Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Easter Eggs in a multicultural workplace

192 replies

Sheepcup · 27/03/2024 18:23

I lead a small team in an education business, i.e. we work to school terms.

Usually I get a small gift for my staff at the end of each term and at Easter it's Eggs. Until now, I worked in a very white area where people are mostly not religious but broadly Christian by heritage. Everyone has Eggs without attaching much religious significance to them.

This year, I have moved to a different area and in my team I have an Israeli Jew and a Bengali Muslim.

Do I get Eggs, they're just chocolate tokens of the season, or absolutely not? If not, what else?

OP posts:
Fizzadora · 27/03/2024 21:26

SevenSeasOfRhye · 27/03/2024 18:27

How about chocolate bunnies?

Ha ha ha ha

CurlewKate · 27/03/2024 21:29

And incidentally, @sheepcup, you were absolutely right to ask. Just a shame that you picked a time when the Radical Wing of the Reform Party were online.

ThanksItHasPockets · 27/03/2024 21:29

CurlewKate · 27/03/2024 21:24

I am very amused by the fact that the only group who might have an issue with Easter eggs are not "them Muslims" but Jehovas Witnesses!

Having worked with a lot of observant people of faith the only group who would actively decline any part in religious events or symbols were JWs. Why is that amusing?!

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

therealcookiemonster · 27/03/2024 21:30

WhateverMate · 27/03/2024 18:33

Of course they can but some Muslims still like to eat simply and may see chocolate as indulgent.

Either way, the OP is waaaay overthinking on behalf of other people.

I'm a Muslim, brought up in a Muslim country and have done ramadan in various Muslim countries. I am yet to meet a Muslim who eats 'simply' for ramadan looool. except very pious sufi Muslims who go into seclusion for part or all of ramadan, but they wouldn't leave the place they are secluding in anyway. and would avoid "heavy rich spicy" foods but not necessarily chocolate.

most of us gain weight by overindulging in the evenings and then lying around like beached whales lol.

Yellowsubmarineunderthesea · 27/03/2024 21:33

bfsham · 27/03/2024 19:10

True that chocolate eggs are not featured in the bible, that would be very silly. However, eggs are the accepted symbol of resurrection which is what Easter is all about. Do people on this thread not know that Jesus’s empty tomb is symbolised by the egg? Why people on this thread are trotting out that Easter eggs are a pagan tradition is a mystery. I can only think they are trying to undermine UK Christianity.

Edited

Never heard that one before - tomb symbolised by an egg! I've no religion now but despite a Catholic background, years of Catholic school and living in a Christian country, this is absolutely the first time I've ever heard this sort of idea

therealcookiemonster · 27/03/2024 21:34

Scottishskifun · 27/03/2024 19:02

God I love jollof rice!
Tried making my own it's never the same!

jollof rice is the best. I have a decent recipe taught to me by a Nigerian friend if you want?

you gotta be prepared for the burning though....

Zone2NorthLondon · 27/03/2024 21:37

Mmmm jollof. Everyone makes it differently. So tasty. I’ve Never attempted to make it though.

Renamed · 27/03/2024 21:40

CurlewKate · 27/03/2024 21:29

And incidentally, @sheepcup, you were absolutely right to ask. Just a shame that you picked a time when the Radical Wing of the Reform Party were online.

Unthank you. A lot of people were just answering the question. Or wondering, like I was, what exactly was religious about eggs. I thought that the reason they were eaten at Easter was that they were not eaten during Lent, and by Easter hens had started laying again.

Lentilweaver · 27/03/2024 21:42

I really want a Lindt bunny now. Damn.

SallyWD · 27/03/2024 21:45

KenAdams · 27/03/2024 18:25

Just get eggs and stop being offended on behalf of other people. Other religions don't care about this shit largely, despite what the media tell you.

Exactly - I know a lot of Muslims abd Hindus who send Christmas cards, eat Easter eggs etc.

StaunchMomma · 27/03/2024 21:54

ThanksItHasPockets · 27/03/2024 21:12

Just under 54% (in England and Wales at least) according to the 2022 census. A majority but not a vast one.

I'd guess a lot of those would be people who aren't practising and don't step foot in a church from year to year.

TeaGinandFags · 27/03/2024 21:58

Get eggs.

Who doesn't love chocolate?

Ignore the PC brigade and don't worry about Ramadam as your Moslem students can take them home for later.

P.S. if anyone bitches, the Qu'ran says something about being where you are so chocolate eggs shoukd be halal, if not scrummy.

