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Do some people have more hours in their day than others?

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Krakken · 14/04/2024 17:33

How do some people manage to do all their housework, go out with family, meet a friend for a drink and have a nice family dinner ready all on one day while I potter around, do a bit of shopping, start cooking a meal and it's already nearly 6?

OP posts:
Shopper727 · 15/04/2024 15:01

I have no thyroid and am knackered constantly. I try so hard to be busy but I kinda run out of steam. Lots of great intentions but no energy to get the stuff done. I’d love it if my thyroxine was a little magic energy pill 💊 I’ve never felt super energised

Skethylita · 15/04/2024 18:07

@Krakken I'm one of those people. Single mum to two, busy job at around 60h/week, no support network, ND.

It come down to a few things:

  • caffeine. Lots of caffeine.
  • lack of choice. If I don't do it, no one else will.
  • being super organised. I know where everything in my house is, so don't spend time searching for things and many actions are on autopilot.
  • multitasking. I can do several things at the same time, e.g. I know my cooking timings well enough to be able to do washing up and/ or laundry and have all 3 finished by the time dinner is done.
  • prioritising. If it doesn't need doing now, will it cause stress further down the line if I don't start it?
  • having routines. Again, autopilot and the kids know what to expect/ do.
  • lack of sleep. I don't need much to function, 4-6h are plenty 5 nights a week.
  • not having such a thing as a wasted minute. If I have a spare minute, there is something that can be done in it. Even more in 5min.
Also, I guess, surrounding yourself with others who do similar. I always find if your friends get up to a lot you feel strange if you don't. Set your own bar high.
ringoffiire · 15/04/2024 18:08

MollyButton · 15/04/2024 14:10

I think "pottering" can be a really good thing. We don't have to live all life as if there is a life critical deadline coming. Prioritisation and well being are also important.
But then I see a difference between pottering and procrastinating.

Well there's not really any need to put a judgement on it or call it good or bad. I wasn't saying that.

But 'pottering' is the reason OP doesn't get as much done.

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