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My neighbours Sunday activities!

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shittestusernameever · 18/08/2024 07:11

So, great news! My delightful neighbour started working on his cars at 6am this morning. Fantastic.

Last Sunday it was 5am! Then it's a day of revving engines and moving all 3 of his cars back and forward.

I have been up most of night with a poorly baby so not in the best of moods, I've finally got her to sleep and this tit starts revving an old Capri engine at 6am! Why? Why does he do it?

He's in his early 60s and this is every single Sunday without fail, he takes over the cul-de-sac with his cars. He had 4 himself and his wife has her own. She is lovely but he's not exactly very approachable and has been known to get shouty.

How is your Sunday going?

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2024intake · 18/08/2024 08:56

MidnightPatrol · 18/08/2024 08:15

Even as an early bird though, most people will know it’s not socially acceptable to make loud noise before dawn.

Dog walking isn’t noisy - revving a car engine repeatedly outside someone’s window is obviously going to wake them up.

Any noisy work before 9am at the weekend is pretty antisocial IMO.

I am an early bird and I walk the dog early but I close my front door using the key so as not to slam it and we don’t make any noise until we are well away from the houses.

fortheveryfirsttime · 18/08/2024 08:57

I'd keep reporting too. He's being incredibly selfish so deserves at least a bollocking and a warning.

WhappleBee · 18/08/2024 09:23

Honestly thought you lived in my road for a second! Except our 2am driving round neighbour and our early Sunday morning revving neighbour are two separate people! Family of 3 opposite us has 6 cars and 3 motorbikes. They get up at 6am on Sundays to drive the motorbikes, which are running for 15 mins before they even leave the street. Then back about 7am when he starts working in his other cars.

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BiscuityBoyle · 18/08/2024 09:37

TiredAndAwakeStill · 18/08/2024 08:04

My brother once mowed the lawn before work at 7.30am, well two or three times I think, instant letter from council ( privately owned house) telling him to stop

Honestly never occurred to, him that it would be annoying, he was just trying to fit it in around his busy life

Council complaint..

Edited

I imagine the complaint was from a neighbour via the council. There aren’t council officers hiding in bushes ready to complain.
He might well have a busy life but that’s no comfort to a neighbour who has been up all night with a baby or someone who was getting persistently woken at 7.30 by a lawn mower.

Cuppateatea · 18/08/2024 09:41

I agree with PPs mentioning an incident diary. Video/photos with dates and times too. Then report. Sounds like an entitled selfish dick who needs to be stopped! 6am is not OK - what is he thinking? I totally don’t get people like this.

shittestusernameever · 18/08/2024 09:42

@WhappleBee it's not fair is it? Don't get me wrong I understand people need to DIY and fix cars on their time off work but this bloke is something else.

He collects old cars and does them up from the shell. He's always tinkering with his cars and it's his hobby.

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MeinKraft · 18/08/2024 09:50

God he sounds like a dickhead. From 7.30 onward is sort of alright but surely he knows he's being a dickhead at that time of morning?

My garden backs onto a rugby/cricket club and the cricketers are the noisiest bunch you've ever heard . Summer evenings trying to get my toddler to sleep and obviously we usually have the windows open because hot. Around 7pm a few nights a week the clapping and cheering and general racket starts and goes on until nearly 10. I thought cricket was a sedate sport for gentlemen! You barely hear the rugby players.

Maddy70 · 18/08/2024 09:54

Complain ro the council. Keep a diary

WhappleBee · 18/08/2024 09:59

shittestusernameever · 18/08/2024 09:42

@WhappleBee it's not fair is it? Don't get me wrong I understand people need to DIY and fix cars on their time off work but this bloke is something else.

He collects old cars and does them up from the shell. He's always tinkering with his cars and it's his hobby.

It’s really not! Bless you after being up with a baby all night too, I always feel for my partner when it happens when he’s just come off nights, at least I don’t work Mondays so can grab a nap!

Ours has a mix of old and new cars. They all have a new car each and then 4 other ones, 2 of which he’s been fixing up for years but never seems to drive.

Chronicallymothering · 18/08/2024 10:01

I’ve been waiting to drill inside my detached home for 4 hours because it’s not neighbourly to make noise on a Sunday morning before 10. Doesn’t everyone know the unwritten rule?

Galoop · 18/08/2024 10:06

That is so fking selfish and rude. I'd report him, I'm sure you can't do that on a Sunday. I'm raging on your behalf

Secradonugh · 18/08/2024 10:09

shittestusernameever · 18/08/2024 08:04

@Doggymummar I understand some people are early birds but making so much noise so early on a Sunday is incredibly selfish and illegal. He has to think about all neighbours, not just himself

I cannot believe the arrogance of some. I'm an early bird (sometimes 2am sometimes 4am. I've been waiting until 10am to be able to mow my lawn, because let's face it, people like to have a lie in. If someone can't be civil and keep theslves to themselves until at least 8am and stop at 8pm then the council need to be informed. Him working on a car between these times, and occassionly reving would be okay in my book. It's worse than barking dogs, at least dogs are based on instinct and didn't have a choice.
If it were me I'd be double checking that his vehicles are legal and seeing if the housing association have rules about these things... but then again I'm petty about people being able to get enough sleep (because I suffer with insomnia).

