A thread to vent about that person you can’t stand

[GotMooMilk]

I cannot say this in real life to anyone so throwing it out on mumsnet.

You are the most obnoxious, arrogant irritating person I’ve ever met. You simultaneously brag constantly about your children while ignoring them when they’re around, snapping at them, speaking to them dreadfully then wonder why they’re playing up. Your criticise their weight openly while giving them adult portions- what do you think is going to happen?

You go on about money, your holidays, all your friends to others who are struggling- why?! Your level of self absorption is staggering.

Aaaaah. Feel free to vent. I know it’s a mean thread but I needed to say it somewhere. I will never say it out loud and for various reasons we have to spend time together for at least the next 6 years.

You're a pain in the arse, you take the piss at work, you sit in your office with door closed taking half an hour to write one little email. Please tread on Lego

You are a fake, untrustworthy two faced person who came into a department that was working well and completely changed the dynamic, not least by the way you played favourites and tried to make us more 'corporate'. You gave your staff no support during lockdown and I bet you were really surprised that after it ended nearly all your staff left.

Thank all the employment gods I never have to work with you again. You're interested in nothing but your own advancement.

You have never been a true mother to me. You are selfish, with a vile tongue and a black heart. Beyond cruel and manipulative to boot.

You are the most arrogant obnoxious twat ever. I cannot wait for you to move out.

You think I've forgotten how you treated me as a kid. Either that or you were so awful you can't see what you did was wrong. You're the reason we're all messed up. You are aggressive and nasty, overbearing, controlling, generally awful to be around. You keep it under wraps now were all adults but now and again you can't help yourself and the real spiteful you comes to the surface. I wish you would move abroad and give me some space. Because I find the more time I spend with you the more negative I feel.

Wonder what they would say back?

Seriously, do your own job before coming and telling me how to do mine!! You spend your whole time wandering around getting into things and other people’s business but not any time actually doing your own work!

And to the teenage girl who has been cyberbullying my DD - I hope you get a big red spot on your face right before your date. And everyone sees on Snapchat.

Hope know one I know reads this!

You have narc tendencies.
You make big dramas out of nothing much.
You should try and cause peace, not pain.

I lied, size does actually matter.

Person 1
You have a public facing job yet you always have a face like a smacked arse. Crack a smile, say hello, say thank you or go and work in a cave instead.

Person 2
You're such a snob, you can't stop going on about your enormous, fancy-pants house and you look down on less well off people and yet you're vulgar, ignorant and don't even know how to hold your cutlery properly.

Person 3
You don't like being corrected by a woman. Get used to it sunshine because I'm staying on this committee and I know more about the topic than you (as does another woman).

You can't do your job and I'm fed up with picking up the pieces. How you're still in your job I don't know. Your team deserve better.

You are a miserable intensely negative bully who spends a lot of time trauma dumping or slagging off colleagues and very little time actually doing what you’re being paid to do. An eternal victim.

Your child is extremely rude and you are so obsessed with appearing rich that you go around calling other peoples children chavs and discourage your precious child from playing with them and literally bankrupting yourself to keep up with the equestrian mummies.

I wish I’d stood up to you years ago.

life without you feels peaceful. The less you’re in my life, the happier I am but I am sad to see new colleagues struggling with you.

You were the worst boss I have ever had the misfortune of working for. You have bullied experienced, good, confident staff members down to a mere shell of themselves. I don’t know how you have got away with but I thank my lucky stars I no longer have the displeasure of your company. But I pity the poor souls that do. I do hope you get your commupence.

"The most selfish person you know is in therapy being told they need to think more about themselves"

This is you. A decade of therapy, with countless different therapists and you have not yet realised that you are the problem. Not your colleagues, your friends or your family. You are the architect of your own unhappiness. You are not an empath, you don't care about other people, you are completely self absorbed.

You have broken several good managers at work with your conniving attempts to weasel your way to special treatment. Your fake illnesses and your refusal to work.
When every manager you’ve ever had ends up with a grievance or bullying accusation - Maybe it’s you. (It’s you).

You are a selfish, inconsiderate, disrespectful, entitled knobhead. You treat women appallingly & wonder why none stay with you. You take advantage of my generous husband and I hate you for it.

Really? Why let somebody into your life who pisses you off this much!

All the people you know, your neighbours, your husband, your acquaintances are not “awful” “terrible” people YOU are the awful, terrible person.

People are not ageist, sexist or racist. They are just reacting to the way YOU speak to them and address them. YOU are the issue.

You are the cruelest, most arrogant person I have ever met and your utter disdain and contempt towards children is a appalling, I hope those children treat you with the same disdain you have shown to them when you’re even lonelier and infirm and reliant on them for care.

this made me laugh out loud. And yes I'd agree and say the exact same to certain arsehole of a man who's played me for a fool. you lying cheating bastard.

You’re a manipulative control freak with narcissistic tendencies and the only reason that work is miserable for you is because you’ve made it that way. You make yourself feel more important by slagging everyone else off, you’re passive aggressive and just plain horrible to be around. The sad bit is that you’re actually good at the core job - a different personality would have been so successful. Instead you stink the place up with your relentless negativity and bitterness, bullying people and telling everyone who will listen how hard-done-by you are.

I hate you with every fibre of my being. The only good thing you gave me js my son. Unfortunately, because of you I got to know what contempt and hatred is and I wish I never felt like that. You make my skin crawl when you touch me to the point of being physically sick.
I'm just waiting for my beautiful son to turn 18 so I can leave you without the fear of you taking me to court like you threatened before in case I left you.

I loathe and despise you

Chellybelle I could have written what you have just said word for word! Hope you're OK, it's shit isn't it.

Fingers crossed it's not the same balding, short, over weight, over inflated sense of self greying ginger twat. Self righteous, lying, gaslighting, cheating cunt.

Reading that back, wtf was I thinking to actually fall for it?

Thank you op this is feeling rather cleansing!