Family and friends should care for each other without financial compensation to a degree, and if you don’t believe this then you don’t believe in society and may as well be Thatcher. Where somebody has no family then of course they need paid care,
What are you going to do, force family members to care through court orders? Imprisonment if the family member refuses to be a carer? Mandate that people who've "got on their bikes" and moved away for work quit their jobs in London and move back to Shitsville-in-the-North to become carers? Issue extradition proceedings against people who've moved overseas? Force victims of parent-committed child abuse to care for their abusers? Force incest victims to care for their molester cousins or siblings?
And what quality of care do you think that coerced unpaid carers will give?
What you have suggested is impracticable, unenforceable, and utterly clueless.
then you don’t believe in society and may as well be Thatcher
Tell me that you never read that Women's Own interview in full without telling me that you never read that interview in full.
In context: I think we have been through a period when too many people have been given to understand that when they have a problem it is government’s job to cope with it. ‘I have a problem, I’ll get a grant. I’m homeless, the government must house me.’ They are casting their problems on society. And, you know, there is no such thing as society. There are individual men and women and there are families. And no governments can do anything except through people, and people must look to themselves first. It is our duty to look after ourselves and then, also, to look after our neighbours.
It's you who is parroting Thatcher here, with your insistance that disabled people with families mustn't be allowed State support.