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Auriol Grey conviction overturned

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Icantpossibly · 08/05/2024 16:44

The original decision split opinion and I have no doubt today’s one will do the same.
I saw the report in The Independent online.
Aplogies if this duplicates another post. I looked and couldn’t see one

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CormorantStrikesBack · 18/05/2024 11:45

how close were they to each other when Gray moved towards her shouting and gesticulating?

Because I got the impression that the cyclist didn’t have much time to react? So quite close to each other. And that the cyclist’s instinctive reaction was to swerve a bit hence how she ended up in the road getting run over.

DriftingDora · 18/05/2024 11:45

Kalevala · 18/05/2024 08:49

I find it odd that some posters on this and the previous thread have said that Grey walking directly at the cyclist, blocking the shared path, was a reasonable fear response, yet that a cyclist would have stopped if she was afraid.

Yes, rather inconsistent to say the least, isn't it?

DriftingDora · 18/05/2024 11:51

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 09:22

Because you're the sort of poster who likes to start unpleasant arguments on any thread and will stay up til the early hours to do that?

I am not blaming the victim in this case whatsoever, I'm just picking up on a comment a poster made earlier ie joining in the discussion.

Because you're the sort of poster who likes to start unpleasant arguments on any thread and will stay up til the early hours to do that?

In a nutshell, VinnieVanDog.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2024 12:02

CormorantStrikesBack · 18/05/2024 11:42

Yes, very odd that that’s what Auriol Grey chose to do isn’t it?

From what I could see, Auriol Grey chose rightly or wrongly to approach and even try to stop Celia Ward from cycling.

I am guessing Auriol was partly scared but also irritated that a cyclist was cycling where to Auriol’s mind “she shouldn’t be cycling”. Hence Auriol’s response.

Nospecialcharactersplease · 18/05/2024 12:05

DriftingDora · 18/05/2024 11:51

Because you're the sort of poster who likes to start unpleasant arguments on any thread and will stay up til the early hours to do that?

In a nutshell, VinnieVanDog.

Don’t flatter yourselves. I found arguments that the cyclist should have behaved differently akin to victim blaming (because it is and other people have pointed that out too).

I haven’t been unpleasant. Haven’t used foul language, been aggressive, personalised the discussion. If you’re uncomfortable with me pointing out victim blaming then ask yourselves why.

runningpram · 18/05/2024 12:15

This is a really tragic case. I honestly think it was a sad accident and Auriol absolutely did not intend these awful consequences.
I hope she is now getting better support.

DriftingDora · 18/05/2024 12:16

Nospecialcharactersplease · 18/05/2024 12:05

Don’t flatter yourselves. I found arguments that the cyclist should have behaved differently akin to victim blaming (because it is and other people have pointed that out too).

I haven’t been unpleasant. Haven’t used foul language, been aggressive, personalised the discussion. If you’re uncomfortable with me pointing out victim blaming then ask yourselves why.

I’d stop posting now if I were you

On the contrary! I love your replies, so amusing.

Kalevala · 18/05/2024 12:25

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2024 12:02

From what I could see, Auriol Grey chose rightly or wrongly to approach and even try to stop Celia Ward from cycling.

I am guessing Auriol was partly scared but also irritated that a cyclist was cycling where to Auriol’s mind “she shouldn’t be cycling”. Hence Auriol’s response.

I think if you were walking and scared by a cyclist coming towards you, then you would move to the side then shout anything you wanted to say after them. The response does not suggest fear to me, more hostility and seeking to control.

oakleaffy · 18/05/2024 13:01

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2024 09:36

My DB’s FIL has a brain injury firstly as he has cerebral palsy and secondly because he suffered a stroke as an adult.

He has anger and aggression issues which he manages to keep under control on a day to day basis but sometimes he does get upset especially as some people think he’s stupid which he definitely isn’t.

