To ask for the unusual things you find sexy in a man

[underthemilky]

Off the back of a list about irrational things you find ick, let's be positive and express things you find surprisingly attractive.

Hairy forearms
Mildly hairy back
Just hairy generally
Bald heads

Really big chunky men (but definitely not muscly body-builder types - more just takes up a lot of space and can loom in a doorway), tall, broad shoulders, thick neck, big hands, either totally bald or really long wild hair, strong forearms, blue eyes, podgy belly, a long full beard....add a really deep voice and I'm sold. Kindly wash the specimen and bring it to my tent.

Men reversing cars with one arm around the passenger seat.
Men in glasses.
Tall, physically bigger men. Not overly muscular, but I like men who look like they could keep you warm.
Emotional intelligence and kindness is a huge turn on too - that’s probably not unusual.
Having a passion for something - could be anything, even porcelain mugs, but if he’s interested and knowledgeable, that’s very sexy indeed!

I also like big bear like men. Not muscly or massively overweight bit just 'big'.

I love arm and chest hair! Nice strong, hairy forearms. They just do something for me!

I grew up white in a NW white town, and now live somewhere in the NE also very white. DH is also white.

I find men of other ethnicities - it doesn’t really matter which, although South Asians are probably my favourite - very attractive.

Some of my happiest years were spent in London and the diversity was definitely a highlight, not just for the food and craic but for the eye candy.

This thread had so much potential but turned into women stating the most common things we find attractive in men.

Tall men who are nice and broad. I'm fairly tall myself so it is rather delicious to see tall men in the wild! Twinkly eyes.

Nice hands. DH has large but very attractive/beautiful hands
Tall
Also love the crinkly eye smile thing and reversing the car thing!

A double cuffed business shirt and a quality watch peeking out.

Generosity. If DH is getting drinks at the bar he automatically orders doubles for people or the large glass of wine.

Nice handwriting, DH has lovely handwriting and holds the pen properly, it's sexy to watch him writing.

Oh also very strong, lean muscular legs. DH also has this 😍

ability to whip up a tasty dinner with ingredients already in the house in the time it takes me to have a leisurely bath.

Curiosity and intelligence - ESPECIALLY in men who haven't had any of the privilege of expensive education and upbringing. To me, there is nothing more sexy than a bloke with a London accent, London banter and London humour - a blokey bloke with a strong work ethic, but who has - despite not being offered/exposed to it as a child - found a love of books, art, travel, theatre, film - any culture really - and a curiosity about the world and appetite for travel and adventure.

Yes please.

a Tummy
broad chest/ shoulders
has to be bald ❤️🤩

This is probably the sweetest thing I have ever read .
Do you have children ? He like he would have made a wonderful father

Yes! I like and platonically love lots of men but am only attracted to men like this. And got my breakfast in bed this morning 😊

Sticky out ears.

@SlightlyJaded
A great deliciousness

None of these are unusual.

Someone who can tease you and take the piss a bit but with that grin and twinkle in his eyes that tells you and everyone around you that he is completely in love with you .

Flat stomach with a faint line of hair down from his navel disappearing into his jeans. Fanny gallops every time.

Veiny forearms
A large shapely nose

@Lostsadandconfusedsorry didn't mean to tag you and now can't get rid of it!

@Lessstressedhemum I would say it is unusual on the basis most Hispanic/Latin men aren't particularly tall!

(someone who lives in a Spanish speaking country)

Someone with a nice tone of voice and bizarrely I used really like the way my ex crossed his feet over each other when kneeling down.

DH is tall, strong, muscly (manual worker), confident and kind. Gorgeous arms ...

but the thing which gets me most is:

Glimpse of his pubic ladder disappearing into low slung trackies or jeans.

(ie that dark hairy line that comes from chest hair down over belly and turns into pubes. i love it when you see the bit just above pubes 😃)

swoon.

Lovely strong forearms and nice hands sticking out of rolled up shirt sleeves

Very tall, broad men

Toned legs and bum. I could not help but notice a guy during a track session who cycles a lot. He looked really good in cycling shorts. I didn't think that was possible.

Guys who read books. I don't see it a lot in public these days.