Daughters harassed by older boys on outing

[DispleasedMumof2]

My mother popped by earlier to see the girls and she always brings a small gift for when when she arrives sweets make up etc but on this occasion she gave Rhein a £100 each apparently it’s to make up for not seeing them for 2 weeks because she’s going Benidorm.

The girls have been wanting to go gravity for quite some time but with money being tight I’ve not had the funds to take them unfortunately.

while my eldest was waiting or the bus she said there was older boys making sexual comments about them both something along the lines of “I wonder what one takes the better pounding” I told them just just ignore them and call me when they get there.

after they arrived and paid the group of boys unfortunately was attending it is well
through out the evening the boys kept making comments after the paid for something to eat my youngest needed her shoes tied (dyspraxic) whilst eldest was doing her shoes one of the boys come over and said “cooorrr that’s something to think about later” (obviously looking between her legs)

after they was leaving one of the boys decided to slap my youngest bottoms luckily one of my friends sons saw what happened and got involved and kindly gave them a lift home

i am just absolutely disgusted at the minds of teenagers these days

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did you witness this?

I heard them in the background when daughters was waiting for the bus and friends son saw what happened at the end

Honestly that's disgusting, but if you heard it over the phone couldn't you have gone and joined your children? It must have been hard for them to deal with that alone.

I’m just completely on utter disbelief my daughters are 12/14 and no way appear to look older than they actually are

Why didn’t you call the police? Your daughters were sexually harassed, intimidated and assaulted!

They harnessed your daughter? As in tied her up?

there is a full moon tonight, isn’t there

I mentioned that to the girls but they fudge want that to ruin the evening

I also rang my sister to see where my nephew was but he is out of the country currently which I was unaware of

I think she meant HARASSED.

I don't know what 'Gravity' is but assuming it's a venue for young people, you should report the assault and get them to check their CCTV.

I’m going to do that first thing in the morning

This is awful... what should have been an exciting treat for them has been destroyed by those little pricks!!!! Absolutely report to police. When I was 12 years old I could go out with my friends with no fear of this kind of shit happening. Sadly it seems that this is no longer the case these days which is very depressing.

The OP means 'harrassed'

Just a quick update

Had a phone call from my mates son he said he’s found out who one of the boys are.

He said he’s good friends with the boys older brother and his brother is not very happy at this particular moment in time.

According to him the boy is refusing to come home and opted to stay at a friends tonight! I wonder why?… 🤔🤔🤔

I'm sure the fact that he slapped her bottom would be classed as an offence. I know someone who did this on a train (when he was drunk) a few years ago. The woman reported him,he was arrested,and ended up having to wear a tag for 3 months.

Honestly you don't seem that arsed. They're 12/14 and you heard what the boys said at the bus and did naff all about it. And you avoid PP who mentioned this before. Between midnight and 1am you wrote 'I'll report it in the morning' why not report it then or when it happened. If it's a venue for young people I still would let a 12/14 year old go alone and get a lift home with 'a friends son'

Honestly do you not watch the news. Anything could of happened but you only "heard" what happened at the bus stop and did nothing 🤷🏽‍♀️

@Doobeeedooo

Because why? Do you think young women aren't sexually harassed? Because they are and asking for evidence or witnesses makes you sound like an apologist.

@TheShellBeach

It was clear when she meant from context.

@Bumblebee907

What on earth are you talking about? Private school boys are just as shitty and sexist but expect to face consequences less. So no, it's not a council estate drama, it's a male entitlement issue.

It's like Wanker-Whack-a-Mole here today.

@DispleasedMumof2
Report this to the police today that your daughter was sexually assaulted,

There must be Cctv cameras at this venue and possible nearby the bus stop too,

what Arseholes these kinds of teenagers boys were on that day...

WTAF? You're dismissing sexual harassment and assault of 2 minors, and being snobby about it too?

You're a complete disgrace.

How is 2 kids getting sexually harassed 'council estate drama'? This happens everywhere, everyday, not just in council estate. Do you live in some sort of posh bubble that things like this never happen?

I suspect she’s referring to the fact that, instead of going out to the bus stop to accompany her daughters when she knew they were being sexually harassed by older teenagers, she’s spent her time on FB finding out that her cousin’s friend’s hairdresser knows the brother of one of the boy’s mum’s exes, and apparently he’s always up to no good.

I wouldn’t have phrased it quite like @Bumblebee907 did, but it does come across as somebody trying to start a beef with another family, rather than trying to protect her daughters from being harassed.

I'm struggling to understand where your 'out of the country' nephew fits into the story...was he supposed to be with your daughters?