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If you could decide how much people get in benefits

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OneLemonOrca · 09/05/2024 22:53

There are benefit bashing threads being posted often, with complaints that certain people on benefits can afford a better lifestyle than them when they work, and that it is being made into a life style choice?
So if you could decide, I am just wondering how much you think benefit claimants should receive in certain circumstances or what their money should or shouldn’t be able to pay for, to get a general idea of what mumsnet thinks is “right”.

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vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:49

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:47

How could you have given up work? I thought you voluntarily quit work and didn’t job seek you wouldn’t be allowed to claim?

Any way that was years ago, they now 26 and 24.

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:50

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:49

Any way that was years ago, they now 26 and 24.

Mmmmm..

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:50

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:50

Mmmmm..

WTF you mean Mmmmmm??????

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:50

XenoBitch · 10/05/2024 22:48

Not read the thread yet...

I am on UC (my sole income, am LCWRA).

I live frugally, and live according to my means. I can afford the occasional treat. I was told, here on MN, that the fact I can treat myself to the occasional Costa means that I am being paid too much. FFS, I have no control over the amounts I get paid.. but that poster made it sound like I should pay my bills, and send any excess back to DWP.

That is the mindset of some of the benefit bashers here ATM.

An occasional Costa is one thing, being a second property owner while claiming UC is another (see previous post)

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:52

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:50

WTF you mean Mmmmmm??????

Just that you seemed to question dodge. Everyone on here says it’s impossible to live off benefits as a lifestyle choice yet you said it would’ve been really easy to do it?

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:52

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:41

Erm maybe I missed a bit out, I was divorced when they were 8 and 6 and I was doing 24 hours a week. I could have given up work totally but I didn't, I kept going.

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I think it makes sense if you’re a single mum to work part time and be topped up by benefits If there’s no other option, but it’s a shame the government doesn’t aggressively pursue shameless men who don’t support their children more. The cost should really be on them.

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 22:52

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:45

Yes, it’s really not a made up thing . My childhood friend didn’t work at all until the youngest of her 3 kids began school.

Her kids are now all teens and she still only works 12-16 hours a week. She receives
UC. Her partner does casual manual labouring work and is often part time too. although some weeks he does do full time.

When she first began work her benefits advice person told her not to do more than 16 hours. It’s a common thing people do.

I think we need to look at the system and why it’s more profitable in some cases to work part time even if your kids are not needing childcare. I don’t think it’s about blaming individuals.

Edit to add: the father of her oldest child promptly stopped working when she left him over a decade ago so he wouldn’t have to pay maintenance. He’s claimed some kind of disability he won’t disclose to her and has never worked since she left him . He was fit and well enough when he was knocking her about though before she escaped.

There’s far more people at the top evading tax that are more of a concern tbh as it costs us more money, but I still wouldn’t pretend that a lot of people aren’t gaming the system at the other end too.

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The 16 hours thing doesn't exist any more under UC!!! How many times does it need saying.

Loubelle70 · 10/05/2024 22:53

Cocopogo · 09/05/2024 23:07

It should be so low that people are forced to work. No one should see it as a long term lifestyle choice.
There should be fruit and veg vouchers, clothing vouchers, utilities etc, rent paid direct rather than money but I guess that’d cost too much to run.
For context I am on benefits, working full time and it is too much money but I don’t drink or smoke etc and no I won’t be giving it back but I do a fair bit for charity.

I don't believe you.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:53

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:52

I think it makes sense if you’re a single mum to work part time and be topped up by benefits If there’s no other option, but it’s a shame the government doesn’t aggressively pursue shameless men who don’t support their children more. The cost should really be on them.

Thank you

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:54

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:52

Just that you seemed to question dodge. Everyone on here says it’s impossible to live off benefits as a lifestyle choice yet you said it would’ve been really easy to do it?

It's water under the bridge now 🙄

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:54

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 22:52

The 16 hours thing doesn't exist any more under UC!!! How many times does it need saying.

Well I’ve never seen it said. I don’t frequent benefit threads and have not RTFT of this one yet .

Well she gets some kind of in-work benefits to enable her to work 16 hours and has been since 2016.

I just assumed everyone had been moved on to UC but perhaps not?

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 22:55

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/05/2024 22:09

I had no choice when mine were younger, single mum part time until both were in secondary school. Then I upped my hours when my youngest was 13, then full time when she finished and went to college.

I worked full time since mine was 7 as a lone parent with no help. You do have a choice, not an easy one admittedly but there's no reason not to work full time when kids are at secondary school at least. They don't need childcare at that age.

drummermumma · 10/05/2024 22:56

Backinthedress · 09/05/2024 22:58

I think there should be a universal basic income, calculated to cover the cost of living. Actually living. Not the minimum wage crap we have now. People can then top this up with salary or wages. This blanket income benefit would reduce the cost of administration massively and save all this quibbling because everybody would get it from the age of 18 (or whatever was decided) and there would be no unfairness.

Yes!

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 22:57

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:54

Well I’ve never seen it said. I don’t frequent benefit threads and have not RTFT of this one yet .

Well she gets some kind of in-work benefits to enable her to work 16 hours and has been since 2016.

I just assumed everyone had been moved on to UC but perhaps not?

Then stop talking about things you don't know and spreading the 16 hour myth. It's about a decade out of date. Under UC, it's a requirement to work 30 hours once youngest is age 3 depending on salary.

