I mentioned earlier in this thread about my DP and PIP (thank you to the lovely folk who replied - apologies for not responding, it all got a bit overwhelming).
So what I didn't mention is that I'm also autistic/ADHD, and I have two autistic DC. My DS will never live independently. My DD might be able to eventually but will need lots of support. Both have enormous struggles and require care both during the day and at night.
I have in front of me right now their DLA application forms. Literally, as I type this I'm looking at them. Do you know how long I've had these forms for? Over 10 years. My DC are 14 years old now (twins) and I really need to get my arse in gear to fill in these bastard forms.
Our life is so, so different from most people. I find it almost impossible to capture the differences. I don't think I even truly know how different our lives are and the accommodations we make every day to support our children's needs.
I am not a stupid woman. I have my own business and have been successfully self-employed for over 14 years. And yet, somehow filling in these stupid forms defeats me.
I should also point out that we could have REALLY used the money over the years. DS is still in nappies at age 14 and that alone costs a small fortune. LOL at the idea that the NHS provides what we need. We have been on our arse financially - and still I have struggled with these forms. Mainly because I feel the need to capture the answers accurately and it's really hard to do.
If a voucher scheme was introduced and you asked me to break down our additional costs, I don't think I could do it. I only know what our life is like, I can't really comprehend all the ways it's different to most other people. And I certainly couldn't begin to comprehend the many diverse and wide-ranging extra costs we have.
If we were told we had to claim vouchers and that we had to identify and claim our additional costs, I don't know what I would do. It's just too big a subject. There's just too much to be able to break it all down accurately.
Conversely, my DM has cerebral palsy and my dear departed dad had Huntington's Disease, I was his carer. I was able to fill in their various DLA forms etc without the same problems because their disabilities were much more objective and tangible (can't walk more than X steps, for example). The form was still bloody long and a big task but it was easier for me. It is simpler to list physical, visible requirements but that still doesn't encompass everything because of course there are still the invisible elements too. With a voucher scheme these would be inevitably overlooked.
But then I guess that achieves the goal for the Conservatives doesn't it? Lower costs, less to pay out - and who cares about the disabled person on the receiving end? That's not really their priority.