Secradonugh · 18/08/2024 10:10

Chronicallymothering · 18/08/2024 10:01

I’ve been waiting to drill inside my detached home for 4 hours because it’s not neighbourly to make noise on a Sunday morning before 10. Doesn’t everyone know the unwritten rule?

Absolutely spot on. Enjoy your drilling, I'll enjoy my mowing! 10am on a Sunday, 9am on Saturday 8am during the week, is the bare bare minimum.

FarewellMsSorrow · 18/08/2024 10:10

The guy over the road who has very few parenting skills attempts to take his three kids to some sort of activity that they have no interest in at 8am every Sunday. This involves at least 10 minutes of him yelling at the top of his booming voice from the very end of the driveway into the house. He seems to think if he just yells at them enough from far enough away that they will get their shoes and coats on and pack their own bags and bring them outside. He doesn't seem to realise they are children, the oldest is about 8 now but he's been doing it for years

On the plus side he's got an electric car so once he's hounded them into it, it all goes quiet 😀

LlamaNoDrama · 18/08/2024 10:11

I thought it was 9am on a Sunday.

I agree with keeping a log. Even better if other neighbours will too. I'd have probably lost it and nicked his car keys whilst he was under the car by now.

CandidaAlbicans2 · 18/08/2024 10:11

You and your neighbours have put up with his selfish behaviour for years, and despite you asking him not to make noise so early he still does it. So he's not oblivious to how it affects people, he just doesn't care. So time to go to the next stage. Make a formal complaint to the housing association, ideally with your neighbours. You've given him lots of chances, now he needs the book thrown at him.

ShowOfHands · 18/08/2024 10:15

My neighbours are blissfully silent on a Sunday morning until at least 11am.

This is only because they're dreadfully hungover. Summer Saturday nights (and evenings and afternoons and lunchtimes) they have family and friends over and take full advantage of their freestanding pool, full bar and hot tub, karaoke machine and pop up poles from midday to around 2am. They've packed all this in the garden of their three bed semi, leaving just enough room for a glorified shed where she offers beauty treatments to all and sundry. Come round on any weekday and have a wee or a shower in our main bathroom and you can glance through the window and make eye contact with a woman having her eyebrows threaded or her bikini line tended to. On a Saturday night, you can come round and listen to Coldplay on karaoke or her shrieking "ooh Brian, you are naughty" as they clamber into the hot tub to feel each other up for 45 minutes straight.

I lie in bed trying to tell myself I'm pleased they're happy and I don't need to phone the housing association and ask them to have a bloody word.

ClaudiaWankleman · 18/08/2024 10:21

shittestusernameever · 18/08/2024 08:04

@Doggymummar I understand some people are early birds but making so much noise so early on a Sunday is incredibly selfish and illegal. He has to think about all neighbours, not just himself

It’s not illegal, and I’d be very surprised if your council thought it was unacceptable too, given that it’s domestic noise, not continuous and not targeted at you. Road noise is almost certainly excluded too, quite unfortunately for you.

lubl · 18/08/2024 10:30

my neighbour is having their back garden landscaped. Yesterday and today they've started at 8am, hammering and drilling and god knows what. I know 8am probably doesn't seem too bad but I agree with the 10am unwritten rule at weekends, unless it's for emergency work, like urgent gas works etc.

goingdownfighting · 18/08/2024 10:32

Time to call the council.

JohnofWessex · 18/08/2024 10:53

Thinking about it a lot of Council/HA Tenancy Agreements have a clause prohibiting anything other than minor car repairs so you may be pushing at an open door

Secradonugh · 18/08/2024 11:17

LlamaNoDrama · 18/08/2024 10:11

I thought it was 9am on a Sunday.

I agree with keeping a log. Even better if other neighbours will too. I'd have probably lost it and nicked his car keys whilst he was under the car by now.

There's no legal definition around it being at 9 or 10 am. People can't honk their horns before 7am, HGVs shouldn't be causing disruption before 8am. I just think that If I'm creating noise I start at 10am.

Secradonugh · 18/08/2024 11:22

ClaudiaWankleman · 18/08/2024 10:21

It’s not illegal, and I’d be very surprised if your council thought it was unacceptable too, given that it’s domestic noise, not continuous and not targeted at you. Road noise is almost certainly excluded too, quite unfortunately for you.

Be very suprised then. Working on cars is covered as different from Road Noise. Revving especially. If you look at your local councils website, sometimes they even give examples including this. Obviously that is different from having to work on the car as a one off because the car won't start.. The occurances can be weeks and months apart. Doesn't need to be directed at you (that would be harassment). Work which may cause your neighbourts to loose on night time sleep can get you in trouble. Social Housing tenants sometimes have clauses in their contracts specifying that working on cars is not allowed even. (Dependant on HA).

Lucytheloose · 18/08/2024 11:30

Doggymummar · 18/08/2024 07:52

Some people are just early birds. We have been up since 5 and it's frustrating waiting to mow the lawn, plus it's now raining so it can't be done today. I pressure washed my car yesterday. Other neighbours were diying before 7, dog walking at 5.30 like we were with a torch. We all respect each other and talk, there are street parties and garden parties till the early hours. I just think if it as normal family life. One guy has a Harley though and he has been asked to push it to the end of the road as it sets off all the dogs and car alarms,

But dosen't that simply move the problem to the occupants of the next road?

LlamaNoDrama · 18/08/2024 12:03

Just looked it up and it is indeed 11pm-7am any day but I absolutely think the council will look into this as it is a nuisance.

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