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Cultural differences Scotland and England

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CauleyMacGlochlin · 11/02/2024 15:14

So surprised to see on a recent thread that in England secondary school pupils are often not allowed out of school for lunch until 6th form, which Google tells me means 16-18. I'm gobsmacked. I've never heard of anything like this in Scotland and I've lived all over the country (grew up in Glasgow and moved around in adulthood)

I also recently discovered that English school pupils can't leave education at 16. They have to stay in education til 18 unless they have an apprenticeship.

Got me thinking about cultural differences between the countries that I've maybe been oblivious all this time. Any others?

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Februaryfeels · 12/02/2024 12:57

RampantIvy · 12/02/2024 12:53

I think scheme is the same in England too?

No, it isn't @Orangesandlemons77. I had never heard of it being called a scheme until I read Shuggie Bain.

Do Scottish schools have longer lunch breaks? DD had 40 minutes which wasn't long enough for anyone to walk up to Tesco and back. The school said that shorter lunch breaks gave the pupils less chance to be disruptive. They also had full timetables until 6th form, so no free periods up to age 16.

Scraps or Crispy bits is apparently a southern England thing

No, we have them in Yorkshire as well @RainbowZebraWarrior
We don't have skin on fish and chips here in Yorkshire.

I'm loving this thread BTW.

There was a fabulous bbc documentary a few years back called "The Scheme" set in Ayrshire somewhere

It was sad and depressing and is a must watch for all the people that want to move here for the "idyllic" lifestyle they think we all lead

ThanksItHasPockets · 12/02/2024 12:58

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 12:56

SE England - we used to call the cinema 'the pictures' when I was young.

We 'plat' our hair.

Plait, surely?

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 12:59

pitterypattery00 · 12/02/2024 11:43

Asking 'how?' or 'how come?' in Scotland when you mean 'why?'

Stay used in Scotland to mean live ('where do you stay'?)

Realised only recently that the word stank isn't used for a drain in the road in England (only took me 10 years 😂)

Squint used in Scotland to mean not straight, again took me a long time and a lot of strange looks to realise that's not used in England.

I think oose is maybe a Scottish word (my English partner doesn't know it).

We say 'how come?' but not 'how?' on it's own. I don't know what 'oose' is!

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SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:00

pitterypattery00 · 12/02/2024 11:45

And are wedding scrambles a Scottish thing? Remember that from my childhood (1980s) but maybe not done any more?

What's a wedding scramble? Sounds interesting 🤔

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2024 13:01

That’s really interesting. Thanks for the explanation. It’s clearly a deep-running cultural difference as it seems unnecessarily bureaucratic and limiting to me to make it difficult and expensive for teachers to pursue a new area of expertise, but I am sure for others it is a marker of excellence.

Very few full time teachers (in English schools, at least) would have time to pursue a new area of expertise without taking a career break to do it. Since it's already hard enough to recruit teachers and to find enough supply teachers to cover for them when they are off school, I don't think schools would be keen on facilitating it.

Puffalicious · 12/02/2024 13:01

Februaryfeels · 12/02/2024 12:57

There was a fabulous bbc documentary a few years back called "The Scheme" set in Ayrshire somewhere

It was sad and depressing and is a must watch for all the people that want to move here for the "idyllic" lifestyle they think we all lead

Who thinks we live an idyllic lifestyle? Tourists?! I think it's actually the complete opposite: many, many people in the rest of the UK think Scotland is the poor relation (apart from Edinburgh, that they all think is posh, but the 'schemes' have the same problems as any other big city). Glasgow, in particular, still gets the No-Mean City stereotype, which is far, far away from reality for 90% of Glaswegians.

Puffalicious · 12/02/2024 13:02

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2024 13:01

That’s really interesting. Thanks for the explanation. It’s clearly a deep-running cultural difference as it seems unnecessarily bureaucratic and limiting to me to make it difficult and expensive for teachers to pursue a new area of expertise, but I am sure for others it is a marker of excellence.

Very few full time teachers (in English schools, at least) would have time to pursue a new area of expertise without taking a career break to do it. Since it's already hard enough to recruit teachers and to find enough supply teachers to cover for them when they are off school, I don't think schools would be keen on facilitating it.

