I came home this afternoon and found a mound of wet tissues on my nightstand, quite obvious what it was from! I am usually WFH and otherwise home with our DS (14 mos). DH is also WFH.
My libido is in the ground since DS was born and I’m not at all bothered about DH having a wank. I can count on one hand the times we’ve had sex in the last year (it’s quite painful for me since birth). But DH is quite patient and never presses me for sex or makes me feel guilty, still is affectionate with me without expecting it will lead to sex. So I’m glad he could take care of his needs whilst he had an afternoon to himself. I’m sure he does other times but just hasn’t left the evidence around.
Would you mention that you tidied up the nightstands to your DH? My instinct is not to say anything as I reckon he’d be mortified. But at the same time it was a bit gross and maybe he was trying to send some sort of message, or at the least it’s a way for me to discuss his sexual wants more?