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Do you dress up to go out to restaurants? Gordon Ramsay is...

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KateDelRick · 27/05/2024 07:50

.. bemoaning the standards of dress at his restaurants. He's complaining that people wear casual clothing, joggers, hoodies etc. I like to dress up to go out to dine, but what do others think?.

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VictoriaEra · 27/05/2024 14:23

I always dress up to eat out. It's part of the fun of it.

DrJonesIpresume · 27/05/2024 14:25

Parker231 · 27/05/2024 13:29

I’ve been to both of his London Michelin restaurants and dressed casually - I’m most comfortable then and want to be comfortable when I’m out for any meal.

Well bully for you. Some people like to dress up for a special occasion and for us, eating somewhere like that would be for a particular special occasion - a wedding anniversary or some such. We don't have the sort of budget to consider it an everyday event.

SheilaFentiman · 27/05/2024 14:27

The 3* Michelin restaurant request wasn’t against “casual” but specifically shorts, hoodies and tracksuits.

Parker231 · 27/05/2024 14:31

DrJonesIpresume · 27/05/2024 14:25

Well bully for you. Some people like to dress up for a special occasion and for us, eating somewhere like that would be for a particular special occasion - a wedding anniversary or some such. We don't have the sort of budget to consider it an everyday event.

As I said, everyone should wear what they are comfortable in - different for different people. Neither style is right or wrong.

Cattery · 27/05/2024 14:32

BettyBlueHat · 27/05/2024 07:54

Depends on the restaurant. I don’t wear hoodies and leggings. But Gordon Ramsay restaurants aren’t exactly high calibre so not sure I’d get dressed up as such. But as I say I don’t wear hoodies and leggings anyway

His restaurant at The Savoy Grill is

GellerYeller · 27/05/2024 14:43

I know someone who, by her own admission, has to be ‘the most overdressed person in the place’. She would approve of this dress code!
It does look a bit old fashioned IMHO. Not that the rest of our group is in hoodies and joggers, but I think she enjoys her ‘refugee from Real Housewives of Cheshire’ status…

VerlynWebbe · 27/05/2024 14:45

Usually not but I wouldn't wear a hoody and joggers. A blouse/trousers more likely no matter which restaurant, unless it's fast food/Pizza Express kind of thing.

Wexone · 27/05/2024 14:45

Precipice · 27/05/2024 11:48

I actually got onto my Husbands aunt for changing into runners straight after the my wedding ceremony, everyone from Chanel to Primark makes nice flats if don't want to wear heels, runners are not appropriate for a wedding.

Runners aren't appropriate for a wedding, but telling off your guests for how they're dressed isn't appropriate either.

I didn't Chasten her and we have a very good relationship - She got a good bit of jeering for wearing them from her family aswell ( she has 6 sisters). She regularly was comment on people what they wear so it was a bit pot and kettle of her.

Wexone · 27/05/2024 14:48

Funnywonder · 27/05/2024 11:46

I actually got onto my Husbands aunt for changing into runners straight after the my wedding ceremony, everyone from Chanel to Primark makes nice flats if don't want to wear heels, runners are not appropriate for a wedding.

I hope she felt suitably chastened🙄

She regularly comments on peoples clothes so it was a bit pot and kettle is Black of her.

Jegersur · 27/05/2024 14:51

Yes, I would dress up.

1983Louise · 27/05/2024 14:58

I love dressing up, I'd wear a fascinator to sainsburys if I could 😊 I think it's why we're all getting fatter, elastic waists have a great deal to answer for.

Iwasafool · 27/05/2024 15:53

EasilyDefined · 27/05/2024 10:27

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest TBH. Atmosphere is more about behaviour than dress.

I'm more worried about the food than other diners and their choice of clothes.

YourPinkDog · 27/05/2024 16:52

This reminds me of when wine bars and clubs would not let anyone in wearing jeans and trainers.
Gordon Ramsey is an older man rallying against changes. He is saying - back in my day we would never have dressed like this. He needs to move with the times.

Sillystrumpet · 27/05/2024 16:59

YourPinkDog · 27/05/2024 16:52

This reminds me of when wine bars and clubs would not let anyone in wearing jeans and trainers.
Gordon Ramsey is an older man rallying against changes. He is saying - back in my day we would never have dressed like this. He needs to move with the times.

Don’t be silly now. Joggy bottoms and a hoodie when going out for dinner to a nice restaurant is not moving with the times.😂

K0OLA1D · 27/05/2024 17:01

BettyBlueHat · 27/05/2024 07:56

hoodies and leggings have no place other than the gym and slobbing at home

There is nothing wrong with black leggings and a long top/dress etc.

LuckySantangelo35 · 27/05/2024 17:27

Sillystrumpet · 27/05/2024 16:59

Don’t be silly now. Joggy bottoms and a hoodie when going out for dinner to a nice restaurant is not moving with the times.😂

Who could argue with this?!

spot on!

