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Dd hit car whilst riding her bike

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Sfuandtired · 22/04/2024 21:48

Dd 17 has collided with a car tonight whilst riding her bike, she was crossing the road and from what I can make out didn’t see the car turning, she hit the car with her wheel leaving a dent and was thrown over the handle bars banging her head on the window, the driver got out, asked if she was ok, took her name and phone number, then said he was late for work and drove of!
Dd has since had a text saying she will be sent a bill and bank details for the damage to the car! WWYD?

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StMarieforme · 23/04/2024 17:27

Gabiabbi · 22/04/2024 23:35

Regardless of who was at fault, I'd like to think my main priority as the driver in this situation would be making sure the child I'd just hit was OK, not asking her to cough up cash!

Your poor dd, hope she's OK op x

Child?!
Good grief.

jannier · 23/04/2024 17:27

Sfuandtired · 22/04/2024 22:10

^^

Drivers fault.

Kandalama · 23/04/2024 17:27

MikeRafone · 23/04/2024 17:22

How on earth is it his fault?

because of the changes int he HWC

coming up to a junction a driver should be looking out for cyclists and pedestrians, many don't even if a pedestrian is on the pavement they ignore the fact that the pedestrian has priority

Incorrect
The new law does not automatically take responsibility away from the more vulnerable road user.
See previous post re cyclists responsibilities.
They still have to use the road responsibly and legally. They can still be at fault.

StMarieforme · 23/04/2024 17:27

DoreenonTill8 · 22/04/2024 23:44

@Stigglet whys he the 'nutter' rather than the illegally pavement cycling, no road safety knowledge straight into a road 17 Yr old.
What if she'd actually cycled into and mowed down an ACTUAL child, like a 3 year old, and parent, thinking they were safely crossing until an idiot on a bike hit them as they weren't looking? Would you still have the cyclist as the tragic victim?

Absolutely.

Mirabai · 23/04/2024 17:29

Kandalama · 23/04/2024 17:24

Wake up!
He doesn’t know how old she is nor has he any right to ask.
Im done responding to your posts like @yamuvva who wisely gave up a while ago.

Pointless
I hope OP you do the right thing and don’t teach your daughter to shurk her responsibilities .
Id tell her to stop riding on the pavement as well before she hurts someone!

He doesn’t know that’s why he needs to ask. If she’s wearing a hoodie or a cycling helmet & he can’t really see her face, she could have been 12 for all he knew.

StMarieforme · 23/04/2024 17:29

FloofyBird · 22/04/2024 23:54

In England everyone under 18 is still legally classed as a child.

Did people miss OPs DD isn't NT? If my 17 yo ND child had an accident they wouldn't be able to communicate they were in pain.

Does not alter the fact that they were riding illegally and hit him.

StMarieforme · 23/04/2024 17:30

Poshcatwithbigears · 23/04/2024 00:02

So basically your DD was involved in a collision with a car and the driver left the scene of an accident ! It should have been reported to the police. Is there any cctv in the area ?
It’s not too late to report it. They can contact the driver and check cctv.
And your DD should have been medically checked over.

I would not pay until I knew the full facts of who was to blame and even then, he can claim on his own insurance.

Only has to be reported if causing a blockage of any type.

theholesinmyapologies · 23/04/2024 17:34

AE9766 · 23/04/2024 15:53

No he didn't.

a) the "child" (who it transpires is a grown adult) rode into him
b) he got out to make sure she was OK despite having his car ridden into by an idiot cyclist
c) they exchanged contact details.

Which of the multiple bits of the OP stating that he did not leave the scene of an accident were you unable to read, exactly?

17 is not an 'adult'.

Driver was obligated to check the person he collided with was OK if he was able to do so. You don't know the cyclist was at fault or if she's an idiot. Mistakes happen in life, it doesn't mean people are stupid necessarily.

Child was injured (came off their bike and hit their head); the driver left them there without contacting the police first.

Mirabai · 23/04/2024 17:36

StMarieforme · 23/04/2024 17:29

Does not alter the fact that they were riding illegally and hit him.

Cycling on the pavement is an offence, but there is clear guidance that the police are supposed to exercise discretion.

1999 “The introduction of the fixed penalty is not aimed at responsible cyclists who sometimes feel obliged to use the pavement out of fear of traffic and who show consideration to other pavement users when doing so. Chief police officers who are responsible for enforcement, acknowledge that many cyclists, particularly children and young people, are afraid to cycle on the road, sensitivity and careful use of police discretion is required”.

TheRainItRaineth · 23/04/2024 17:39

@sandyhappypeople I just want to say that those are the best diagrams I have ever seen on here and they have brought me great joy.