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:59

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 22:57

Then stop talking about things you don't know and spreading the 16 hour myth. It's about a decade out of date. Under UC, it's a requirement to work 30 hours once youngest is age 3 depending on salary.

Calm down. I made a mistake about the type of benefit she receives perhaps but the rest is accurate so my main point still stands . She works 16 hours and receives top up benefits (and she’s not a single parent).

treacledan71 · 10/05/2024 23:02

When I earned a bit less and was only entitled to a small bit childcare benefits which i was grateful for. I got a bit cross with a school mom that never worked and chose not to live with her 3 kids' dad so got single parent benefits, at the time you did not get pressure to work if one kid was under 4. Also rent paid for. We picked up the same but she got free dentist, prescription, free school dinners and no travel to pay out or childcare so I literally had a lot less left. Her Chap lived with his mom and paid for a lot of stuff for the kids. My husband's business was struggling. What I mean probably people that work pay out a lot more. The net value should be looked at. I remember my son crying that he could not have school dinners as I could not afford it. I am glad now people that work that are on universal credit on a certain level get free dinners. Obviously as well people that don't get any maintenance struggle too.

Beezknees · 10/05/2024 23:02

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:59

Calm down. I made a mistake about the type of benefit she receives perhaps but the rest is accurate so my main point still stands . She works 16 hours and receives top up benefits (and she’s not a single parent).

Those benefits are being phased out so it won't be an issue soon. Not many people are still left on them. UC is vastly different and much stricter.

JosiePosey · 10/05/2024 23:17

makeanddo · 09/05/2024 23:06

People who work should get paid a proper salary for a decent lifestyle.

Benefits, unless for disabled people, should be just above poverty line. There should be a clear distinction/advantage between being on benefits and working

Men/parent should have to pay for DC, the state is not a parent. Maintenance should be factored in when receiving benefits.

The state should get on and build housing so the taxpayer isn't paying off landlords mortgages.

This.

Miley1967 · 10/05/2024 23:31

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:54

Well I’ve never seen it said. I don’t frequent benefit threads and have not RTFT of this one yet .

Well she gets some kind of in-work benefits to enable her to work 16 hours and has been since 2016.

I just assumed everyone had been moved on to UC but perhaps not?

The earnings threshold on UC that people are expected to meet are still pretty low, especially for couples.

XenoBitch · 10/05/2024 23:50

Welovecrumpets · 10/05/2024 22:50

An occasional Costa is one thing, being a second property owner while claiming UC is another (see previous post)

I thought a second property was an asset when claiming UC.

XenoBitch · 10/05/2024 23:58

OneLemonOrca · 10/05/2024 00:10

I can’t do anything to improve certain disabilities I have to the point that I could work and no ability to get rid of them. It is different with mild mental health issues, more difficult with severe mental health issues but not impossible. Again I’m not minimising how hard it is as I have multiple severe mental health issues that massively impact my life myself. I think if you can do something to improve or get rid of your mental health condition, you shouldn’t be able to claim benefits forever with no incentive to get better

Really?
How any employers are happy to take on someone who ends up in A&E/police cells/136 regularly?
Or who has not worked for over a decade?
I have spent most of my life trying to "get rid of my mental health condition"... when it is more like trying to get rid of myself.
I would love to be able to work... and have money for things that are literally not just bills.

How will you determine who is not "trying hard enough" with their MH issues? Will you be happy to see them in poverty?
Fucking stroll on.

QueenOfTheEntireFuckingUniverse · 11/05/2024 00:24

Tamigotxh · 10/05/2024 22:59

Calm down. I made a mistake about the type of benefit she receives perhaps but the rest is accurate so my main point still stands . She works 16 hours and receives top up benefits (and she’s not a single parent).

The not being a single parent bit is kind of important. A couple have a certain amount of money they have to earn between them. My DB and SIL manage quite easily by having a part time job each.

OneLemonOrca · 11/05/2024 01:19

XenoBitch · 10/05/2024 23:58

Really?
How any employers are happy to take on someone who ends up in A&E/police cells/136 regularly?
Or who has not worked for over a decade?
I have spent most of my life trying to "get rid of my mental health condition"... when it is more like trying to get rid of myself.
I would love to be able to work... and have money for things that are literally not just bills.

How will you determine who is not "trying hard enough" with their MH issues? Will you be happy to see them in poverty?
Fucking stroll on.

You’re being aggressive and talking like you have a point but you don’t. You’re not completely incapacitated from working, and I am disgusted that you’ve been enabled to not get better and sit on benefits for 10 years. There are things you could do to improve your mental health and quality of life everyday, there is a lot of advice. When you’re better, you could set up a business from home, and sell online.
I have disabilities where my capacity and abilities fluctuate a lot. There are times during the day that I can’t communicate properly, focus or pay attention. I lose my spatial awareness and have interception issues. I have a condition effecting my joints, bones, skin and nervous system, causing diarrhoea and chronic pain daily. Most of my energy goes on my basic needs and there is nothing that I can do to improve these disabilities and I will have them for the rest of my life. Your mental health issues can be improved and you shouldn’t be enabled to do nothing to improve them

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Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 11/05/2024 05:28

Universal hasn’t been rolled out in my area - it was delayed due to Covid.

NineChickennuggets · 11/05/2024 06:40

"Councils ferrying children in taxis miles and miles because the nearest school doesn't meet the child's needs, why can't the parent do this?"

Why can't the council provide a school that meets the child's needs close to home as it does for children without disabilities?