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Easter Eggs in a multicultural workplace

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Sheepcup · 27/03/2024 18:23

I lead a small team in an education business, i.e. we work to school terms.

Usually I get a small gift for my staff at the end of each term and at Easter it's Eggs. Until now, I worked in a very white area where people are mostly not religious but broadly Christian by heritage. Everyone has Eggs without attaching much religious significance to them.

This year, I have moved to a different area and in my team I have an Israeli Jew and a Bengali Muslim.

Do I get Eggs, they're just chocolate tokens of the season, or absolutely not? If not, what else?

OP posts:
MiltonNorthern · 27/03/2024 19:12

Sheepcup · 27/03/2024 18:28

I'm only wondering what the right thing to do is, especially during Ramadan. You can say no one cares but around here Ramadan is being very much adhered to and workplaces and schools have made a lot of adjustments.

People still eat chocolate during Ramadan, just after sunset. Don't over think.

Flowerpotcat · 27/03/2024 19:16

You are actually more likely to offend a devout Christian - chocolate eggs have nowt to do with Jesus, but are linked to pagan fertility symbolism.

Pickled21 · 27/03/2024 19:17

Ask them. My ds's teacher asked us whether she could give him an Easter egg and if that is something we partake in. We are Muslim. Dh told her that it was fine to give ds an easter egg and that we'd bought some too. I don't consider it too deeply tbh and I like chocolate just like I quite like a selection box at Christmas. However, some people are different so why not ask?

My work colleagues gave me some creme eggs, I was fasting so took them home to eat after I opened my fast, later in the evening (I may also have hid them from the kids).

It's a very thoughtful thing to do op.

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CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 27/03/2024 19:19

Thanks @bfsham, I'm an atheist but would never deny that eggs do actually have something to do with Christianity, particularly the Orthodox branches which I appreciate UK people might not be so familiar with. Some odd comments on this thread.

ThanksItHasPockets · 27/03/2024 19:21

GrumpyPanda · 27/03/2024 19:09

Are you serious?! Tell me you never dyed or painted your own eggs as a child? The fact that the chocolate industry will seize on anything is neither here nor there.

Fabergé did a pretty good job of commercialising Easter eggs in Tsarist Russia tbf Grin

MultiplaLight · 27/03/2024 19:25

Even if Muslim colleagues don't eat indulgent food, the eggs will be fine until way after the end of Ramadan.

You're over thinking, buy the eggs!

OnHerSolidFoundations · 27/03/2024 19:26

Sheepcup · 27/03/2024 18:23

I lead a small team in an education business, i.e. we work to school terms.

Usually I get a small gift for my staff at the end of each term and at Easter it's Eggs. Until now, I worked in a very white area where people are mostly not religious but broadly Christian by heritage. Everyone has Eggs without attaching much religious significance to them.

This year, I have moved to a different area and in my team I have an Israeli Jew and a Bengali Muslim.

Do I get Eggs, they're just chocolate tokens of the season, or absolutely not? If not, what else?

Ask them?

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 27/03/2024 19:28

We are in the UK it's a major Christian and spring pagan celebration of hope and new life.

It will be lovely to get some chocolate.

If I was in a Muslim country and received eid gifts I'd be very touched.

I'd feel mortified if people were worrying about "offending me".

BippityBopper · 27/03/2024 19:30

isthewashingdryyet · 27/03/2024 18:27

Aren’t Easter eggs pagan in origin?

not Christian as afar as I know

Apparently so. I once worked for a Christian organisation and managed their social media. I was lambasted for posting Happy Easter with imagery of Easter eggs and chicksfrom their social media pages.

A very lengthy email to tell me that Eggs are Pagan and to remove the post immediately so as not to taint the org's image.

I guess that's why faith based organisations much prefer to employ those who follow that faith.

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 27/03/2024 19:30

All our "celebrations" are at natural points of the year, light in the darkest months, eggs etc spring....

