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This isn't an average 8 year olds drawing is it??

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delilabell · 27/05/2024 19:52

I'm bad at art always have been. But we are worried about dds development in several ways including fine motor skills.
Shes proudly just created this and I'm so chuffed for her but it's not average is it?

This isn't an average 8 year olds drawing is it??
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margymary · 28/05/2024 07:06

The more I look at it , the more I like it! And the writing of "daddy" is awesome. If one of my kids ( some adult ) could write like that I'd be thrilled.

belleager · 28/05/2024 07:08

Apart from anything else, is she a fan of Charlie and Lola or similar?

Kids don't really learn to draw people, usually. They learn to draw stylised representations of people. The hands and shoulders and faces point toward someone copying a cartoon style, possibly.

labamba007 · 28/05/2024 07:57

Hugmorecats · 27/05/2024 20:06

How is she with things like riding a bike or swinging?

I have dyspraxia and struggle with drawing, and riding a bike. I like to think I'm good at singing but probably not 😂

LateAF · 28/05/2024 08:47

My 7 year old is a better than average artist and draws more complex pictures than that (as does my 5 year old). But your daughter’s handwriting is better than both of theirs.

How much is she exposed to drawing and art? If she doesn’t lots of her spare time doing it then it’s not strange that her pictures look like that.

RheaRend · 28/05/2024 08:50

Numberblocks have times table songs - they are visual too so show the concept.

Bubbleswithsqueak · 28/05/2024 08:53

I really recommend this book:
Drawing with Children By Mona Brookes | Used & New | 9780874778274 | World of Books (wob.com)
and short YouTube videos on how to draw simple things (dragons are a great starting point as it doesn't matter if you get the proportions wrong).
I think we get mixed up between developmental drawing, which happens fairly naturally (i.e. moving from potato people to having a separate head, body and limbs) and actual drawing, which is a taught/learned skill like any other (and one that we don't teach very well if at all in schools).
My son's drawing was at that level at age 11. He got interested in drawing through YouTube and is now an incredibly talented artist (aged 18). Definitely something that can be learned!

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TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 28/05/2024 08:54

Well, I'm 57 and couldn't draw anything much better, either back in the day or now 😊

I had no developmental issues, am academic, hold down a professional job. I operate within defined parameters and am in the best of health. I'm just shit at art and all things 'crafty' 😊 Just like your DD, I have nice, neat handwriting 😊

Anecdotal, I know but, without any other signs, I wouldn't be too worried 🥰

jamimmi · 28/05/2024 08:57

The drawing looks like my ds at that age, the writing far better. The spelling and times tables sound very like both my kids who have processing issues and dyslexia. Both now young adults and doing fine. Son about to graduate and dd doing a levels. I'd push school for assessment or if u can afford it get a private dyslexia assessment through British dyslexia

Gutted101 · 28/05/2024 09:00

I couldn’t do any better and I am 34

Gutted101 · 28/05/2024 09:01

Ps I could just never draw and I had teachers and others laugh at my work . Everything else was fine apart from my drawing . I was in top sets too .

Otherstories2002 · 28/05/2024 09:03

No. It’s not. That’s more like age 5/6 level.

i hate to ask but how much time does she spend doing art work, drawing and colouring etc? These skills are being lost and it is often because they aren’t practicing.

Sdpbody · 28/05/2024 09:06

Typical 8 year olds would not be drawing to this standard, sorry OP.

YouJustDoYou · 28/05/2024 09:08

I'm 40 and my writing isn't as neat as that. Also, I can't draw for shit. She's better than me :)

DirtyDensDog · 28/05/2024 09:10

Hugmorecats · 27/05/2024 20:06

How is she with things like riding a bike or swinging?

😂 great typo

Pushmepullu · 28/05/2024 09:12

My son’s handwriting looks like your daughter’s OP, problem is he’s 30! I suspected dyspraxia but it turns out he’s hypermobile and can’t grip a pen properly, he wasn’t diagnosed until he was 18. Check to see if she’s holding crayons etc properly or if her fingers bend at a strange angle when she does, but if her teacher isn’t concerned then perhaps it’s just that she’s not very good at drawing.

