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Can I get in trouble for doing this

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Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 17:07

I'm mid 40s . For a long time I have been trying to find out why I went to a school for children with learning difficulties. I know i have learning difficulties but I don't really know what they are.

So I heard I may be able to find out via my medical records we are talking 35+ years ago though. Anyway I went on to the Web site thing for my gp surgery. It said to access my medical history I would need to send photo ID it gave the common ones for driving licence. Passport ID card. Then it had the option of other so I pressed on that abd it gave me other options. I did not understand what it was really.

So here's what I done I recently sent for photo ID on the government site that will allow me to vote. It has a photo of myself and other personal details. So I took a photo of that and sent that to the gp as my photo ID. It wasn't even on the list as an option.

Can i get into any sort of trouble for using it?

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LIZS · 25/05/2024 18:08

That link does not suggest a birth certificate needs a signature if you supply one of the other documents - do you receive benefits or have a payslip with ni number for example

Grmumpy · 25/05/2024 18:08

I think the school is possibly more likely to know. I once taught a lovely bright boy at college who had been to a special needs school and was on an entry course at college. He was dyslexic ( undiagnosed) but I was told that part of the reason he had been placed and kept there was because of a very unsettled home life..the special needs school could look after him better,

Aurle · 25/05/2024 18:10

I understand why you want to find out, finding out what specific learning difficulties you have can help you. I recently went down a similar path to you of finding out some specifics and I’d echo going into the gps in person and reaching out to the school to find out if they still have the records.

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Singleandproud · 25/05/2024 18:13

It's likely those records won't exist anymore. Schools keep information until the child is 25 then get shredded.

How additional needs is classified is different now to how it was back then. I'd work on narrowing it down, you dont have to answer these just have a think about some of these examples, there are of course others.
Complex Medical needs
Physical disability with mobility needs
Sensory needs, hearing / vision
Speech and Language: Late talking, situations mutism
Social and communication: Autism and ADHD - Look at the Autism Girls Network and see if anything on autism fits, it may have been called child schizophrenia then, often struggle with loud noises, like routine
Academic struggles: dyslexia if you struggled to read, dyscalculia if you struggle with maths
Processing speed - slower on the up take of things as it takes longer to process

Often children will have several conditions together or will be given a label like 'moderate learning difficulties' because they haven't assessed something specific. Research into additional needs have moved on a long way in 30 years.

neilyoungismyhero · 25/05/2024 18:17

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 17:30

I don't know . I tried call reception once and they just talking over me . Not actually listening . Like they didn't want to know just talking over me. So i got no where

Sometimes it's much easier to just pop in and ask for help. My surgery sent me a bloods appointment link the other day but I couldn't access the site. I went in and they sorted it all in about 3 minutes plus giving me bottles for a urine sample, - not sure how I could have managed to source those online. There's always a way. Good luck

Ciderlout · 25/05/2024 18:19

Hi OP

Most posters are lovely but you alway get one 🙄

There was a school in my local city in the 90’s for children that would struggle in mainstream, but didn’t struggle enough to go to a school for children with profound/multiple learning difficulties and disabilities.

I guess children that had severe dyslexia, dyscalculia, ADHD, ASD etc and those kind of SEN. They closed it down though because of funding, so now it’s either mainstream or a specialist school, as mentioned above.

There are kids in mainstream that really struggle but the spaces for the specialist school are limited so only the children with the most severe need get a place.

If you were at school now, you’d have probably been placed in mainstream.

Can you remember what it was called? Is there anything on Google?

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 18:20

Notreat · 25/05/2024 18:03

You won't get into trouble.
But you have a right to see your medical records and to know why you went to a special school and what learning difficulties you may have.
Can you ask your GPs surgery to help you access your records?

That's what's annoying. It should be easy to ask the GP but it does not feel like its that easy or simple vit always feel like there's something in the way

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Singleandproud · 25/05/2024 18:21

Also I have the NHS app and I can only see new records not old ones.

friskybivalves · 25/05/2024 18:22

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 17:24

I think someone needs to sign... I will look to

Do you know literally anyone who is a civil servant? Who works maybe as a benefits coach and knows you as a friend rather than through work? They can sign a passport form.

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 18:25

TroysMammy · 25/05/2024 18:04

I'm sure they want id to make sure they are giving a patient's information to the patient and not some nosy parker. Do they know you in the surgery as a long standing patient? If so ask for a chat face to face with the Practice Manager and supply your birth certificate and proof of address.

I've been a receptionist for 15 years so I pretty much know the regular patients and I've confirmed "known to surgery staff as long standing patient" and signed my name as confirmation. Although I know not all surgeries and staff can be flexible.

No I have not been to the gp for many years probably over 15 years. I didn't have a gp for about 6 of them years . I have only had the recent gp for about a year ish . I had 1 appointment on the phone about iron levels and that's it.

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TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 25/05/2024 18:25

Dearg · 25/05/2024 17:25

Op, can you ask your GP surgery to assist you in gaining access? Your voter id may be acceptable along with , for example, a bill with your name & address.

