Just an update here (which I've also put on my 1st thread).
Ds was discharged yesterday.
I wasn't happy about that (I asked for it to be recorded on notes: who knows). He has a Discharge letter which describes his Dx as 'probable acute Myocarditus with LVSD'. His Tryponin level has dropped to 156. He 'has raised cholesterol' (history of familial hypercholesterolaemia).
Plan is to 'wait for MRI results & review'
MRI results 'will take approx 2 weeks'.
He's to take Dapagliflozin 20mg & Bisopralol 1 25mg ongoing atm.
No advice re exercise etc afaiac he's just to cheerfully potter around a bit whilst we wait for MRI all clear.
Letter given to me re cancellation of upcoming holiday (copy GP) 'we think flight & staying in hot climate may be a challenge to his heart condition'
Our experience was mixed. But mostly his needs as an Autistic adult were ignored. One particular incident with 1st cannulation attempt was shocking.
(The Registrar came to see us, bearing hot chocolate, to apologise which was nice until it was clear main motivation was to ensure I didn't make Complaint)
I was not informed of his test results.
I had to keep asking. The 1st 3 days staff seemed worried as previously healthy 19 y/o & his Tryponin kept climbing even with meds. After day 3 it started to drop. I saw they were less 'bothered' but no one told me his levels so I didn't know if 'good news' or just they were too busy. 4 diff Consultants (1 turned out to be a Registrar), diff Dr's & nurses. Many didn't have name/rank badges on. Not told who his main contact was. Comms were awful. Each person cancelled the previous person's tests. One day it changed 3 times. I took notes: I explained that when I'm stressed I don’t take things in well so notes help me but they (3 diff people) were obviously annoyed (in front of Ds)
His discharge letter says: 'discussion: for full escalation' which I'm reassured means they'd resuscitate in all events & didn't need to go over with me anyhow.
I'm very grateful he was treated. Our NHS is amazing. I didn't want them to dit and chat instead of treating my Ds / other patients. But it was scary to hear staff use words like 'rare', 'acute heart failure' & 'niche' & not feel I was being kept up to date & I really wasn't.
I slept in a chair for 5 days (as I left I was told I could've had a camp bed, also a proper bed in the relatives room) I was simply glad to be allowed to stay with him. To start with they where not keen but then said he was much more restless when I wasn't there (2 quick trips out to see Dd) so they were happy.
I was given tea & food. Staff were kind.
No Pals / Martha Law in Scotland.
I currently have a live formal complaint with another dept (I'm disabled & they cancelled my surgery but won't go over scans & explain why - the complaints process would make you weep) so
I'm reluctant to start another but Ds wants to write a letter to to MRI dept to explain how frightened he was & how it could have been made so much easier. Ditto cannulation. I will encourage that.
I'd like to say a MASSIVE THANK YOU to everyone who commented on this & my previous thread. I'd have survived it without MN but it would've been even tougher & I would have been in a less good state to support Ds. So, you have not only helped me enormously, you've helped my Ds too. THANK YOU all xxx