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How do you save a table at breakfast? Row with other guest

205 replies

PJHarvey · 14/06/2024 16:59

So you're staying in a hotel with one other person, and breakfast is a buffet where you can choose your own table. How do you save your spot?

  • take turns going up to get food, so there's always someone at the table.
  • both go up together but leave some belongings there, like a jacket or sunglasses.
  • something else to indicate your presence (if so what?)

I had a pretty unpleasant encounter with a horrible man this morning over this, and am wondering who is in the wrong.

OP posts:
LordSnot · 14/06/2024 17:00

Leave your sunglasses if you're both away from the table.

UsernameRedacted · 14/06/2024 17:00

We usually take it in turns

thistimelastweek · 14/06/2024 17:01

Leave belongings on the table.

SoulMole · 14/06/2024 17:01

Take it in turns

IncompleteSenten · 14/06/2024 17:01

It's probably clearer to take it in turns. Leaves no room for doubt.

LikeABondVillanDipshit · 14/06/2024 17:01

I’d probably have something on the table -jacket, glasses or whatever- or leave a person there, otherwise it’s just an empty table that anyone else could sit at. If someone else had sat there in our absence I would have just picked a different table rather than an argument.

Terrribletwos · 14/06/2024 17:01

You quickly go and get coffee and plonk it down with your bag and then go back to buffet.

Indigobird111 · 14/06/2024 17:01

Leave my bag or scarf over the chair, or a book or something on the table.

SisSuffragette · 14/06/2024 17:02

If there's 4 of us then two will go up at a time. If just 2 of us then we leave items on the table

cansu · 14/06/2024 17:02

I would leave aomething on table and go get juice. Put that down and then wandering over to buffet. It is then clear that table is already occupied.

EmpressaurusDeiGatti · 14/06/2024 17:02

Either taking turns or leaving something like a jacket on the table should be fine.

I usually holiday solo so I always mark the table with something, much easier than having to decide where to sit once I’ve got my food.

bergamotorange · 14/06/2024 17:02

I'd take turns to avoid issues, but I wouldn't seat myself at any table that had a personal possession on it as that should be enough to indicate someone is sitting there.

No3387 · 14/06/2024 17:02

Leave stuff on the table

KennaThomas · 14/06/2024 17:03

Take it in turns to avoid any confusion

TitInATrance · 14/06/2024 17:03

Leave belongings on table as that’s what I do if on my own.

BigFatSoberLife · 14/06/2024 17:05

Leave stuff or a person at the table

nearlysummerhooray · 14/06/2024 17:06

Just don't all leave table at same time.

CheeseWisely · 14/06/2024 17:06

Leave something low value on the table, a book or a newspaper.

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 14/06/2024 17:06

leave belongings an a drink, often a glass of water or juice

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 14/06/2024 17:07

Leave something at the table

HeddaGarbled · 14/06/2024 17:07

We always do the first one - take it in turns.

Fulshaw · 14/06/2024 17:07

Leaving something on the table should v be enough.

If you don’t have anything on you, then either take it in turns or go and get a juice or something to put on the table and go back for the rest.

Barleysugar86 · 14/06/2024 17:07

The table needs to be clearly being used- a single book might be easy to miss, either multiple items or a person.

PCcrisps · 14/06/2024 17:08

I was in a hotel on my own last week, so the challenge is even greater.

I got myself coffee before taking a table then put the coffee on "my" table while I went to get food.

Tara336 · 14/06/2024 17:08

We take turns

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