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Why is there such a big difference between Easter and Christmas?

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Aquarelles · 31/03/2024 15:40

Two of the biggest religious festivals here in the UK but it intrigues me how differently they are treated.

The fundamentals are the same, mostly. Spending time with family, a big meal, presents in the form of chocolate and treats.

But when I was out with the dog this morning, I was amazed at how busy the roads were and how many people were out and about.

I know the weather can be (is today) vastly different. A warm spring day vs the depths of winter, but even on a reasonably mild Christmas morning its never busy outside until you see people on their post-meal walk.

Why is it that the two religious days have different kinds of tradition? Is it just because of the nice weather and the fact the shops and other places are still open?

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PuttingDownRoots · 31/03/2024 15:44

Christmas is now a secular as well as religious festival

Beyond children and Easter eggs, Easter itself is only celebrated by active Christians.

fluffycloudalert · 31/03/2024 15:45

Easter is more important to those of a Christian faith than Christmas is on the whole, but less so for everyone else. All you have to do for Easter is buy some chocolate eggs and have a slightly bigger than usual dinner.

Why Christmas has grown into such a behemoth in the calendar, I don't know.

Bs0u416d · 31/03/2024 15:46

I think it's partly to do with Christmas having been more successfully commercialised and partly to do with Christmas as not just an important religious celebration, but a punctuation of festivity/light/joy in the depths of dark, miserable winter.

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MolkosTeenageAngst · 31/03/2024 15:50

They’re not really the same at all, totally different traditions and cultural significance. I don’t know anybody who puts the same traditional significance on Easter as Christmas, I’m single and live alone and people always ask what I’m doing for Christmas and respond with pity when I say nothing. Nobody feels the same about Easter or asks what I’m doing, Easter is just a slightly vamped up Sunday, it’s only recently that it’s been commercialised in terms of presents. When I was young we literally just got a couple of chocolate eggs, nothing else, it really wasn’t a big deal.

Sunquest · 31/03/2024 15:54

Easter is not really a big deal is it? It's just a Sunday with chocolate and a day off work afterwards.

Shinyandnew1 · 31/03/2024 16:06

We spend most of Christmas Day cooking and clearing up a big roast whereas we don’t do that on Easter Sunday so have more time to go out. And it’s warmer!

FoxyLoxyLoo · 31/03/2024 16:11

PuttingDownRoots · 31/03/2024 15:44

Christmas is now a secular as well as religious festival

Beyond children and Easter eggs, Easter itself is only celebrated by active Christians.

No it’s not. Easter was originally a Pagan festival held to celebrate the Spring Equinox that dates back to well before Christ. We still celebrate it that way.

HelloMiss · 31/03/2024 16:12

Sunquest · 31/03/2024 15:54

Easter is not really a big deal is it? It's just a Sunday with chocolate and a day off work afterwards.

Exactly this!

Nothing like Christmas though retailers are trying their best to get the public to buy in to it more..

Reddog1 · 31/03/2024 16:15

Easter’s no big deal in our secular society. Unless you’re a chocolate manufacturer or a restaurant/pub that offers good roast dinners, of course.

Taytocrisps · 31/03/2024 16:31

That's a good question OP but I don't know the answer.

Why is Christmas a whole season but Easter is just a weekend?

Why don't pop singers sing songs about Easter?

Why do we have work Christmas parties but not work Easter parties?

Why are we expected to buy new clothes and party frocks for Christmas, but not for Easter?

Why is there so much pressure to meet up with all and sundry in the run up to/over the Christmas, but we don't need to do this for Easter?

I just hope Easter stays as it is, and nobody messes around with it.

HelloMiss · 31/03/2024 16:58

It's bad enough there are Easter trees and Easter crackers appearing!

TinyYellow · 31/03/2024 17:00

We need a festival at Christmas when it’s all dark and gloomy more than we do at Easter. Plus the Santa story is better than the Easter bunny one.

LadyBird1973 · 31/03/2024 17:01

Maybe it's because Christmas is on a set date and Easter isn't.

Christmas is a big deal culturally, whether you're religious or not, whereas Easter matters more to those who are Christian or celebrate the pagan beliefs. For the rest of us it's more about chocolate eggs.

likepebblesonabeach · 31/03/2024 17:08

I think the fact that Easter is not on a set day makes things different. This year Easter is quite early, it can be as late as the third week in April some years and if you asked most people what date is Easter next year they'd struggle to answer whereas everyone knows when Christmas Day is.
I am noticing that Easter is becoming a bigger celebration than when I was a child. I have saw on social media the Easter bunny bringing lots of presents to children, which was unheard of even when my DC's would have been young enough to believe it, so who knows what it will be like in a few years.

renthead · 31/03/2024 17:09

I think Christmas has been a "bigger" holiday since at least the Victorian times, hasn't it? I grew up in a church-going family and Easter was never as big a celebration as Christmas. It was just a slightly special Sunday with egg hunt and baskets, church, big family dinner, and some crafts/egg dyeing in the lead up.

EasterBunnny · 31/03/2024 17:10

I’m going to try and make my Christmas more like my Easter.
This year we went on a big day yesterday with a lunch out followed by a fun activity. Today seen family and hosted with a roast today and bought a bunch of eggs.
It has been so lovely and no stress.

cakeorwine · 31/03/2024 17:15

I don't really care about Easter. I am not religious.

Christmas is the end of the year. Lots of winding down. Presents for some, decorations - and more associated with seeing family.

Easter is just a nice long weekend.

HelloMiss · 31/03/2024 17:15

I'd like to tone down Christmas to be just like Easter too

It seems impossible though

TheThingIsYeah · 31/03/2024 17:18

Why is a roast dinner with the suffix "with all the trimmings" only associated with Christmas? It might be exactly the same dinner as the one you'd have at Easter - or any other Sunday for that matter - but you only ever here that word at Xmas.

In the same way you only hear "revellers" used in the context of New Year.

KirstenBlest · 31/03/2024 17:19

One has Father Christmas and the other has the Easter Bunny

Rainrainrainrainrainrainrain · 31/03/2024 17:25

FoxyLoxyLoo · 31/03/2024 16:11

No it’s not. Easter was originally a Pagan festival held to celebrate the Spring Equinox that dates back to well before Christ. We still celebrate it that way.

The Easter that Christians celebrate was originally a Jewish festival, Pesach/Passover( still is). Jesus had gone to Jerusalem to celebrate it when he was crucified .

Desecratedcoconut · 31/03/2024 17:27

Because Easter isn't dark and miserable and the driver for a feast in good company to jolly things is absent.

piscofrisco · 31/03/2024 17:31

I actually prefer Easter to Christmas. All the nice bits, food, family, time off and none of the hassle and expense of presents. I trim up for Easter -I love all the colours and how fresh it all looks. I like Christmas too, but Easter is my favourite time of the year.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 31/03/2024 17:40

People tend to hunker down at home during the cold, dark days of midwinter - it’s a very different scenario at Easter - days are a lot longer, often warmer, and signs of spring are everywhere.

Churchview · 31/03/2024 18:01

Christmas wasn't such a big deal before Charles Dickens wrote A Christmas Carol and the the whole thing exploded. If Charles Dickens had write an Easter book instead perhaps we'd all be off our face on Egg Nog by now.

I much prefer Easter. No expectation or obligation, just four days off and lighter evenings coming.

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