This is complicated. So dd has an ex from a while back. He went to prison due to DV . He was let out of prison on several occasions but only for a few days or so as he breaks restraining order and ends up back in prison . He's done 4 years when he was originally meant to do 4 months . But he's fucked up so much it ended up being 4 years .
So he got out recently. He managed to contact dd. She ended up ringing him
via social media and told him to fuck of leave me alone this has gone on to long leave me alone. And she never heard anything more.
A short while later I get screen shots of the contact that I explained above. But they were sent from my 17 year old son. Who is hanging out with DD ex friend shes 27. who has a massive vendetta against my family. The only way they could have got them school shots was if DD ex sent them to the ex friend. So theses screen shots were then being used to say dd kids are going to be taken away etc... DD then had to contact the police, social services, and DV advocate. And she had to report the contact and admit that she rang him to shout leave me the fuck alone etc. So that side of things are being dealt with .
Forgot to say . There were also messages from the ex friend to dd ex boyfriend that said have you spoken to her yet. So we are thinking the ex friend tried to set it up.
So far dd ex friend (27) has done the following (some are petty)
When dd got her council place because of DV . The girl went ape shit . Tell dd she had played the system skipped the housing waiting list etc .
She contacted me telling me that dd was going to get back with her ex and she has evidence that she's going to show social services and gets dd kids taken away . She was extremely convincing. I managed to get her to show me the evidence. And what she showed me was not the same as what she had been telling me .
She told people that dd was slagging of her children. Then she changed it to my ds was slagging of her children.
She's told me ds that I have been taking his pip money .and that I owe him 4k. I have not been doing this at all. All the transactions are in the account. Even though there's proof he won't believe me only her.
She's also been telling people ds 17 is a pedo.
Ds has basically been staying with this 27 year old . Getting drunk with her for the past several days. She's told ds that his family have disowned him and he now has no one only her . Ds is vulnerable. And will hook onto anyone that shows a bit of kindness and says the right thing . He said to me she's not a bad person she said sorry for horrible things she has said /done .
Ds is also meant to be in supported accommodation but he has not been staying there because he's been staying with her. I'm concerned he will loose his place there. I'm not sure if he's safe being at her place.
Ds has asked me to take myself of the pip claim as appointee I am worried about doing this because he may basically drink it and she will help him spend it.
I have spoke to DS social worker. She didn't say much .
Just to add this situation is awful and complicated. It's made me feel very on edge and I don't feel I can cope with any nasty comments. Or judgement. And also the I mean this kindly comments that then lead to something unkind . If I feel attacked In any form then I will just ignore.