Interesting.

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:03

@SummerDays2020

Lots of coins are chucked, I think traditionally by the bride's father, onto the street outside the church. All the children scramble to pick up as many as they can and keep whatever they get.

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:04

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:03

@SummerDays2020

Lots of coins are chucked, I think traditionally by the bride's father, onto the street outside the church. All the children scramble to pick up as many as they can and keep whatever they get.

It's also often done on the street before heading to the church and all the local children come running to the scramble.

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:05

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 12:09

I think scrambles are a Scottish thing.

Enjoying all the Scottish words:

Oose
Skelf
Slater
Stank
Squint (or squinty)

Another word I didn't realise was Scottish for a long time is bumfled

Please explain these words! 😀

Theatrefan12 · 12/02/2024 13:05

Februaryfeels · 12/02/2024 12:57

There was a fabulous bbc documentary a few years back called "The Scheme" set in Ayrshire somewhere

It was sad and depressing and is a must watch for all the people that want to move here for the "idyllic" lifestyle they think we all lead

Ah Marvin fae the scheme. Forgot about that show.

Not sure if it’s local to where I grew up but we would always say “going up the town” to mean going to our local town centre and “going into town” to mean going to the local city which for us was Glasgow

Tarkan · 12/02/2024 13:06

TabbyM · 12/02/2024 12:55

@Tarkan are you in the North East? Still traumatised by my old boss saying he had a "wee jobbie" for me... Definitely not a central/west coast usage!!!!

Nobody has mentioned "skelf" yet, I never realised skelf was Scots till am English mate queried it (as in I've got a skelf in my finger - a splinter).

Yup I'm in Angus now. Originally from Glasgow and the first time I heard someone saying they had a jobbie to do I laughed a lot. Grin

Februaryfeels · 12/02/2024 13:06

@Puffalicious I was meaning the regular posts on scotsnet about wanting to move to Scotland that homogeneous mass for the good life.

Often from posters who have little knowledge or experience of the country

NotASasquatch · 12/02/2024 13:07

Do Scottish schools have longer lunch breaks? DD had 40 minutes which wasn't long enough for anyone to walk up to Tesco and back. The school said that shorter lunch breaks gave the pupils less chance to be disruptive. They also had full timetables until 6th form, so no free periods up to age 16.

We had 50 minutes when I was at High school. The local high street was barely 5 minutes away though so it was plenty of time to go there and back. We regularly went to a cafe for lunch and still had time to get back.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2024 13:07

Interesting

I learned a new language a few years ago so that I'd be able to teach 3, but I was only able to do that because I was working very part time at the time. Heavy workload is a large part of what's causing the teacher recruitment and retention crisis. Most full time teachers are working a big chunk of evenings, weekends and/or holidays. I'm on half-term this week and just sitting down to my long to-do list...

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:09

NotASasquatch · 12/02/2024 13:07

Do Scottish schools have longer lunch breaks? DD had 40 minutes which wasn't long enough for anyone to walk up to Tesco and back. The school said that shorter lunch breaks gave the pupils less chance to be disruptive. They also had full timetables until 6th form, so no free periods up to age 16.

We had 50 minutes when I was at High school. The local high street was barely 5 minutes away though so it was plenty of time to go there and back. We regularly went to a cafe for lunch and still had time to get back.

An hour here. Shops, chippy and park across the road.

Puffalicious · 12/02/2024 13:09

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:00

What's a wedding scramble? Sounds interesting 🤔

Traditionally when the car driving the bride to the church left her street where she lived, the father of the bride would throw a bucket of small coins out of the window of the departing car (bronze, silver, the odd £1 coin) for the local kids to 'scramble ' to pick up & keep for sweet buying/ adding to piggy banks.

The kids/ other male wedding party would cry 'Scramble!' so the kids would know it was happening & run from the end of the street.

It sometimes also happened at the groom's street too (we did it at my brother's wedding in 1981). It's largely died out now, but I still hear it happening in some villages. It was a very working class thing.

I have such fond memories of these growing up.

It was also very common for the younger ones in the wedding party (under 16) to get 'a wee bung' - a £1 note- from the groom/ father of the bride/ random uncles over from Ireland. It was mighty profitable being the youngest sibling/ cousin in a large family, so loads of weddings.

