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Can we talk about money?

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BrandySnaps1 · 28/03/2024 12:48

Seeing a lot about the national wage being £35k.

As women can we share our stories, age and salary? I'm 35, been in my industry for around a decade. Currently on 45k, going up to 46k after a little negotiation. Just started the role and am pregnant.

Dont think my new employer was happy (I told them wayyy in advance when i was jus gone 12 weeks) and not expecting any kind of maternity pay from them as will only be in the job 6 months before i have to leave.

Some of my friends get paid 70/80/90k in finance. Whats the average of everyone here?

OP posts:
Dacadactyl · 28/03/2024 15:16

I'm 38 and earn less than 15k part time.

Was a SAHM with the kids for a decade and now do PT work during school hours. The kids are in college and high school.

We have more than enough to live on (DH is FT) and I wouldn't do anything differently if I had the chance.

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/03/2024 15:17

I'm a senior carer, get just under 30K. I do nights and get night enhancements.

Sunsetsarethebest · 28/03/2024 15:19

Teacher here, 44K ish ...think I should have picked a different sector when I see other salaries!

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AllICanDoIsTry · 28/03/2024 15:21

32, £36k but im on about £34k pro rata as drop a few hours a week around childcare.

Current top of my pay scale is £40k but im held where i am until fully qualified and signed off.

Work in a specialised sector for the emergency services.

theteddybear · 28/03/2024 15:22

Chartered accountant my FTE has only just gone up to a bit over £44k. I work 3 days for just over £26k. Work in civil service so I cld get more elsewhere but the pension is excellent, holidays are great and I get flexi time plus it's just very flexible in general.

I'm qualified 10yrs but been part time for most of that since having children. It's a bit annoying as I've seen my friends and colleagues promoted some of them more than once. I wouldn't swap it for more money though, the time I have with my kids is too precious, they are only little once. I'm sure I'll move up the ladder when they are a bit older.

My part time salary is higher than quite a few friends and family that work full time. I mean min wage jobs are only around £19K full time.

pegpuff · 28/03/2024 15:29

BrandySnaps1 · 28/03/2024 14:57

No - working on the frontline is very tough. I have family members who do it, it's not for the money but the job is rewarding.

Honestly? You seriously believe they work that hard because it’s for a rewarding job? 😂 You must live under a rock.

NoisySnail · 28/03/2024 15:31

Only people on high salaries will post here. I get £28.5k. Work 35 hours a week from home, and 8 weeks of holidays. My job is easy even if not well paid.

The median wage is £33,000, so half earn under that and half earn more. There tends to be lots of clustering around medians.

Dacadactyl · 28/03/2024 15:35

pegpuff · 28/03/2024 15:29

Honestly? You seriously believe they work that hard because it’s for a rewarding job? 😂 You must live under a rock.

I feel that people take jobs around their priorities tbh.

My priority is not to be a high earner, but to be present for my kids.

Whenever I have worked, it's been in frontline style services where helping people is a theme. These sorts of services attract a certain type of person.

Now I'm not saying that there aren't people without an education or qualifications who take any job just because they need money. But I do think that you won't last long if the rewarding nature of the role does nothing for you.

bryceQ · 28/03/2024 15:40

I've had a huge range over the past decade. I'm 34. If I hadn't had my baby I'd be on quite a bit by now!

At 24 I was on £45k
At 27 I went freelance and earned £120k
At 29 I had a baby
At 30 I was down to reduced hours and on around £60k
At 31 realised my child has additional needs and reduced further to £30k
At 34 I changed my job to fit better with my child and earn around £35k but I only work about 15 hours a week.

I have my own business which has pros and cons. No sick pay or holiday pay but I can have the entire summer off work. I pay into a private pension

AyeupDuck · 28/03/2024 15:40

I’m retired and later fifties, took my defined benefits pension at 55 which is 12,000 per annum. My investments are currently making me approx 8k per annum tax free. The most I ever earned was 30k PA.

QueenofTheBorg · 28/03/2024 15:50

I earn £700 a day as an IT contractor. I have 30 years experience in my field.