Calliopespa · 28/05/2024 09:17

delilabell · 27/05/2024 20:34

I'm honestly not saying this for people to think I'm judging her.
I'm so proud of her and always cheer her on. But I am concerned about her and would like to hear off people for advice.
She has a selection of pens, paper and colouring crayons and we do sit together to draw and colour .

I wouldn’t worry too much OP. Is it a particular disability you worry about or just that she might be academically challenged? At the beginning of school there is a lot of emphasis on handwriting and drawing and basic academic skills like remembering times tables. The ones who are good at these skills are not necessarily the ones who steam ahead when it gets to quadratic equations and analytical skills. I’m always surprised how much weight even teachers put on these early skills but then I guess the ones doing it work with that age group and maybe never see where things end up.

I’ve known plenty of preschoolers who “ love numbers” and can shout out things like 152 while others are still learning to recognise numbers 1-20. One is now struggling with gcse maths because in fact number ( symbol) recognition doesn’t actually translate to mathematical ability. The only early skill I personally think has been indicative of ultimate potential has been reading. How is her reading? I don’t think the drawing looks too backward.

Samanabanana · 28/05/2024 09:17

My 8yo DC (male) is terrible at drawing - probably worse than the example from your DD. Similarly neat handwriting though. Top of the class for everything else - excellent reader and above average in all areas (except art!). Can't get the concept of swinging a swing, riding a bike and despite several years of swimming lessons, can just about not drown, but his technique is terrible. There's absolutely nothing to suggest he is ND and I think it's dangerous for so many posters to jump to those conclusions. Children have different talents and learn skills at different rates and that's absolutely normal and fine. No need to armchair diagnose at all!

Trainham · 28/05/2024 09:21

Have the school\you tried different types of pencil eg ,thick ,thin or a pencil gripper ( come in various shapes) . These minor adjustments can help massively. Her writing does look very legible and maybe art just not her forte.

Pinkjarblujar · 28/05/2024 09:22

I would be thinking dyslexia, dyspraxia, autism screening. We've been there with a very bright child who was this age - there's hope but you need to know what you're dealing with.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 28/05/2024 09:22

In my family as my parents were both artists in spare time, DB was also good and I was expected to be too. Looking back at that age and younger I wasn’t bad at all (better than this picture!).

But writing and reading was always more my forte.

Your DD’s writing is very good OP.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 28/05/2024 09:23

Otherstories2002 · 28/05/2024 09:03

No. It’s not. That’s more like age 5/6 level.

i hate to ask but how much time does she spend doing art work, drawing and colouring etc? These skills are being lost and it is often because they aren’t practicing.

Plus there’s cuts to art and drama lessons.

LakeTiticaca · 28/05/2024 09:23

The writing looks excellent but honestly I didn't realise kids were expected to be budding Picassos at 8 years old. Is this a new thing?

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 28/05/2024 09:31

Tristar15 · 27/05/2024 20:17

I cannot draw anything!! I’m perfectly competent and able at many other things but there isn’t an artistic bone in my body. She could just be not great at drawing.
I think the not retaining things is more of an issue. There can be developmental issues where retaining things like maths and spelling is hard due to lack of development in part of the brain. May be worth exploring thus if you’re worried. I wouldn’t worry about the drawing!

Me too - never could draw for toffee. Really used to envy the girls who were drawing ponies - that looked like ponies - all over their rough books.
Senior school art teacher used to write one word on my report - ‘Weak’. Thank goodness I could give it up once we had to make O level choices. (Ages ago obv.)
I was good at other things though.

Bromeliads · 28/05/2024 09:32

😂 great typo
Do you mean swinging? I don’t think that’s a typo. As in, using a swing?
I don’t think the drawing is awful. I wouldn’t be worrying off the back of that. Am I missing something on the handwriting though? It looks perfectly good, but it’s one word!

Thirtyandflailing · 28/05/2024 09:34

This is how my 5 year old draws, however, the writing is much neater than his

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