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DS being blackmailed by an email saying videos/pics on his phone will be sent to his contacts unless he pays into a bitcoin account

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ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:18

Any advice please?

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NextPrimeMinister · 09/02/2024 18:21

I'd look on the Action Fraud website for advice, but assume it's spam and not pay the ransom or click on any links.

pickledandpuzzled · 09/02/2024 18:21

Is it standard message stuff? I get a regular ‘we have footage of you doing x y z.’

They don’t. I ignore it.

His age matters. How old is he? If he’s a child it’s an extra level of offence and I’d have no hesitation in going to the police. I’d also contact childline.

If not a child, I’m less sure.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 09/02/2024 18:22

Ignore it. Why give scammers the satisfaction of replying.
Also assuming your son is child and hasn't got any images on his phone that he wouldn't want sharing?

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DeathMetalMum · 09/02/2024 18:22

Report it to the police but just ignore it. I have had similar emails in the past and while it sounds scary, it is a scam.

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 09/02/2024 18:22

Police and then block.

IncognitoUsername · 09/02/2024 18:22

Unless he has pictures on his phone that are illegal then I would assume it’s a scam and delete it. How old is he?

ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:22

Am on chat to Norton, but they are being useless and keep transferring me to different depts.

The email is FROM his email - TO his email. V odd. Saying they will release vids and pix to his contacts unless he pays them money.

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Familiaritybreedscontemptso · 09/02/2024 18:22

It’s spam. He’s probably been looking at porn.

Just ignore it.

Daisybuttercup12345 · 09/02/2024 18:23

Police.
Fraud prevention.

ElaineMBenes · 09/02/2024 18:23

It's a scam.
A well known one.

Block and don't reply!

maddiemookins16mum · 09/02/2024 18:23

Ignore it. I’ve had one saying they’ll send the video of me watching porn to all my contacts.

Errr, I’ve never watched porn.

Also get him to change all his passwords and tighten his security.

PermanentIyExhaustedPigeon · 09/02/2024 18:23

Classic spam. Been going round for years. Delete, change his email passwords, and advise him not to click on dodgy links!

kiwiane · 09/02/2024 18:24

It’s unlikely so just block and ignore

ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:24

he is 19

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TheShellBeach · 09/02/2024 18:24

It's a scam.

IncognitoUsername · 09/02/2024 18:25

If he’s 19, why are you dealing with it?

Tewal · 09/02/2024 18:25

This is a common scam they do not have anything, just block, delete and flag as spam.

QuietBear · 09/02/2024 18:25

ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:22

Am on chat to Norton, but they are being useless and keep transferring me to different depts.

The email is FROM his email - TO his email. V odd. Saying they will release vids and pix to his contacts unless he pays them money.

I get this email quite regularly, it's just spam.

Block, delete and don't think anything else about it.

LakeTiticaca · 09/02/2024 18:25

I had this years ago saying they had my password . They sent me "evidence " which was an old password I had changed years ago. I made enquiries and found that old passwords can be harvested by hackers and used to try and blackmail people. I blocked the sender and changed my passwords just to be on the safe side. Tell your son to change his passwords now and block the sender

ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:25

Thank you all

He is freaking out, has ADHD and nothing illegal (no dick pix)

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Braksonsboss · 09/02/2024 18:26

Classic scam

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/02/2024 18:26

It's a scam.

However, it sounds as though there's stuff on his phone that shouldn't be there, or he wouldn't be worried about it. So he probably needs to delete some things and never do whatever it is he is so scared about having evidence of coming out. The best case is that it's a few photos of himself, he's over 18 and he's not sending them to anybody. The worst is that he's a child or that the photos/video are of something illegal.

You need to talk to him and find out.

But it's still a scam - one that relies upon people having a guilty conscience/fear of being found out - but a scam all the same.

eurochick · 09/02/2024 18:26

It's just spam. I bet if you hover over the sender's address it won't be his email address at all. It's very common. I've had loads of these. They were very common a couple of years ago. Just delete.

XiCi · 09/02/2024 18:26

I work in online fraud. It's a scam, a well known one that has been going for years. Just delete and ignore

ArentYouInBedYet · 09/02/2024 18:26

He is calming down reading your messages, thank you all xx

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