I'm autistic too, and I recognise some traits in her. But mainly I think she's just a massive knob, and probably has some kind of personality disorder.
And she treats men like absolute shit. She has a vendetta against most of her ex's. Who's the common denominator here? Oh, it's her, they've mostly gone on to have lovely relationships while she's still slagging them off, or getting done for revenge porn, having restraining orders against their new partners.
I would say I'd pity any bloke that goes to out with her but they'd be damn idiots to even go near her.
I have no sympathy for her whatsoever, she's caused all her own problems.