What do you buy for a woman who doesn't want or need anything

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The woman is me. My birthday is coming up (not a big one) and my DH is asking me what I'd like. We tend to just tell each other so it's something wanted. I genuinely can't think of a thing this year and actually get fed up of just having 'stuff' around cluttering up the house. Any ideas?

Nothing is an option.

I'm the same. There's really nothing I want or need so I just don't see the point of trying to think of something people can buy me just so they can buy me something.

I tend to go for consumables so nice big leaf loose tea, or a good roast coffee or artisan chocolates.
I always welcome flowers.
But from a loved one on a special birthday a donation to a favourite charity (maybe your name on a RNLI lifeboat?) or adopt an animal. I would welcome someone adopting a Dik Dik at the local zoo.

Any Experience thing you want

don’t get stuff for the sake of it

Add toilet twinning to your list. That seems to be the sort of thing that all good stuff hating Mumsnetters would love.

A zookeeper experience.

Just tell him you don't want anything. I've not had a present for years and it doesn't bother me. I mean what's the point if you genuinely have everything you need.
If people insist then I'll say buy me a book as I'm an avid reader. You might like music or art, find something that you like, it needn't be expensive

Somebody mentioned car washes - now a full gleaming car valet that I didn't have to organise would be a wonderful gift!