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Dessert, sweet, pudding or afters? Which do you say and where are you from?

216 replies

WildFlowerBees · 02/07/2024 21:49

We've always said pudding, Lancashire born. Having this conversation with someone who says sweet. Haven't heard it called that in years!

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WildFlowerBees · 02/07/2024 21:56

Where does sweet come from then?

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honeyfox · 02/07/2024 21:57

To me, a pudding is a subtype of dessert so this in particular drives me insane. Ice cream, for example, is NOT a pudding!

Jutemat · 02/07/2024 21:57

Cant believe theres no love for sweet! It was always sweet at school and I stuck with that forecer till I was put in my place and made to call it dessert

SwallowsAmazons · 02/07/2024 21:58

Pudding. My grandparents were the only people I ever heard use sweet.

MartyFunkhouser · 02/07/2024 21:59

Had parents with aspirations of poshness - so always pudding or pudding course.

Dessert was thought of as frightfully common.

Jutemat · 02/07/2024 22:00

honeyfox · 02/07/2024 21:57

To me, a pudding is a subtype of dessert so this in particular drives me insane. Ice cream, for example, is NOT a pudding!

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Exactly! Pudding is very specific. How could a yoghurt or a fruit/cream combo ever be called pudding.

PrincessOfPreschool · 02/07/2024 22:00

Pudding. I've been brought up all over but I guess my parents are mostly South East.

My son stared saying 'afters' when he went to school dinners? 🤣

allmycats · 02/07/2024 22:01

Pudding - Yorkshire

TheShellBeach · 02/07/2024 22:01

CurlewKate · 02/07/2024 21:55

I'm old and posh. So pudding.

Same. So pudding.

Dessert is actually a different course altogether.

Georgie8 · 02/07/2024 22:02

Pudding!

MrsSkylerWhite · 02/07/2024 22:02

Pudding. London and Cornwall.

TheShellBeach · 02/07/2024 22:02

MartyFunkhouser · 02/07/2024 21:59

Had parents with aspirations of poshness - so always pudding or pudding course.

Dessert was thought of as frightfully common.

Yep.

SwordToFlamethrower · 02/07/2024 22:02

Afters or dessert - South Yorkshire

user1471554720 · 02/07/2024 22:02

Sweet, rural Ireland

TeeBee · 02/07/2024 22:02

Dessert...unless I'm actually having a pudding. Midlands born but living down south.

NerdWhoEatsMedlar · 02/07/2024 22:03

As a kid we used to have mores, nexts or elses. Or just pudding if it was a good one.

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Silviasilvertoes · 02/07/2024 22:03

CurlewKate · 02/07/2024 21:55

I'm old and posh. So pudding.

This made me laugh. I’m not old or posh but my DF and DGPs were and pudding has stuck with me. Edited to say mid-Wales.

NoseNothing · 02/07/2024 22:04

Pudding. London.

Pedallleur · 02/07/2024 22:04

Pudding at home. Eating out? Bring me the dessert menu or push the dessert trolley over here please.

Sparkletastic · 02/07/2024 22:04

The class element is more of a factor than region imo.

Casacalida1 · 02/07/2024 22:04

Dessert - Ireland

YaWeeFurryBastard · 02/07/2024 22:05

Pudding, or sometimes dessert if in a restaurant. Was brought up to believe afters/sweet is extremely common.

pandasorous · 02/07/2024 22:06

dessert.....

grew up outside the uk until 12 then in London and south east

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 02/07/2024 22:09

From memory it’s a ‘class’ thing isn’t it? Pudding (upper), dessert (middle), sweet/afters (lower). We say pudding- rural Scotland - definitely not ‘upper class’ but parents and grandparents always wanted us to know what to say and do in any situation. Still not posh but bring at desserts.

Awrite · 02/07/2024 22:09

Pudding. Scotland.

We never had any 'pudding' type puddings. Except rice pudding. And bread and butter pudding. Would semolina be a pudding?

Scratch what I said then. We never had cake for pudding. Ever.