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Would you expect a coach put on from church- reception venue if it was 20 mins?

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prettyfloralsocks · 17/02/2024 15:07

Mum is stressing me out- says we must have a coach going to venue and back to a drop off point at night. I've been to 3 or 4 weddings recently and only the one with more than an hour's drive had a coach.

However we aren't getting married in a hotel so people will need to get home at the end of the night.

What would you expect x

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DreadPirateRobots · 17/02/2024 18:30

Expect no, appreciate yes. We did one for a ~20 minute journey from church to reception venue, and then some at the end of the night from the venue to the two hotels we'd arranged block bookings at. As far as I know they were well used and much appreciated. But if it's not in your budget I'm sure people will manage.

SellFridges · 17/02/2024 18:31

My Mum was obsessed with this. We got married a five minute drive from our reception venue. Instead I offered to sort taxis for anyone who needed and only my mum and auntie took the offer up. Everyone else sorted themselves out.

Hatty65 · 17/02/2024 18:37

No, but I live rurally. I'd expect people to have to drive to the village church for the ceremony, so they'd have their cars with them and wouldn't want to leave them there to get a bloody coach to a venue.

How do they recover their cars at the end of the night?

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moleeye · 17/02/2024 18:41

We are getting married in September and are putting on a coach from the registry office to the reception

I think it's the least we can do as we have chosen 2 locations - I want to make it as easy as people as possible.

How they get home at the end of the night is up to them!

TrishTrix · 17/02/2024 18:45

Can people walk from ceremony venue to reception venue?

How will most people get to the ceremony? Drive or public transport with expectation of a taxi home? Do you need the timings to be tight?

Due to my friendship group I've mostly done weddings where people have needed to stay over. In which case, especially if distances were significant a bus between ceremony and reception was pretty essential.

I'm aware of one rural wedding in a very flashy/ expensive venue with no onsite or local accomodation. Therefore most of the guests stayed in the nearest (20 miles away) large town as it had a clump of affordable hotels (think travelodge/ premier inn type prices) most of which were co-located.

The guests were mostly based hundreds of miles away so had flown up and incurred expenses ++ to attend in the first place and then found themselves having to fork out for taxis to travel the 20 miles to and from the rural venue from the town or hire a car and then decide who would drive and thus sacrifice drinking.

It only became apparent quite late on in the game there would be no transport from the suggested accomodation to the venue.

It didn't go down very well. Especially when the well paid half of the couple justified it by saying they had to economise somewhere.

I'm going to a wedding later in the year in London. We will mostly all get to the ceremony by public transport (or taxi). But I know there is going to be a bus between that and the reception venue as they want us all to arrive there are roughly the same time. There is also very little parking in either location.
I'll probably get the tube home too! Assuming the people who are coming to stay with me for the event don't make a fuss about that!

Lifebeganat50 · 17/02/2024 18:47

No, because it’s a pain for people to get to the marriage venue, if there’s a crack from there to the reception…people then need to get lifts/taxis/dump cars

Jk987 · 17/02/2024 19:43

It would help the people who want to avoid driving so they can toast you with a glass of champers.

aitchteeaitch · 17/02/2024 20:02

People will want to leave the reception at a time that suits them, and not everyone would want to wait for the coach.

Whiskers4 · 17/02/2024 20:13

I certainly wouldn't expect a coach. Anyone intending to stay over would surely surely book near to reception unless they're happy to drive.

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