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Auriol Grey conviction overturned

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Icantpossibly · 08/05/2024 16:44

The original decision split opinion and I have no doubt today’s one will do the same.
I saw the report in The Independent online.
Aplogies if this duplicates another post. I looked and couldn’t see one

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entiawest · 16/05/2024 20:21

The conviction was overturned.

The fact remains that Auriol Grey shouted 'get off the fucking pavement'and gesticulated aggressively at an elderly cyclist WHO HAD EVERY RIGHT TO BE CYCLING ON THE SHARED PATH and made physical contact.

She then lied, 'forgot' and 'don't knower' her way through the police interview.

Why anyone is keen to defend her behaviour is bizarre.

Gerkinsandwich · 16/05/2024 20:36

This is the footpath, it is not wide & there is very little in the way of signposting to say it is a shared path.

Auriol Grey conviction overturned
Kalevala · 16/05/2024 20:37

She then lied, 'forgot' and 'don't knower' her way through the police interview.

It's sad that she is now likely to think she was in the right. She is likely to both act aggressively and then to lie about it in future.

entiawest · 16/05/2024 20:51

@Gerkinsandwich it may not be a very wide path but it is a shared path for pedestrians and cyclists and therefore the cyclist had every right to be there

Kalevala · 16/05/2024 20:58

Gerkinsandwich · 16/05/2024 20:36

This is the footpath, it is not wide & there is very little in the way of signposting to say it is a shared path.

This isn't the place, it was in front of a surgery with a red fence.

The footpath looks to be a couple of metres wide, wide enough for a pedestrian and cyclist to safely pass each other. There are similarly wide shared paths near me.

IDoNotConsentToAstonResearch · 16/05/2024 21:11

Kalevala · 16/05/2024 20:58

This isn't the place, it was in front of a surgery with a red fence.

The footpath looks to be a couple of metres wide, wide enough for a pedestrian and cyclist to safely pass each other. There are similarly wide shared paths near me.

2m wide is not wide enough. The minimum recommended width for a shared path is 3m.
A cyclist who is fully in control and an able bodied pedestrian could probably get past each other without incident but anyone the least bit wobbly is going to feel unsafe with a bicycle coming at them. It still hasn’t been explained why the cyclist didn’t dismount as most considerate riders would do when approaching a disabled pedestrian on a path as narrow as that.
Auriol Grey was wrong to believe bikes weren’t allowed on the path but given the lack of signage and the fact the path didn’t meet normal requirements it was far from an unreasonable belief.

Kalevala · 16/05/2024 21:38

Many paths are less than a metre wide though, with cars next to you, not just a bike! Three metres may be recommended but I regularly walk on shared paths and two metres works perfectly well around here. I wouldn't want a cyclist to have to use a ring road rather than share a path.

CormorantStrikesBack · 16/05/2024 21:44

Well it must be wide enough as I believe signage has now been improved to make it clear it’s a shared path. 🤷‍♀️

oakleaffy · 16/05/2024 21:50

IDoNotConsentToAstonResearch · 16/05/2024 21:11

2m wide is not wide enough. The minimum recommended width for a shared path is 3m.
A cyclist who is fully in control and an able bodied pedestrian could probably get past each other without incident but anyone the least bit wobbly is going to feel unsafe with a bicycle coming at them. It still hasn’t been explained why the cyclist didn’t dismount as most considerate riders would do when approaching a disabled pedestrian on a path as narrow as that.
Auriol Grey was wrong to believe bikes weren’t allowed on the path but given the lack of signage and the fact the path didn’t meet normal requirements it was far from an unreasonable belief.

Grey was steaming along, not looking remotely disabled.

No stick , nothing to show she was likely to blow up at a cyclist.

She deliberately walked TOWARDS the victim.

IDoNotConsentToAstonResearch · 16/05/2024 21:55

Kalevala · 16/05/2024 21:38

Many paths are less than a metre wide though, with cars next to you, not just a bike! Three metres may be recommended but I regularly walk on shared paths and two metres works perfectly well around here. I wouldn't want a cyclist to have to use a ring road rather than share a path.

