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Have you ever unexpectedly inherited anything?

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lepe · 03/02/2024 13:32

I haven't, minus a set of books from an old neighbour who I used to drop in for a cup of tea with.

A good friend of mine has just inherited a property portfolio from his grandfather. He had no idea he owned any other houses other than his own home. So it came as a big shock. The grandfather gave them to his first born grandson (son's son) rather than any other grandchildren. Friend knew his grandparents were comfortably off, but had no idea they owned £1mil+ in workers cottages.

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OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 03/02/2024 22:27

A Cuckoo clock !

Father's Uncle had died, and father's aunt knew I had always liked it when we all went to visit their house.

I never received it tho, as my parents turned it down on my behalf.

Many years later I bought my own whilst on holiday in Slovenia. I realised within a week of bringing it home why my parents had turned it down - it echoed throughout my home at 2 am 3 am 4 am etc.

Aydel · 03/02/2024 22:30

She clearly invested her money very well. And didn’t spend any. I wish she had spent some to have made her last few years more comfortable. And had I known she had a fraction of what she left, I’d have had her out of hospital and home with 24 hour nursing for her last few weeks.

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:34

spicedlemonpie · 03/02/2024 18:18

I was the only one in my step dads will i got everything homes a lot of money cars antiques jewelry you name it i had it.
I gave everything to charity kept nothing all the money went to children hospital GHS everything was giving away.
Two of the cars went in a day i put a sign in the windows FREE car please ask within.
The house and a flat I signed over to a homeless charity.
I put a sign outside one morning when i arrived that said house clearance everything must go everything free.
What was left not very much went to the tip.
I had nothing from it didnt want it.

Can I ask why not?

spicedlemonpie · 03/02/2024 22:41

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:34

Can I ask why not?

I think it was his way to say sorry but i didnt accept it.
I'd rather be dirt poor and live on my housing estate.

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:41

LuluBlakey1 · 03/02/2024 20:56

I have a friend who had a hair salon. A retired woman started going to her salon and revealed she had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. She was single with no children to help her. My friend looked after her for the last few months of her life- she really did look after her, spent nights by her side, bathed and fed her, took her to the hospital, washed and dressed her, did her washing, was her companion in that awful time so she wasn't alone. When the woman died she left her everything- a large very dated house in a very 'in-demand' conservation area and her savings which I think were over £100,000. This is about 18 years ago now. It was life-changing.
It turned out the woman had sisters and nephews and nieces who had expected to be left everything. However, they didn't challenge the will. My friend is quite a bit older than me and has a husband who has never worked in his life, out of laziness. Anything they had was because of her hard work. The money transformed their lives. They sold their small flat and the house she inherited and bought a 1930s semi in a lovely area, with a large garden, mortgage free. She is retired now and says she will be ok financially because of the inheritance, when she had expected to have to exist on benefits in her old age. She's not rich but does not need to worry about money.
I am so pleased when I see her so happy- she always worried about the future. It was a completely unexpected inheritance.

Why on earth did she stay with that idle husband? And how could she take care of her business if she was caring for someone?

x2boys · 03/02/2024 22:41

Aydel · 03/02/2024 22:30

She clearly invested her money very well. And didn’t spend any. I wish she had spent some to have made her last few years more comfortable. And had I known she had a fraction of what she left, I’d have had her out of hospital and home with 24 hour nursing for her last few weeks.

My Dad is,similar he doesn't have anything like a,million to leave but they had a big house and around £60,000 in savings it fruatrates me he won't spend any to make is life easier he looks after my elderly disabled mum and could install a wet room etc to make life a it easier but won't be cause it coats money he's nearly 82_so I don't know why he's saving it!

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:45

CharlotteFlax · 03/02/2024 22:03

Yes!

I got a letter from a solicitor telling me I was the beneficiary of a "pecuniary" amount of money from the estate of a man whose name I didn't recognise (and therefore who I didn't know had died). Turns out he was the cousin of a grandparent (I think) but hadn't had his own children so left his money between me and my cousins. This was before I had easy access to the internet so had to ask someone what pecuniary meant and they told me it meant that it was probably an insignificant amount of money - like pennies. So I was nicely surprised to find a cheque for £5000 sent to me!

Thanks, GM!

Pecuniary just means money.

Namechangeforthis88 · 03/02/2024 22:47

A very run down riding school, as a going concern, from a batty maiden aunt. I had to leave the high flying corporate career that was making me ill to take over the blasted business. My aunt wrote into the will that I had to move in and make a go of it for at least a year, or it would be sold and the proceeds would go to an animal charity, so initially I planned to make minimal effort for the minimum amount of time then sell to developers and get out. Over time, I fell in love with the scruffy, rag tag, bunch of ponies, I couldn't help myself. My aunt knew that deep down I always regretted not turning my childhood love of horses into a career. It was lonely at the start, then the handsome, but slightly gruff farrier started finding excuses to pop in more than necessary. We did get off on the wrong foot thanks some silly misunderstandings that we were both too proud and stubborn to resolve! Thank goodness he came to the rescue one night when my beloved Thunder was struck down by colic; as the storm that prevented the vet from attending cleared and the sun came up, we fell into each others arms, exhausted and relieved and I knew I wouldn't be selling to the evil developers after all.

Probably an attempt at romance from someone associated with the evil developers as well along the line somewhere.