You will not be the first person who does not have a passport or driving licence, so I would think they ought to be able to help you.

Despite some of the shitty responses, you have done nothing wrong and it’s reasonable for you to want to know.

Yes - I'd try speaking to your surgery in person or over the phone. Explain you want to access your medical records and ask what your options are without the required ID. You won't be the only person in this position, and hopefully they can help.

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 18:26

friskybivalves · 25/05/2024 18:22

Do you know literally anyone who is a civil servant? Who works maybe as a benefits coach and knows you as a friend rather than through work? They can sign a passport form.

No there's no one

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EasilyDefined · 25/05/2024 18:28

I agree with going in to the surgery and speaking to them. Also did you know that GPs can add you to a list of patients with learning difficulties, this means you get a health check-up every year, you can nominate another adults to speak with them on your behalf if necessary and the staff are aware of your conditions and can take them into account when communicating with you, it would be worth asking about this.

friskybivalves · 25/05/2024 18:28

So sorry - the thread had moved along quite a lot and I hadn't seen all your answers. My bad. I am sorry if my answer was insensitive. But surprising people are civil servants and it might be worth asking around.

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 18:30

EasilyDefined · 25/05/2024 18:28

I agree with going in to the surgery and speaking to them. Also did you know that GPs can add you to a list of patients with learning difficulties, this means you get a health check-up every year, you can nominate another adults to speak with them on your behalf if necessary and the staff are aware of your conditions and can take them into account when communicating with you, it would be worth asking about this.

Seems pointless when i don't actually know what they are

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BlackCatsAreBrilliant · 25/05/2024 18:35

It's worth trying the school just in case. A couple of years ago I got a copy of my O-level results from my old school, so they may still have something from that long ago. You've nothing to lose by asking.

I hope you are able to get the information you're looking for.

Rainbows89 · 25/05/2024 18:37

This is a bit random but I’m just thinking outside the box. You mentioned your children - do they have any learning difficulties? Because some things are hereditary. It might help add a piece to the puzzle. or might your sister know anything?

also, what do you remember struggling with at school?

I can totally understand you wanting to find out. I hope you can get some answers

LIZS · 25/05/2024 18:37

Seems pointless when i don't actually know what they are

It is not about diagnosis but the vulnerabilities your difficulties cause.

Singleandproud · 25/05/2024 18:38

@Dopeydoris44 what do you struggle with?
How additional needs are classified are different now anyway but we could probably help you build a shortlist of you wanted some closure. I've listed some common ones above, and then there are others like Foetal Alcohol Syndrome if your mum was a drinker etc if that's why you are non contact.

If it's generally finding things overwhelming and struggling in social situations then it's likely to be autism which was (is) massively undiagnosed in girls many were diagnosed eating disorders or bipolar instead.

BobbyBiscuits · 25/05/2024 20:04

@Dopeydoris44 thanks. Passports are very annoying! It can be someone retired.
A neighbour who's a civil servant, or even an ex teacher at yours or kids school?
I hope you get it sorted.

Georgyporky · 25/05/2024 20:07

Could you go to the GP surgery and talk to them ?
They might have been offhand on the 'phone, but will probably be more helpful face-to-face.

Combattingthemoaners · 25/05/2024 20:32

Mindblownawaybyfog · 25/05/2024 17:10

Why would you use an ID that wasn't in the list and expect it to be accepted?

Knob

Allthehorsesintheworld · 25/05/2024 20:42

There is a small possibility that the GP website hasn’t updated to allow for the Voter ID. It’s a fairly recent thing.
If it’s rejected go along and speak to the receptionist or ask for the practice manager. Take your birth certificate, and something like a Council Tax bill that’ll have your name and address on it.
Hope you get the info you want.

RunningAllDay · 25/05/2024 20:42

OP - you can ask your GP surgery for a full copy of your paper records - you may need to ask them in a formal letter. You should not need ID (online access is only for helpful records going forwards, although you should be able to see 'codes' for existing diagnoses).

Or, alternatively, if you don't know what you are looking for, or if you think you might be flummoxed and not be able to see the wood for the trees, I would make an appt with a doctor and ask them to explain any diagnoses and significant events to you so that you can understand your own medical history.

I know, as a GP, I would take enormous pleasure in such an appointment. I hope you manage to find what you need.

Dopeydoris44 · 25/05/2024 20:58

RunningAllDay · 25/05/2024 20:42

OP - you can ask your GP surgery for a full copy of your paper records - you may need to ask them in a formal letter. You should not need ID (online access is only for helpful records going forwards, although you should be able to see 'codes' for existing diagnoses).

Or, alternatively, if you don't know what you are looking for, or if you think you might be flummoxed and not be able to see the wood for the trees, I would make an appt with a doctor and ask them to explain any diagnoses and significant events to you so that you can understand your own medical history.

I know, as a GP, I would take enormous pleasure in such an appointment. I hope you manage to find what you need.

Could I do anything with freedom of information?

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