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Where to live by the sea

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onesmallstepforman · 29/07/2024 19:21

I would like to relocate to live by the sea, somewhere in the UK. I live in a big city but was brought up by the sea in a foreign country. I crave swimming in clean beautiful water, walks on the beach, sea air and everything associated (except for tacky beach tourism crap).
My criteria is ambitious but i'd like to think not impossible considering the UK is a huge island.
I am looking for a real beach experience, but for me Brighton for example just won't fit the bill at all! Or anywhere you mainly get muddy beach or water uninviting for swimming.
As much as I love Norfolk and some of the beaches there are pretty decent (say Holkham bay) it's not much for swimming. Even in summer water is always dark, and the strong tide stairs mud and sand, and much of stinky seaweed. Great for walks and all, but no good swim. I also like a ragged scene and secluded beaches, just to add to my complicated brief.
Other places which I have considered and discounted so far:
Cornwall - the obvious choice for both amazing beaches and good swimming in some places, but from what I gather everyone warned me it's a nightmare in summer, too far, no jobs and I will be looked down at as a property privileged thief.
Pembrokeshire - similar reasons to Cornwall, maybe not for 'stealing'l locals homes but apparently not good place to live at all. Holiday yes, but don’t stay forever.
So where else?? Devon? Dorset? ..Or do I need to move to the meds for this kind of life?

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menopausalmare · 29/07/2024 20:21

We're currently holidaying in Milford -on- Sea and were saying, only today, that you'd need to visit an area in January before making any decisions to move. Although tourism can be a pain for the locals in the summer, if things shut down in the winter that would be an issue, too.

GenghisCalm · 29/07/2024 20:21

Cutthecheese · 29/07/2024 20:07

Jaywick

What has the OP done to you to suggest Jaywick?

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BurntBroccoli · 29/07/2024 20:25

Northumberland absolutely beautiful beaches.

HappierTimesAhead · 29/07/2024 20:27

They are indeed beautiful but freezing most of the time!

Tregaronableist · 29/07/2024 20:27

Northumberland is the least populated county in the U.K. It has the most amazing beaches which don’t get busy even during the summer.

Leah5678 · 29/07/2024 20:28

Bognor Regis

napody · 29/07/2024 20:28

mumonthehill · 29/07/2024 19:28

Well i live in Pembrokeshire, clear water, small coves, fabulous restaurants and lovely villages. Lived here 15 years. It has the same issues as any rural seaside area in the uk, limited transport, varying health care issues etc. we love it.

Was baffled by the OP- Pembrokeshire is heaven and none of the downsides of Cornwall.

BreadInCaptivity · 29/07/2024 20:29

Northumberland.

Spectacular and totally underrated (and affordable).

Fleurty · 29/07/2024 20:29

As someone who has lived by the sea my whole life, I fear you're romantising it a bit! Maybe plan a mid winter holiday when everything is closed and the weather is terrible just to check you can cope with that side of it too!

Monkeymackem · 29/07/2024 20:38

Horden in East Durham is a Hidden Gem.

Laska2Meryls · 29/07/2024 20:39

Isle of Wight, (especially West Wight.. ) Totland or Freshwater..

ReframeFeelings · 29/07/2024 20:40

Rhyl

Laska2Meryls · 29/07/2024 20:42

Although if I could afford it, I'd live on the Roseland peninsula in Cornwall...

Highonthehillsisalonelygoatherd · 29/07/2024 20:45

I think you may like Filey on the Yorkshire coast 😍 7 miles of sandy beach, safe swimming in the bay and a local sea swimming group. Only an hour away from York and Hull.

garlictwist · 29/07/2024 20:45

MiddleagedBeachbum · 29/07/2024 19:24

NW Lake District, I swear it’s heaven here, feels like one of the last hidden spots of England!
Cheap house prices, soo many swim spots, mountains, lovely people, feels a bit like the rest of the UK did 20 yrs ago.

Really? I grew up in Whitehaven. Couldn't wait to get out of there.

LightFull · 29/07/2024 20:48

The sea is freezing in the UK all year round even in the south

I mean it's bearable late summer for a refreshing swim yes

It's not as lovely as the Mediterranean though warm flat waters you can swim in for ages without getting it in your face and mouth

LaPalmaLlama · 29/07/2024 20:52

I mean, there are people who swim in the sea off Poole ( Sandbanks/ Branksome) all year round but it’s pretty bracing in the winter ( most wear wetsuit boots and gloves).

MoreHairyThanScary · 29/07/2024 20:54

South Devon / South Hams close to Plymouth where there are jobs

Eminybob · 29/07/2024 20:56

I've just come back from a holiday in Woolacombe, north devon, and I'd move there in a heartbeat. Absolutely beautiful.

Eminybob · 29/07/2024 20:56

No idea about jobs though

Icecreamcornet · 29/07/2024 20:57

East Lothian, close to Edinburgh

Notaflippinclue · 29/07/2024 20:57

Walked from Zennor to Gurnards Head the other day brilliant parking beaches empty

StoneHenge85 · 29/07/2024 20:58

Frinton on Sea?

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