ThanksItHasPockets · 27/03/2024 22:04

StaunchMomma · 27/03/2024 21:54

I'd guess a lot of those would be people who aren't practising and don't step foot in a church from year to year.

Perhaps, but they chose to answer a voluntary question on the census (with a 94% response rate) and 46.2% of respondents chose to identify themselves as Christian. The remaining 53.8% of people from other faiths or none are a majority but not a vast one and you can’t simply claim sweeping statements about ‘vast majorities’.

Snailblue · 27/03/2024 22:55

I'm Jewish and would love a chocolate egg. I'd happily admire your palm cross too. Religious traditions are very comforting for those of the faith, a different faith or even no faith

DrJump · 27/03/2024 23:02

WhateverMate · 27/03/2024 18:33

Of course they can but some Muslims still like to eat simply and may see chocolate as indulgent.

Either way, the OP is waaaay overthinking on behalf of other people.

I've never come across. Have been part of Ramadan fasting and feasting for over 15 years.
Tasty, delicious, rich dishes are really common. Sure the first mouth full of food is simple a date, some water but breakfasts are generally a bit of a feast

mollyfolk · 27/03/2024 23:24

bfsham · 27/03/2024 19:47

@Fourfurrymonsters
I beg to differ respectfully. I'm confident of my extensive RC teaching and education.

Well then you’ll know that Christian traditions often assimilated pagan or traditional traditions and culture. Like the eggs / always around to celebrate spring - which was adopted by Christianity. It’s actually fascinating how people assimilated their own traditions into Christianity. I like the word that someone used in a comment up thread Christian “retrofitting”. This is prevalent all over the world and has nothing to do with undermining Uk Christians.

StaunchMomma · 27/03/2024 23:27

ThanksItHasPockets · 27/03/2024 22:04

Perhaps, but they chose to answer a voluntary question on the census (with a 94% response rate) and 46.2% of respondents chose to identify themselves as Christian. The remaining 53.8% of people from other faiths or none are a majority but not a vast one and you can’t simply claim sweeping statements about ‘vast majorities’.

Clearly you have a bit of a defensive thing going on here, but in my experience actual practising Christians are pretty thin on the ground these days.

Not a bad thing, again, in my opinion.

Ggttl · 27/03/2024 23:45

I have lived in Muslim countries and I never expected people to avoid doing their own traditions around me because I was from a Christian culture. Why on earth would anyone care about Easter eggs? It is just a gesture of goodwill.

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 27/03/2024 23:57

I'm happy to give Easter eggs and Christmas cards to all my colleagues and love it when they bring food to celebrate important dates in their calendar. That's what being multicultural is all about... sharing and appreciating each other's culture.

Jellybeanz456 · 28/03/2024 00:04

Pastachocolate · 27/03/2024 18:27

Get something with wrapping so that the Muslim can take it away as they may be fasting during the day for Ramadan.

Pretty sure easter eggs have wrapping on them.

SabreIsMyFave · 28/03/2024 00:07

KenAdams · 27/03/2024 18:25

Just get eggs and stop being offended on behalf of other people. Other religions don't care about this shit largely, despite what the media tell you.

100% this. ^

silentpool · 28/03/2024 03:59

Oh please, just get the Easter eggs. My very multicultural team inhaled the hot cross buns and Easter eggs at work yesterday. Free food gets demolished.

Nagado · 28/03/2024 06:09

Surely the whole point of encouraging multiculturalism is that everyone is included? Including Christianity?

It seems bizarre to me that someone would be happy to celebrate various religious dates with colleagues and friends but would be hesitant about including their own. You aren’t trying to force anyone to break their fast or eat stuff that isn’t appropriate for them. You’re overthinking it and turning it into something unnecessary.

CurlewKate · 28/03/2024 06:56

@Nagado "You’re overthinking it and turning it into something unnecessary."

Just by asking the question "Is this OK?"

ThanksItHasPockets · 28/03/2024 07:07

StaunchMomma · 27/03/2024 23:27

Clearly you have a bit of a defensive thing going on here, but in my experience actual practising Christians are pretty thin on the ground these days.

Not a bad thing, again, in my opinion.

It’s so weird that you are doubling and tripling down on your very poorly worded statement and it’s such a fatuous response to call someone ‘defensive’ for pointing out the factual inaccuracy of your statement.

You said “The vast majority of people in this country aren't Christian”. You made no distinction between practising and ‘cultural’ Christians. The very recent census indicates that this is untrue and if you chose you could simply admit that 🤷🏻‍♀️. Up to you.

edited for typo