Whenever I stay in a hotel with DP he puts a chair against the main door at nighttime, the door is locked, the hotel has cctv and security, so for me this is a bit overly paranoid. We stayed in an apartment for the first time - they have security guards patrolling the area, so very safe - and I woke up the first morning to see he'd dragged an ottoman from the hallway and put it against the locked door. I've talked to him about it before and he said his dad always did it when he was a kid, so it's clearly learned paranoia. Does anyone else do this or are DP and his dad a little bit much in their security consciousness, or is this common and I'm just really lax with mine?! 😂