I’ve seen a comment here though that this isn’t the first time that Auriol has attacked a cyclist whilst out, and whilst you can’t control people’s actions sometimes I do feel someone (social worker/someone assigned to her) should have known of this and spoken to her about her behaviour and actions. In a sense, I sort of understand why the police interview was why it was, they seemed to be asking relevant questions and Auriol as she assumed she was in the right avoided them or lied. But knew as an accident had happened and she was interviewed and it was a police matter that it was very serious.

Grey does appear to have had “Previous “ for attacking and going for cyclists.

Her anger could get her into serious trouble- But she probably only targets older and more vulnerable cyclists-

A man or a teen would give her short shrift.

entiawest · 18/05/2024 13:10

*From what I could see, Auriol Grey chose rightly or wrongly to approach and even try to stop Celia Ward from cycling.

I am guessing Auriol was partly scared but also irritated that a cyclist was cycling where to Auriol’s mind “she shouldn’t be cycling”. Hence Auriol’s response.*

It's not 'rightly or wrongly'. Auriol Gray had no right to try to prevent Celia Ward from cycling because it was a SHARED PATH.
And whether Auriol liked that fact or not (she clearly didn't) and whether the path was wide enough or not in the opinion of random MNetters is irrelevant. Auriol Gray has the capacity to go shopping independent using a shared pedestrian and cycle path. She just didn't like the fact Celia Gray was doing what she had every right to do, and was verbally and physically aggressive to her. Anyone trying to claim Celia Gray 'should' have done something different is victim blaming however much they try to deny it.
^
In my view Auriol Gray is morally responsible for causing Celia Gray's death and the suffering of the car driver.^

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 13:28

"Auriol Gray had no right to try to prevent Celia Ward from cycling because it was a SHARED PATH."

@entiawest I've seen it stated a few times on the thread that it was a shared path but never seen it elsewhere - was it definitely designated as a shared path?

entiawest · 18/05/2024 13:40

Yes it's a shared facility on the ring road. More signs have since been put up as some sections were poorly signed before.

entiawest · 18/05/2024 13:46

The police interview is also enlightening. When the police officer states to Auriol Grey that on cctv it's clear her mouth is moving, and asks what she was saying to Celia Ward, Grey replied 'slow down. Just slow down.' The officer then tells her there is sound on the cctv and plays it, and she's shouting, 'get off the fucking pavement.' When asked what she meant by that, Grey says 'I can't remember.'

The lies and utter lack of accountability is shocking.

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 13:52

entiawest · 18/05/2024 13:40

Yes it's a shared facility on the ring road. More signs have since been put up as some sections were poorly signed before.

Thanks that's interesting because a significant part of the reporting on the case was to do with cyclists using pavements 'illegally' and causing problems for pedestrians.

entiawest · 18/05/2024 14:02

There was loads of reporting on all sorts of angles and also confusion about whether it was a shared facility; with the conclusion in court being it was.

entiawest · 18/05/2024 14:04

The police interview strongly suggests Auriol Grey knew she'd done wrong because otherwise why lie about what she shouted? She obviously didn't realise the cctv had recorded sound too and thought she'd get away with it. There would just be no reason to lie if she thought she hadn't done anything wrong

GasPanic · 18/05/2024 14:20

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 13:52

Thanks that's interesting because a significant part of the reporting on the case was to do with cyclists using pavements 'illegally' and causing problems for pedestrians.

The appeal court approved judgement section 2 details what was established at the trial re the status of the "shared path".

Natsku · 18/05/2024 14:23

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 09:39

You're walking down the street and you see someone walking towards you, shouting and gesticulating. What would you do?

I've been cycling for decades and use pavements when necessary, mostly it's fine and sometimes pedestrians get annoyed especially when they've previously had incidents with cyclists going past them too fast. When I'm on the pavement and I see I'm heading towards someone clearly in an unfriendly/aggressive mood I stop and get off my bike in the hope I won't have to have another tedious convo about cycling on the pavement being against the law.

Celia didn't have much time to read the situation, probably didn't want to have to stop and get off, a tragic accident resulted.