I'm 53 and generally work 9-5pm.

There are sometimes gaps between contracts and I don't get holiday or sick pay, which is fine, that's part of the deal.

Allthecatseverywhereallatonce · 28/03/2024 15:59

Top band 6 just under £43k I don't get overtime as I don't do nights/weekends.
Whilst I love my job the rewarding part of it is getting less and less.
I feel like I should have done a different degree when I look at the salaries on here.

inneedofaglowup · 28/03/2024 16:03
  1. 50k. FT.
JillyBoel22 · 28/03/2024 16:05

24 - NHS band 7 so just over 43k. But in a non clinical role/mostly WFH.

godlikeAI · 28/03/2024 16:14

45 and been on around £180k inc bonus for the past 5 or 6 years

Tech and ops work in financial services. Big company means big salaries and a high ceiling for those salaries. I am well paid but there are many above me on multiples of what I'm on

Salary jumps have been big when they've happened. Started on £20k 25 years ago, gradually went up to about £40k over 10 years, then £65k in consulting, up to £95k by about 35. Few promotions since, jumps to £120k, then £150k and here we are

WhoaJayShettybambalam · 28/03/2024 16:14

£35k full time NHS nurse band 6. Mid 40s. I love my job.

meecestopeeces · 28/03/2024 16:16

51, £57k.

I moved out of London, downshifted and changed industry about 10 years ago. At that time my salary was £95k, plus bonus of c£25k.

Started on £40k in my new job, got fed up after a few years with minimal pay increases, changed industry again 2 years ago and have gone from £50k to £57k in that time.

Voltefarce · 28/03/2024 16:17

41, 7 years into new career, financial services, about £155k including bonus.

forgotmyusername1 · 28/03/2024 19:33

40
200k
2 kids and hubby is sahp

tempnameforadvice · 28/03/2024 19:38

Maybe I'm super cynical but I just refuse to believe so many women who are on £80k+ at 30 or whatever are merrily chatting away online on a Thurs afternoon.

OP I'd take a lot of this with a lot of salt!!

39 / £47k / L&D!!

Okokokokokplease · 28/03/2024 19:47

pegpuff · 28/03/2024 15:29

Honestly? You seriously believe they work that hard because it’s for a rewarding job? 😂 You must live under a rock.

I am actually feeling quite embarrassed for you OP ! Are you real?

jennymac31 · 28/03/2024 19:51

44 and on £71k. Been working in the finance sector for the last 14 years and my salary has tripled during that time as a result of internal role changes and promotions. I know I'm fortunate and there's a lot of changes in my sector so I always have in the back of my mind that I might not have a job in the near future.

Chattywatty · 28/03/2024 19:54

tempnameforadvice · 28/03/2024 19:38

Maybe I'm super cynical but I just refuse to believe so many women who are on £80k+ at 30 or whatever are merrily chatting away online on a Thurs afternoon.

OP I'd take a lot of this with a lot of salt!!

39 / £47k / L&D!!

I think it’s perfectly feasible. Even on my team in the public sector there are quite a number of women who are 29-32 on £75 - 90k. They’re super smart super confident and perfectly likely to be able to post at lunch time or if on a boring teams meeting. I certainly wouldn’t take it with a pinch of salt.

GiantRoadPuzzle · 28/03/2024 19:59

tempnameforadvice · 28/03/2024 19:38

Maybe I'm super cynical but I just refuse to believe so many women who are on £80k+ at 30 or whatever are merrily chatting away online on a Thurs afternoon.

OP I'd take a lot of this with a lot of salt!!

39 / £47k / L&D!!

Utilising my very generous annual leave!

It is also a silly little job where I send a few emails, sit in a few meetings, wfh frequently and get paid handsomely.

DH gets paid 20k more but has to make a lot more decisions than me so I’m quite happy to stick at this level!

WindfallJoy · 28/03/2024 20:07

£36k in my early 40s. I’m two years into my second career (having quit teaching) and took a pay cut for this role.
Potential earnings are £60-£80k in the next 5-10 years, but I’d have to move companies for that.