I work in secondary and sadly, I am not surprised.
Behaviour is most definitely out of control. Hands are tied.
The language is absolutely foul and disturbing.
Kids swear at staff all day with no qualms about it.
Fights and threatening behaviour is common.
Parents often side with their kids so staff have no backup.
Teachers are leaving in droves as are other staff.
The only thing that keeps me in my 24K a year job (as HTLA) is that there's a handful of kids who are just plain awesome, caring, hardworking, resilient (they really have to be in school nowadays), kind and fun. Credit to any parent who has raised one of the handful.
Would I home-school my own kids if it were possible?
Absolutely.