It's time and money.
Imagine having someone drag you out of bed every day to make you train. Don't need to worry about getting the kids up and ready, nanny will sort that.
A quick shower, before having the breakfast tailor made for your nutritional needs.
Perhaps fit in the odd sports massage, beauty treatment, yoga session.
Make up and hair done for you ready for lunch with friends who eat like you, or perhaps a spot of tennis.
Shopping for clothes that are made from the best quality materials that will be tailored to your body so will always fit perfectly.
Dinner prepared to account for your specific nutritional needs.
The best beauty products in the world and a good nights sleep.
Where is the room in that routine to not look and feel fabulous?
Most of us lack the time and energy to do this.
The kids won't get out of bed and you forgot to put the wash on so you are going for the least worst approach to uniform. You're lucky to have enough time to grab a cereal bar.
We don't have the money to get our clothes tailored, you just whack something that looks half decent into the trolley with the weekly shop when you're in Sainsburys.
The toddler is waking 3 times a night or the teenager is giving you backchat constantly.
If you hear the Teams ringtone one more fucking time today the laptop is going in the bin. This has caused you to eat 5 biscuits and a pack of prawn cocktail crisps for lunch.
Dinner is probably fish and chips because you forgot to defrost something due to the aforementioned Teams calls.
You intended to go for a run but youre exhausted and fall into bed. You've only wiped your face with a bit of toner, that'll do because obviously you'll do a full skincare routine tomorrow.
That's why you don't look like Pippa and that's OK. We try and make time for ourselves but don't beat yourself up about it.
Focus on your health as much as you can, including your mental health and don't give headspace to the media who tell you if you aren't doing everything, you aren't good enough.