Yes and the RNIB have been constantly warning of the danger of such paths for the visually impaired. The fact that councils have been doing this doesn’t mean it’s safe for all users.
Like I said, a narrow shared path might work perfectly well for the fully able bodied but it doesn’t mean it’s safe for everyone.

entiawest · 16/05/2024 22:16

Whether it was 2 metres wide or 3 metres wide the fact is, it is a designated shared path for pedestrians and cyclists and both have a right to be there. Auriol Grey had no right to shout at the cyclist to get off the fucking pavement and aggressively fling her arm out and make contact.

Gerkinsandwich · 17/05/2024 06:49

Kalevala · 16/05/2024 20:58

This isn't the place, it was in front of a surgery with a red fence.

The footpath looks to be a couple of metres wide, wide enough for a pedestrian and cyclist to safely pass each other. There are similarly wide shared paths near me.

It's a about 50m to the surgery on the left of the path.
I cycle along it, the path is also obstrcted by road signs . The ring road has cars accelerating to get through the traffic lights. Pedestrian/ cycle paths are tricky to navigate, even when being used correctly.

Auriol Grey conviction overturned
Kalevala · 17/05/2024 07:32

It still hasn’t been explained why the cyclist didn’t dismount as most considerate riders would do when approaching a disabled pedestrian on a path as narrow as that.

Maybe because the cyclist is unable to explain now? I can put myself in her situation and I, personally, would have been afraid to stop. I'm afraid of aggressive behaviour due to past violence. I would have either crossed at lights if possible and crossed back over when safe, or kept going, aiming to get past and away from the threat.

WhatNoRaisins · 17/05/2024 07:51

Calling something a shared space doesn't make it a safe space.

Kalevala · 17/05/2024 07:53

WhatNoRaisins · 17/05/2024 07:51

Calling something a shared space doesn't make it a safe space.

It wasn't safe because one user refused to share.

WhatNoRaisins · 17/05/2024 08:10

It didn't look like there was room to share, even if Auriol Grey was behaving appropriately someone needed to give way.

DriftingDora · 17/05/2024 08:12

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 14/05/2024 09:32

There could’ve been a mixture of frightened and angry.

This is a woman, don’t forget, who from media articles, doesn’t have many friends but was described in a positive way by someone who lived near/in the same block of flats as her.

Her mother and sister don’t appear to have been close to her. I think her mother seems to have been embarrassed by her as she’s thrown money at trying to “fix” her. Her BIL at least since her sister’s death has helped out Auriol, maybe concerned it’d reflect badly on him.

Mrs Ward on the other hand appeared be a fit and healthy 77 year old woman, able to ride a bicycle into town to do shopping and run errands. I bet Auriol would’ve loved to have been able to do what Mrs Ward has done but will never be able to do this.

Well, did anyone notice Grey 'dawdling' along the pavement? She was certainly able to walk at a good speed and no walking stick or other walking aid either. It's also apparent during the police interview that she lied or answered 'don't know' to many of the questions. Her demeanor towards the police was certainly different to how she behaved towards the victim.

Let's also not forget that she left a woman lying in the road and walked off (I cannot believe she wasn't aware - or made aware by reactions of others around - of what she'd done). There are many people who suffer from disabilities the same as hers or worse, but would never dream of behaving in this way or showing this level of aggression, and it's important to bear this in mind, too. I would hope someone goes with her now if she needs to go out, she obviously has problems with lack of self-control.

DriftingDora · 17/05/2024 08:15

entiawest · 14/05/2024 09:49

To be honest it's irrelevant whether Grey would have wanted to be able to ride a bike. Yes she is disabled but so are many thousands of people who would never in a million years done what she did.

I have no idea whether her mother was embarrassed by her, I don't know her.

It's quite possible that Grey had suffered insults due to her disability which is shameful but none of this excuses what she did.

I understand why she has been released; she shouldn't have been convicted of manslaughter without the base charge of assault. She didn't have a very long jail term anyway so would likely have been released soon.

None of this changes the fact that she was directly responsible for causing the cyclist to be killed, I can't see how anyone can honestly believe the cyclist would have fallen into the path of a car without Grey's aggressive actions.

