luh is exactly how she says the Queen, Camilla's, name. I've mentioned on MN before, I (RP) say Car Key and Khaki the exact same way but MIL says Cacky for Khaki and Carrrrr Key for Car Key - both versions absolutely right in our own accents. It's really easy for me to get KH's name right because my accent is very neutral, but it would be wrong for me to assume it's that easy for everyone. I'd say, with my own name, I'm pretty tolerant/forgiving that the middle consonant and knowing where to put the stress are particularly tricky and there are also at least three ways to spell it.
Brits don't tie ourselves in knots over whether it's Ivanka or Ivonka Trump - do we? But it is pronounced more like Ivonka in the US... Same with Me -lan- ya, Mel-ah-nia or Mel-onia. We just use our own accents for those names generally.
I think we've got to try our best to get as close as we can but sometimes accents genuinely can't be helped and it's not that people are being awkward or pretending they don't get it. Do you think it upsets Kamala Harris when people don't get it perfectly right? Maybe saying Kam as in Kamran or Kamal rather than Com as in Comma? Or Kumuhluh in the way that millions of Indians might pronounce Kamala? Genuine question.