My ex DH lived in a very MC area & none of this happened.

Puffalicious · 12/02/2024 13:11

Februaryfeels · 12/02/2024 13:06

@Puffalicious I was meaning the regular posts on scotsnet about wanting to move to Scotland that homogeneous mass for the good life.

Often from posters who have little knowledge or experience of the country

Ah-ha. I get you now.

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:12

@SummerDays2020

Oose - fluff and dust on your jumper or couch or whatever
Skelf - when you get a skelf of wood stuck in your skin and have to remove it with tweezers
Slater - a woodlouse
Stank - a drain in the street
Squint (or squinty) - lopsided
Bumfled- material that's all tangled/rumpled and needs straightened out

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:12

RampantIvy · 12/02/2024 12:53

I think scheme is the same in England too?

No, it isn't @Orangesandlemons77. I had never heard of it being called a scheme until I read Shuggie Bain.

Do Scottish schools have longer lunch breaks? DD had 40 minutes which wasn't long enough for anyone to walk up to Tesco and back. The school said that shorter lunch breaks gave the pupils less chance to be disruptive. They also had full timetables until 6th form, so no free periods up to age 16.

Scraps or Crispy bits is apparently a southern England thing

No, we have them in Yorkshire as well @RainbowZebraWarrior
We don't have skin on fish and chips here in Yorkshire.

I'm loving this thread BTW.

It does seem the fashion to reduce lunchtime. My DD's friend only has 30 minutes (also 30 minutes at break). My DD has 30 minutes break and 1hr lunch. I like it because it means she has time to eat and also to do an activity of her choosing whether a sport, a club, reading in the library, colouring or just hanging out with her friends. It gives her a proper break.

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:15

ThanksItHasPockets · 12/02/2024 12:58

Plait, surely?

I assumed the poster write 'plat' to describe the pronunciation. Yes, it is spelled plait but is pronounced 'plat'.

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:16

It does seem the fashion to reduce lunchtime.

I didn't know lunch breaks were so short in England and I think that's bloody criminal. Kids should have a proper break, it's not just about getting enough time to cram your dinner down your throat.

Heather37231 · 12/02/2024 13:19

PTSDBarbiegirl · 12/02/2024 12:39

There are some Catholic schools, God features heavily and you can’t work there unless you’ve been signed off by a priest. Dundee and Glasgow have the most segregated schools and also the biggest problem with sectarianism in pockets of the city linked to stupid football culture. Lots of people disagree with these schools being tax payer funded. All other schools are non denominational and outnumber Catholic schools by far.

I think it’s a bit of an understatement to say “There are some Catholic schools”.

The reality in many parts of Scotland is that it would be unthinkable to go to a non-denominational school if you are Catholic (by which I mean culturally Catholic rather than an active churchgoer). Catholic schools are widely provided by the state to cater for this.

I went to a high school that was supposedly non-denominational and I did not have a single Catholic fellow pupil. They all went automatically to the Catholic schools. The Catholic secondary was just as big and modern as the non-dom schools. There were buses in to the Catholic High school from a wider area than for the ND schools. There was serious, nasty rivalry between the schools including (I kid you not) people throwing things at the Catholic school bus as it went past. Horrible. This was not in Glasgow or Dundee.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 12/02/2024 13:19

helpfulperson · 11/02/2024 17:19

handing over of children to adults is normally only P1, sometimes P2 and specific children. Otherwise the expectation is that if your grown up isn't there you go back into reception or maybe walk home if you live near. I think in general children have a lot more freedom but also more expectation of them being capable of following rules and being sensible when it matters such as not leaving school during the day if they aren't supposed to.

We can’t let the children walk home unattended by an adult unless they are over 9 or sometimes 10.

SummerDays2020 · 12/02/2024 13:20

Doublenoogahsilvousplait · 12/02/2024 13:16

It does seem the fashion to reduce lunchtime.

I didn't know lunch breaks were so short in England and I think that's bloody criminal. Kids should have a proper break, it's not just about getting enough time to cram your dinner down your throat.

I agree. I was appealed when looking round schools for DD. Only the grammars and RC school (where DD goes) have retained the hour.