Fourfurrymonsters · 27/03/2024 19:33

bfsham · 27/03/2024 19:10

True that chocolate eggs are not featured in the bible, that would be very silly. However, eggs are the accepted symbol of resurrection which is what Easter is all about. Do people on this thread not know that Jesus’s empty tomb is symbolised by the egg? Why people on this thread are trotting out that Easter eggs are a pagan tradition is a mystery. I can only think they are trying to undermine UK Christianity.

Edited

The egg symbolises fertility and the coming of Spring, which is what Easter was all about originally - the festival of Oestre, goddess of fertility. Nothing to do with Jesus or his tomb.

caringcarer · 27/03/2024 19:34

SevenSeasOfRhye · 27/03/2024 18:27

How about chocolate bunnies?

I love a Lindt chocolate bunny.

PurpleChrayn · 27/03/2024 19:34

I'm a Jew and the reason I wouldn't eat the egg is if it wasn't kosher, but most brands are, and not all Jewish people keep kosher.

soupfiend · 27/03/2024 19:34

Ensure they are kosher and halal and leave them out for people to eat and get the usual ones as well

Spring is usually incorporated as some sort of festival/observance/celebration in all religions because of the concept of rebirth/regrowth, its all much of a muchness. Eggs and bunnies symbolise fertility and birth and are much more aligned with a number of belief systems than you would think

CurlewKate · 27/03/2024 19:36

Unless they are Jehovah's Witnesses, then you'll be OK with Easter eggs.

CurlewKate · 27/03/2024 19:38

"Just get eggs and stop being offended on behalf of other people. '

She's not being offended-she's just checking that she's not creating any awkwardness.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 27/03/2024 19:46

Fourfurrymonsters · 27/03/2024 19:33

The egg symbolises fertility and the coming of Spring, which is what Easter was all about originally - the festival of Oestre, goddess of fertility. Nothing to do with Jesus or his tomb.

That may be how you see it, but many do believe the egg symbolises resurrection and dye them red to signify the blood of Christ.

bfsham · 27/03/2024 19:47

@Fourfurrymonsters
I beg to differ respectfully. I'm confident of my extensive RC teaching and education.

PuttingOutFirewithGasoline · 27/03/2024 19:47

@bfsham
I'm not religious at all but I was raised catholic.
I think the Easter and Christmas stories are beautiful.

However it's blessing obvious that these events actually mark important parts of our seasons!!

paristotokyo · 27/03/2024 19:51

Not Christian and would absolutely accept an Easter egg. It's chocolate at the end of the day, and I never say no to chocolate Smile

Horrace · 27/03/2024 19:52

Even during fasting, don't they eat when it's dark or something. They can eat their chocolate in the evening.
Stop fussing. If anyone refuses chocolate, there's more for others

Renamed · 27/03/2024 19:52

What has chocolate or eggs got to do with Christianity anyway?

Raccaccoonie · 27/03/2024 19:54

Hope you're thinking of the vegans and dairy-free people! (Not to be snarky or sarcastic, just something I forgot about last time! )

sprigatito · 27/03/2024 19:56

The guff about eggs signifying the empty tomb (or in some versions the stone that was rolled away from it) is typical Christian retrofitting. It's how they superimposed their ideology onto existing cultures all over the world, they've had a lot of practice 😂

It's vanishingly unlikely anyone is going to take offence at being offered an egg - and if anyone did decide to - well, so what.

vanillawaffle · 27/03/2024 19:57

Sheepcup · 27/03/2024 18:23

I lead a small team in an education business, i.e. we work to school terms.

Usually I get a small gift for my staff at the end of each term and at Easter it's Eggs. Until now, I worked in a very white area where people are mostly not religious but broadly Christian by heritage. Everyone has Eggs without attaching much religious significance to them.

This year, I have moved to a different area and in my team I have an Israeli Jew and a Bengali Muslim.

Do I get Eggs, they're just chocolate tokens of the season, or absolutely not? If not, what else?

Just get an egg or a bunny or whatever. Don't get Jesus on a cross and you're fine.