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Just received an exceptionally nasty threatening email... spam

95 replies

listsandbudgets · 16/04/2024 13:39

I am not worried not least because I don't view porn or perform solitary sex acts in front of my computer.... however of all the nasty emails I've ever received this is possibly the worst!!

If anyone gets something like this please don't worry it's a very nasty blackmail attempt by someone who doesn't have the material they claim.

I am posting it below so that if anyone else does get it they can see they're not alone and there's no need to be upset by these people. I know for some people this could be very distressing Flowers

Just received an exceptionally nasty threatening email... spam
Just received an exceptionally nasty threatening email... spam
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RufustheFactualReindeer · 16/04/2024 21:01

very scary to get these sorts of messages there are some awful people out there

We got one years ago from Hampshire police saying they knew we had child sexual abuse pictures on our computer but if we gave them £100 they wouldn’t break our door down 😳

dunno about your country mate but thats NOT how our police work…

HumphreysCorner · 16/04/2024 21:05

Melvin keeps messaging me with all the photos he's going to share with my contacts 😂

TheaBrandt · 16/04/2024 21:08

Mine threatened to inform of my clients of the disgusting websites I visited. I think my business would survive the general public knowing im a mumsnetter. Although maybe not! The Mail online is as bad as it gets sadly for my blackmailer.

CharlieDickens · 16/04/2024 21:14

I've had all of them, many times. The funniest was when HMRC said there was a warrant out for my arrest due to the amount of money I owed. I had only just paid a tax bill of £20k so knew it was lie. And this one is really mean. I just can't believe it.

RicePuddingWithCinnamon · 16/04/2024 21:18

Solitary sex act!
Why don’t they call it wanking like everyone else?!

Raspberrymoon49 · 16/04/2024 21:18

There’s lots similar to this flying around, just make sure our kids are educated about them and know not to respond

RicePuddingWithCinnamon · 16/04/2024 21:19

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 16/04/2024 20:51

Don't want to be too outing, but this is fairly similar 🤣

The creme egg 😂😂😂

smilingthroughgrittedteeth · 16/04/2024 21:21

Ive had this scam a few times, everytime i think, im an adult so even if I did watch porn so what! I dont

These scammers really are disgusting

Maverickess · 16/04/2024 21:46

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 16/04/2024 20:51

Don't want to be too outing, but this is fairly similar 🤣

This has totally made my night 🤣🤣🤣🤣 next one I get I'd love to reply with that pic saying "Omg have you got this one?!"

PutOnYourRedShoesAndLetsDance · 16/04/2024 22:01

I've been getting these since l first got a PC in 1990 when Tim Berners-Lee invented the World Wide Web.
I just delete and block.

Grumblevision · 16/04/2024 22:19

There's a really interesting podcast about spam fishing and the people who are at the other end of the line, so to speak - often against their will. https://pjvogt.substack.com/p/whos-behind-these-scammy-text-messages

Who's behind these scammy text messages we've all been getting?

An international scam sends a reporter halfway across the world

https://pjvogt.substack.com/p/whos-behind-these-scammy-text-messages

HotChocolateNotCocoa · 17/04/2024 09:07

RicePuddingWithCinnamon · 16/04/2024 21:18

Solitary sex act!
Why don’t they call it wanking like everyone else?!

This reminds me of those articles where someone has been caught at it and it reads “the footage showed her performing a sex act upon him”. It always makes me picture some kind of interpretive dance.

eurochick · 17/04/2024 09:21

@SallyWD that password will almost certainly have been part of one of the big data breaches. You can look up on the haveibeenpwned site to see which passwords have been leaked. If you have an Apple device it will also tell you which passwords on that device have been part of a data leak.

Pedallleur · 17/04/2024 09:24

its a regular scam. i've asked for a dozen copies in the past to pass to friends but strangely never got a reply

Hoplolly · 17/04/2024 09:31

I've had them in the past. I've replied and said good luck to them, I look forward to watching the footage and oddly have never heard from them again.

Blink360 · 17/04/2024 09:33

eurochick · 17/04/2024 09:21

@SallyWD that password will almost certainly have been part of one of the big data breaches. You can look up on the haveibeenpwned site to see which passwords have been leaked. If you have an Apple device it will also tell you which passwords on that device have been part of a data leak.

If you have a Pixel or a Gmail account they also do a dark web report and search your details/email address for breaches. I found that picked up ones that weren't on haveibeenpwned which was worrying.

60andsomething · 17/04/2024 09:36

I've had emails like this, and I am asexual

You want to write back and tell them what pathetic humans they are evil, nasty, tiny people, but other PPs are right - report, delete, block

Okayornot · 17/04/2024 09:43

I've had those. They included my full name and my old address.

Thing is, I don't watch porn and even if I did and they had somehow filmed me, I imagine it would be far worse for anyone receiving the footage than it would be for me. For me it would be a little embarrassing sure but would they ever recover from wanting to bleach their own eyes?

vodkaredbullgirl · 17/04/2024 09:50

I just laugh it off, when I get them lol

Tamrastarr · 17/04/2024 17:45

Not that I perform solitary sex acts in front of my computer either, but I wouldn't have the foggiest idea how to send them Bitcoin so they'd have lost me there LOL!

pomers · 17/04/2024 18:40

I think I’ve had this one, I found it in junk. I just ignored but, unsurprisingly, nothing happened

Jayne35 · 17/04/2024 18:49

I have had loads of these, quite common.

Oldraver · 17/04/2024 19:15

I had one a few years ago I missed as was in spam so the time for sending to everyone in my contacts had gone

I did a Facebook post apologising to everyone who had been sent videos of me wanking but........did my tits look good 😊

Flozle · 17/04/2024 20:00

I had one purportedly from the DVLA about unpaid car tax. From a Hotmail address.

Bernardo1 · 17/04/2024 20:19

I've received similar.

Don't respond, simply ignore.

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