AE9766 · 23/04/2024 17:39

BronwenTheBrave · 23/04/2024 17:04

Are you not aware that most speeding and drink\driving offences are committed by men? Rose-tinted glasses…

I'm not even going to dignify that with a response, because it doesn't deserve one. Especially in the context of this thread, where the other party is clearly at fault.

BIossomtoes · 23/04/2024 17:42

17 is not an 'adult'.

It is in the context of road use. That’s why you can get a driving licence and drive unaccompanied at that age.

YeahComeOnThen · 23/04/2024 17:42

MrsSunshine2b · 23/04/2024 17:18

Because that's how car insurance works. Cyclists don't have to be insured, and if the cyclist doesn't have any money, the only way you can claim is via your own insurance.

@MrsSunshine2b

people can choose to behave responsibly & make amends for their fuckups.

it COSTS to claim on your insurance and you're penalised with higher premiums for years.

Personal responsibility is a thing. I am (well was, really) if I damaged someone's car I'd pay for it, if my insurances didn't cover it.

Crumpleton · 23/04/2024 17:44

You could argue the toss all day to who's at fault but the fact is for all we know the car driver did glance at the pavement either side as he approached the junction and it was clear at the time.

If the driver was as close to the T junction as the OP's drawing shows surely he'd have been slowing down, even at a near stop awaiting to join the main road.

Had he of hit the DD the front of his vehicle would have been damaged and not the side of it.

TinyYellow · 23/04/2024 17:50

This is why cyclists should have training, licensing and insurance.

Of course you should contact the driver and pay for the damage your dd caused.

If the guy stopped to check she was ok and she said she was then he didn’t hit and run or leave the scene of an accident. He didn’t cause the accident so he did nothing wrong.

Exasperatednow · 23/04/2024 17:52

Fro.you explanation, it sounds like his fault. You could tell him you are going to contact the police as well as pursue a personal injury claim. He should have contacted the police at the time and he left the scene of an accident.

Mirabai · 23/04/2024 17:59

TinyYellow · 23/04/2024 17:50

This is why cyclists should have training, licensing and insurance.

Of course you should contact the driver and pay for the damage your dd caused.

If the guy stopped to check she was ok and she said she was then he didn’t hit and run or leave the scene of an accident. He didn’t cause the accident so he did nothing wrong.

If a cyclist goes over the handlebars and hits their head on your window, asking them if they’re ok is totally inadequate. They need to be checked over medically. Anyone who doesn’t grasp this is totally irresponsible.

Who caused the accident is up for debate and even if neither or both or at fault, it’s irrelevant: the police still need to be informed. Drivers routinely think they’re not at fault when they are. It’s up to the police to determine.

OnePeachCrow · 23/04/2024 18:01

prh47bridge · 23/04/2024 16:54

OP's daughter is 17. Do you seriously think insurers wouldn't pursue a claim against her if she had been driving a car? Why should riding a bike be any different?

If she was driving a car, she would have had insurance and the insurers would deal with each other. It is not the same as pursuing a minor to pay for the damage.

BrendaSmall · 23/04/2024 18:08

midgetastic · 22/04/2024 22:16

He was driving a car - she could easily have been killed that's why - he wasn't paying enough care if his large heavy vehicle hit someone

He also drove off - he hit a person and drove off !

Oh dear!
so dramatic

MikeRafone · 23/04/2024 18:13

Kandalama · 23/04/2024 17:27

Incorrect
The new law does not automatically take responsibility away from the more vulnerable road user.
See previous post re cyclists responsibilities.
They still have to use the road responsibly and legally. They can still be at fault.

That doesn't change the fact that it could well be the drivers fault - that was the question asked, how can it be the drivers fault

MikeRafone · 23/04/2024 18:16

what is worrying about this thread is the fact many posters don't understand the responsibility of a driver involved in a collision (regardless of who's fault or ages of the people hurt) they need to call the police otherwise the incident could be deemed as a hit and run, if someone is hurt in a collison.

Mirabai · 23/04/2024 18:19

MikeRafone · 23/04/2024 18:16

what is worrying about this thread is the fact many posters don't understand the responsibility of a driver involved in a collision (regardless of who's fault or ages of the people hurt) they need to call the police otherwise the incident could be deemed as a hit and run, if someone is hurt in a collison.

Agreed. Many posters don’t seem to have a scoobies.

Kandalama · 23/04/2024 18:27

MikeRafone · 23/04/2024 18:13

That doesn't change the fact that it could well be the drivers fault - that was the question asked, how can it be the drivers fault

Lots of explanations and even some excellent diagrams on here for you.

You could start with the Title of the thread.

Happy trawling

AE9766 · 23/04/2024 18:31

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