If I was walking I'd obviously turn round and go the other way. Same with cycling if there was room to turn without dismounting but if I had to dismount I'd rather just cycle past as quick as possible than risk getting attacked while turning my bike round. Luckily I am unlikely to ever face this situation because pedestrians and cyclists share spaces with zero issue where I live, no random angry people trying to knock cyclists in the road and no lycra clad twats speeding past pedestrians with little regard.

Orangemangogrape · 18/05/2024 14:24

entiawest · 18/05/2024 14:04

The police interview strongly suggests Auriol Grey knew she'd done wrong because otherwise why lie about what she shouted? She obviously didn't realise the cctv had recorded sound too and thought she'd get away with it. There would just be no reason to lie if she thought she hadn't done anything wrong

I don't think any of us would like to repeat something rude that we said in an intemperate moment, would we? Especially to the police. It doesn't mean that we think we're guilty of something bigger.

Orangemangogrape · 18/05/2024 14:28

Kalevala · 18/05/2024 12:25

I think if you were walking and scared by a cyclist coming towards you, then you would move to the side then shout anything you wanted to say after them. The response does not suggest fear to me, more hostility and seeking to control.

What you might do under threat and what someone with limited sight, movement and IQ would do could be vastly different.

entiawest · 18/05/2024 14:53

@Orangemangogrape you don't think anyone would be honest in a police interview? You're kidding right?
It's not a drinks party ffs where one is being careful to modify their language.
She had been either arrested or at the very least was being interviewed under caution about a fatal incident.
She lied. The most obvious reason for that is that at this stage the officer had only said her mouth could be seen moving: he hadn't yet disclosed the cctv had sound too. When she was confronted with what she'd actually said, she couldn't explain what she meant by it.

It honestly beggars belief that people are trying to minimise how she behaved.

VinnieVanDog · 18/05/2024 15:59

"Luckily I am unlikely to ever face this situation because pedestrians and cyclists share spaces with zero issue where I live, no random angry people trying to knock cyclists in the road and no lycra clad twats speeding past pedestrians with little regard."

@Natsku where do you live? Everywhere in England the war of Pedestrians v Cyclists is such a trigger issue for people and escalated now by the massive increase in delivery bikers.

Natsku · 18/05/2024 16:32

Finland. Biking is very common here so people are much more tolerant of it but it's not delivery bikers (in my area anyway) or middle aged men in lycra, its just normal people from little children to the elderly riding city bikes around.

Kalevala · 18/05/2024 18:01

Orangemangogrape · 18/05/2024 14:28

What you might do under threat and what someone with limited sight, movement and IQ would do could be vastly different.

I'd expect them to act in a more defensive way than myself, to move away from a potential hazard. The people I know with poor eyesight and mobility would not do what she did. If a cyclist was fast approaching (though, I don't think Celia was), they would move out of the way to protect themselves. They would be more cautious than me, certainly not go on the attack. The way Grey behaved suggests she was not afraid.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/05/2024 18:25

entiawest · 18/05/2024 13:10

*From what I could see, Auriol Grey chose rightly or wrongly to approach and even try to stop Celia Ward from cycling.

I am guessing Auriol was partly scared but also irritated that a cyclist was cycling where to Auriol’s mind “she shouldn’t be cycling”. Hence Auriol’s response.*

It's not 'rightly or wrongly'. Auriol Gray had no right to try to prevent Celia Ward from cycling because it was a SHARED PATH.
And whether Auriol liked that fact or not (she clearly didn't) and whether the path was wide enough or not in the opinion of random MNetters is irrelevant. Auriol Gray has the capacity to go shopping independent using a shared pedestrian and cycle path. She just didn't like the fact Celia Gray was doing what she had every right to do, and was verbally and physically aggressive to her. Anyone trying to claim Celia Gray 'should' have done something different is victim blaming however much they try to deny it.
^
In my view Auriol Gray is morally responsible for causing Celia Gray's death and the suffering of the car driver.^

It wasn’t a shared path at the time of the an accident, I’m sure this has been clarified elsewhere but I understand it’s now been classified as a shared.

I’m in two minds to be fair about Auriol
and Celia as I think Celia should’ve got off her bicycle and walked past Auriol.

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