SpringBunnies · 27/05/2024 17:29

I grew up eating out 2-3 times a week. Some nice restaurants, some hotels, and some street food types. Never dressed up. I just wear what I’m comfortable with.

BoudiccaOfSuburbia · 27/05/2024 17:32

LOL, not sure why GR is getting all this criticism, so many places have dress codes, M* or not, and most are more extensive and more sternly announced than the message on the RGR website.

The Ritz Dress Code (throughout hotel and for eating sandwiches)
https://www.theritzlondon.com/faqs/

Veersswamy (M* Indian) DC: https://www.veeraswamy.com/faqs/
“Our dress code is Smart / Elegant.
No track bottoms, shorts (men), torn or scruffy jeans, flip flops or sportswear & baseball caps are allowed. Our restaurant managers will use utmost discretion and have complete authority to deny access to any guest whose attire and overall appearance doesn’t comply with these requirements.”

Rules (no stars, popular London restaurant)
Dress code: Whilst Jacket or tie are not required, we prefer smart dress.
Rules is delighted to welcome Families during the day, however, Children under ten years of age will no longer be allowed in the Restaurant after 7.00pm.
NO SHORTS OR SPORTSWEAR.”

Groucho Club (private club for arts and media folk) :
“Do you have a dress code? We assume the effortless and impeccable good taste of our membership would not necessitate a code, however the notorious and exhaustive Groucho Book of rules states the following: 'The wearing of string vests is fully unacceptable and wholly proscribed by Club Rules.“

Fabric (night club)
“We operate a casual dress code so jeans, trainers and caps are allowed. If you'd like to check if a particular item of clothing is permitted, please call the office between 10am-7pm. And yes, you can wear shorts in the club. We DO NOT allow fancy dress, business suits, team colours, flags or any day glow wear.”

Sketch (M*)
very particular and a bit terrifying, ‘art smart’ ’with a sense of style’ specifies fabrics. (Nothing diaphanous or see through) No beachwear, nothing ‘immodest’, requires guests to be ‘well dressed at all times ‘ and will chick people out for not meeting their standards. I can’t copy the link.

FAQs | Afternoon Tea Prices & Dress Code | The Ritz London

Discover our Frequently Asked Questions about The Ritz London, including our afternoon tea prices and hotel dress code. Find out more about The Ritz here.

https://www.theritzlondon.com/faqs/

KateDelRick · 27/05/2024 17:36

Interesting, @BoudiccaOfSuburbia
I think a lot of places have a dress code, and I've seen it on wedding invitations recently.

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NewName24 · 27/05/2024 18:02

Depends on the occasion and the particular restaurant.
I mean, I wouldn't go out to eat in my joggers either way, but if it is a "can't be bothered to cook, let's go out for something to eat" situation, I'd go in my jeans. However, if it were a special occasion, then I'd dress up.

CommeIlFaut · 27/05/2024 19:49

Does anyone remember when the dress code at Le Gavroche was so particular that of a man removed his jacket, a waiter would sidle up and say, ‘Would you like me to turn the heating down, Sir?’

Iwasafool · 27/05/2024 19:53

CommeIlFaut · 27/05/2024 19:49

Does anyone remember when the dress code at Le Gavroche was so particular that of a man removed his jacket, a waiter would sidle up and say, ‘Would you like me to turn the heating down, Sir?’

I wonder what they said if the man said no his wife would be too cold.

EasilyDefined · 27/05/2024 21:59

LuckySantangelo35 · 27/05/2024 13:15

Going to a restaurant wearing hiking gear should be against the law. Everyone knows how untrendy and unflattering it is.

Maybe, maybe not.

How Chris Packham has become a style icon for school-gate dads

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/26de04d3-77d0-414e-84bc-fd7cd3f3efb8?shareToken=ed7c83d484fba5b8eaebb808be841d9d

How Chris Packham has become a style icon for school-gate dads

Gore-Tex trainers? Check! Waterproof trousers? Yes please! How midlife men are taking on the gorpcore trend

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/26de04d3-77d0-414e-84bc-fd7cd3f3efb8?shareToken=ed7c83d484fba5b8eaebb808be841d9d

beguilingeyes · 27/05/2024 22:23

YourPinkDog · 27/05/2024 16:52

This reminds me of when wine bars and clubs would not let anyone in wearing jeans and trainers.
Gordon Ramsey is an older man rallying against changes. He is saying - back in my day we would never have dressed like this. He needs to move with the times.

He's a world class chef and it's his restaurant. If he doesn't want people in shorts that's his prerogative. He's not saying it should apply everywhere.
He's 57, he's not exactly ancient.

littletesco · 28/05/2024 01:12

@unlimiteddilutingjuice like this?

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