A thread to vent about that person you can’t stand

[GotMooMilk]

I cannot say this in real life to anyone so throwing it out on mumsnet.

You are the most obnoxious, arrogant irritating person I’ve ever met. You simultaneously brag constantly about your children while ignoring them when they’re around, snapping at them, speaking to them dreadfully then wonder why they’re playing up. Your criticise their weight openly while giving them adult portions- what do you think is going to happen?

You go on about money, your holidays, all your friends to others who are struggling- why?! Your level of self absorption is staggering.

Aaaaah. Feel free to vent. I know it’s a mean thread but I needed to say it somewhere. I will never say it out loud and for various reasons we have to spend time together for at least the next 6 years.

I wish you all the best because im not coming down to your level.
However whilst im here as followed.
SISTER- i know you hate me you think i dont know i have so much dirt on you you wont say a word even the fact i photos of you in bed with my partner you dont know about i`ll save them for when i need them you was the part reason we split and the fact you try to sleep with any male friend i have.
But yet laugh because i want to stay single and no im not fat but please dont stop the jokes i think your getting better with them.
MN-to the 3 mumnetters i know who you are and all your usernames you are a bunch of fakes i see you 3 every other day and you are nothing what you say you are.
Because not one is married you all live on my estate only 2 work pt and no you dont have husbands one of you is the town bike.
2 of you cant get enough CM from you ex hes paying what he can but its never enough.
NEIGHBOUR- Yes you are too old to be having another baby.
Glad that all out in the open.

You'll miss me when I've gone.....

1. You are evil. Completely evil. You pretend that you are so kind, so friendly, but anyone who doesn't do exactly what you want is immediately outed from you and you work against them forever. You are a manipulative bully, who banks on your reputation for people to think "he couldn't possibly have meant it that way." You do. And you have no hesitation in lying when it gets what you want. I hope you realise how far you have fallen but I think you don't care as long as you get away with it. I know what you've done, and what is known is only the tip of the iceberg.
2. You may think you have got away with bullying because they've left, but everyone now knows what you did to them which means they left. I know you'll play the victim and claim that you "didn't know and it's so hard on you because you tried your best". You are pretty stupid though because you've told enough people that you did things to upset them. Now people have been talking and too many people have witnessed it to hush it up. You rely on the above person to protect you; I hope he turns on you at some point because you have turned him against so many decent people, then you'll realise that he has no honour. You don't either.
3. You disgust me. You knew perfectly well what the above people were like and have chosen to back them, knowing that their victim was close to being suicidal, and having seen what they were doing towards them. You're a coward, and changing witness statements to pretend that they weren't bullying is totally disgusting. If you had any decency you'd admit what you did and whistleblow rather than colluding with them to hide it. It won't be hidden now and the more you dance to hide it, hopefully the harder you'll fall. Have you noticed that the others who could have stood up have resigned in protest? I don't want you to, although it might show you had some decency; I hope it comes back to bit you on the back.

No one there will forget what you three have done. Stop pretending that you are trying your best to sort it, because you aren't. You're trying to hide the wrongdoing.

I love you to bits but your cognitive impairment is slowly but surely killing me. Some days holding a conversation with you is impossible, you don't remember what I've said for above 2 minutes and you can't follow simple instructions. I'm pretty sure your kids think I'm exaggerating because they don't actually see any of it. On a bad day you are impossible to reason with and the only thing that keeps me feeling safe is the rape alarm that I carry. I shall miss you when you are gone for sure but it will be so very peaceful,

I feel sorry for you. It must be horrible living in your head, with its manipulation and neediness.

You spend so much time being overly sensitive, while being completely insensitive to others.
Your boak inducing memes about your perfect marriage are a far cry from the truth. Your DH has a perpetually miserable face and demeanor.
Not everyone friend, family member, workmate or neighbour you've ever bored the tits off with your drama is the issue.
It's you, always has been and always will.
No I don't call, message or visit anymore. Yes, I ignore your calls and messages. You seem surprised and confused by that, and I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck. Life is so much calmer.

Rachel: Hey, just so you know. It's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy, and it is a big deal! 😡

X - I really glad you're in my kids lives. You are so good with them and a genuinely nice person.
But please do not move in or marry ex-h. He will massively cocklodge you, (has already started), he is terrible with money (I'm sure he's 'conveniently' forgotten to mention we had to sell our house due to his debts I didn't know about), oh and he's messaging his awful ex (who was horrible to both me and kids), saying he is still in love with her ( I accidently saw a message wile on son's phone, I'm sure theres been more messages). I really want to tell you all this, but i know he'll deny everything (hes a great liar), and I'll look like a bitter ex who hasn't moved on.
I hope you find all this out soon ! You deserve so much better !!

Sarah - no , I don't love it , you cut my hair into exactly what I didn't want
I fucking hate it and so angry with myself for paying

You talk endlessly about inclusion and diversity when the reality is you don’t have a clue what this means. You are intolerant of anyone who thinks differently to you. You care not one jot about the discrimination others feel across the industry - you just care about yourself and how everyone should accept you. You are a self obsessed twat.

I’m fed up with childishness and emotional immaturity. I wish you would just fuck off forever and that I’d never have to see you again or deal with your nonsense. You’re an emotional black hole and energy vampire as well as being so boring it beggars belief.

You got the job out of pure nepotism and now I have to work with you whilst you do fuck all and get paid the same as me. You have no relevant experience or life skills to offer and you are quite frankly crap at the job. We all have to start somewhere but you have no interest in learning from me or other senior colleagues, particularly the older women; you just want to flirt with the men and spend your shifts chatting, drinking coffee and stuffing your face with cakes. Fuck off.

You're a pompous twat. You think you're smarter that anyone else, but knowing random, obscure factoids doesn't equals intelligence, if you were actually smart you'd be able to do your job properly, but you can't even be left in charge of using a kettle safely. Plus, I know you can't stand me because I have so much more education than you and because I speak quite a few languages and have called you on your bullshit. Well, suck it.

No one gives a shit about what you have to say. We've grown tired of your ramblings, your constant need to spit irrelevant information, how you love to use so many words and say nothing.

No one cares about your latest podcast or self-help book, no one cares about the obscure music you listen to, or all of the "oh you probably don't know/never heard them" college bullshit you pull. You're in your 30s for goodness' sake! All we care is you doing your job properly and us not having to waste our time fixing your mistakes.

I used to feel sorry for you, because we all know your entire, made-up personality it's a façade to hide deep insecurities. But time and time again you've demonstrated you don't want to improve yourself despite all the self-help books and podcasts you listen to. You just want to do very little work and self-indulge with your monologues. We see you.

You are a filthy skanky family who let dog shit pile up in your crappy back garden. You neglect your dog by leaving it outside ALL the time. We all hate you .