I was also shocked to read upthread that the poor car driver suffers from PTSD and her marriage broke down as a result of the trauma of this incident.

The consequences of Greys actions are far reaching and devastating.

Absolutely right.

DriftingDora · 17/05/2024 08:39

IDoNotConsentToAstonResearch · 16/05/2024 21:11

2m wide is not wide enough. The minimum recommended width for a shared path is 3m.
A cyclist who is fully in control and an able bodied pedestrian could probably get past each other without incident but anyone the least bit wobbly is going to feel unsafe with a bicycle coming at them. It still hasn’t been explained why the cyclist didn’t dismount as most considerate riders would do when approaching a disabled pedestrian on a path as narrow as that.
Auriol Grey was wrong to believe bikes weren’t allowed on the path but given the lack of signage and the fact the path didn’t meet normal requirements it was far from an unreasonable belief.

It still hasn’t been explained why the cyclist didn’t dismount as most considerate riders would do when approaching a disabled pedestrian on a path as narrow as that.

The video shows Grey walking at a reasonable speed along the footpath without visible walking aids. In this case, unless the cyclist was psychic, how would she have known that Grey was disabled? Yes, in some instances it's clear-cut - the person might have a walking aid. But not in this one and it's important to remember this.

WhatNoRaisins · 17/05/2024 08:47

I just wonder when coming up with these shared spaces is there an assumption that all pedestrians are able bodied, fully sighted and able to move out of the way quickly?

For all the condemnation of Auriol Greys behaviour there are other people with similar cognitive abilities and behaviour in the community. They are allowed to use these shared spaces.

We can't just assume that pedestrians and cyclists who don't have to get a license or pass any medical test to use shared spaces will always do so perfectly. I get that accidents aren't always preventable but some of these narrow paths next to busy roads just seem too risky for cycling whether it's officially allowed or not. The shared spaces where pedestrians have to press into hedges don't strike me as safe either.

entiawest · 17/05/2024 09:12

There's a completely valid case for reviewing shared spaces and looking at how to improve them.

But none of this is an excuse for Auriol Grey's aggressive behaviour towards another person who was using that space legitimately and had as much right to be there as she did. That aggression led to the death of the other user of that space. If the cyclist had screamed, sworn and flung their arm out at the pedestrian causing them to fall off the path under a car, would anyone be excusing it? Hmm

MargaretThursday · 17/05/2024 09:59

To lie about what happened means there must be an understanding that they have done wrong.

If she had been a sweet scared innocent as some people want to portray her, then when questioned she'd have simply said the truth, because she would have seen no reason not to.
Lying shows she knew she had been wrong.

IDoNotConsentToAstonResearch · 17/05/2024 10:05

Nobody has suggested she is sweet. That is a ridiculous straw man. Vulnerable people are not necessarily nice.

I am surprised by the people who claim you can’t tell she’s disabled in the videos. The unevenness of her gait is obvious. Not every disability requires a walking aid, you know.

MargaretThursday · 17/05/2024 10:15

Picking on one word of a post and dismissing the meaning by using that to call it a straw man arguement doesn't strike you as a tad ironic?

GasPanic · 17/05/2024 10:17

entiawest · 17/05/2024 09:12

There's a completely valid case for reviewing shared spaces and looking at how to improve them.

But none of this is an excuse for Auriol Grey's aggressive behaviour towards another person who was using that space legitimately and had as much right to be there as she did. That aggression led to the death of the other user of that space. If the cyclist had screamed, sworn and flung their arm out at the pedestrian causing them to fall off the path under a car, would anyone be excusing it? Hmm

It's not a matter of excusing anything.

It's about what can be proved in a court of law.

Despite 2 trials and 2 appeals, no one has managed to prove that Auriol Grey committed a crime.

Furthermore, the appeal court that quashed her conviction refused a retrial. That implies to me they believe it is not realistically possible (at least with current evidence) to prove she committed the crime she was charged with.

If a cyclist commits a crime then yes they should be punished for it. As should a pedestrian.

We can't just go around locking people up if we can't prove they did anything wrong.