I have been looking for a book like this for many years, if it exists, please let me know!

justasking111 · 03/02/2024 22:47

A friend was contacted by inheritance hunters twice. Both good sums of money. It's made their retirement much better financially.

aitchteeaitch · 03/02/2024 22:58

Namechangeforthis88 · 03/02/2024 22:47

A very run down riding school, as a going concern, from a batty maiden aunt. I had to leave the high flying corporate career that was making me ill to take over the blasted business. My aunt wrote into the will that I had to move in and make a go of it for at least a year, or it would be sold and the proceeds would go to an animal charity, so initially I planned to make minimal effort for the minimum amount of time then sell to developers and get out. Over time, I fell in love with the scruffy, rag tag, bunch of ponies, I couldn't help myself. My aunt knew that deep down I always regretted not turning my childhood love of horses into a career. It was lonely at the start, then the handsome, but slightly gruff farrier started finding excuses to pop in more than necessary. We did get off on the wrong foot thanks some silly misunderstandings that we were both too proud and stubborn to resolve! Thank goodness he came to the rescue one night when my beloved Thunder was struck down by colic; as the storm that prevented the vet from attending cleared and the sun came up, we fell into each others arms, exhausted and relieved and I knew I wouldn't be selling to the evil developers after all.

Probably an attempt at romance from someone associated with the evil developers as well along the line somewhere.

I have been looking for a book like this for many years, if it exists, please let me know!

Sounds vaguely familiar - I probably read it in my teens!

(along with Jill's Gymkhana, My Friend Flicka, Misty of Chincoteague etc etc)

Plumtop11 · 03/02/2024 22:59

I inherited my late grandmothers singer sewing machine that I cherish and a large tub of vintage Lego that me and my siblings used to play with as a child. My children love to play with it now.

Twwodoorsaway · 03/02/2024 23:04

I was left (unexpectedly) £5000 by a client I worked for, she used to see me professionally a lot and sadly died of cancer, so knew her days were numbered. She had told me she was leaving me something but I expected something like an ornament. It paid for a much nicer holiday that year than we would otherwise have had.

My distant cousin died a couple of years ago and left me her family history research as she knew I was interested. It’s been invaluable in my family tree following. She also left my DD a silver bracelet that had belonged to her sister, who sadly died very young but was best friends with my Dd Grandma. Which was lovely.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 03/02/2024 23:07

Namechangeforthis88 · 03/02/2024 22:47

A very run down riding school, as a going concern, from a batty maiden aunt. I had to leave the high flying corporate career that was making me ill to take over the blasted business. My aunt wrote into the will that I had to move in and make a go of it for at least a year, or it would be sold and the proceeds would go to an animal charity, so initially I planned to make minimal effort for the minimum amount of time then sell to developers and get out. Over time, I fell in love with the scruffy, rag tag, bunch of ponies, I couldn't help myself. My aunt knew that deep down I always regretted not turning my childhood love of horses into a career. It was lonely at the start, then the handsome, but slightly gruff farrier started finding excuses to pop in more than necessary. We did get off on the wrong foot thanks some silly misunderstandings that we were both too proud and stubborn to resolve! Thank goodness he came to the rescue one night when my beloved Thunder was struck down by colic; as the storm that prevented the vet from attending cleared and the sun came up, we fell into each others arms, exhausted and relieved and I knew I wouldn't be selling to the evil developers after all.

Probably an attempt at romance from someone associated with the evil developers as well along the line somewhere.

I have been looking for a book like this for many years, if it exists, please let me know!

Anything by Jenny Colgan - although it's usually cafés or sweetshops as opposed to riding schools. But the formula is the same 😊

HeartandSeoul · 03/02/2024 23:08

I was waiting for this story to appear on this thread re: Bamber Gascoigne 🙂. BBC Ghosts fans will be very familiar with this beautiful location. He wasn’t expecting to inherit this property, but what a shock it must have been!

Have you ever unexpectedly inherited anything?
Kendodd · 03/02/2024 23:10

Not much but somebody I knew. She was American, in America and married this bloke from Africa, back in the 1980s. She didn't know him and was paid a small sum to do this immigration marriage. It was back in the day when you could just marry them, give them the marriage certificate, then never see them again.

Anyway, she forgot all about him, got on with her life, but never got round to a divorce. She couldn't have even told you his name. Years later a lawyer tracked her down. He'd died without a will and she was nok. She inherited about $200,000 from him in the late 90s.

TheFormidableMrsC · 03/02/2024 23:13

Yes. I got a letter a few years ago from a solicitor saying that a very distant relative had died and I was to receive £45 from his will. It was a lovely letter and they had obviously gone to great lengths to trace distant family. I do not know who the man was as it was so far down the line, however I did go and light a candle for him at the local church.

Canthave2manycats · 03/02/2024 23:34

I inherited high blood pressure, arthritis and gout.

Oh and crumbling teeth (mum's side).

Mariposistaaa · 03/02/2024 23:35

Kendodd · 03/02/2024 14:00

So other grandchildren got nothing? I guess they all inherited a poisoned relationship from the grandfather as well then. Nasty man!

You never know.
Perhaps this one grandson cared for his GF in his old age/illness. Put spending time with him before going to see their mates. Went to cut his lawn when he was struggling. While the others ‘lived their lives’.
That is certainly how it was in my family when my beloved gran died. I was the only one (with my mum) who did any of the hard graft for her.
For the record no she didn’t favour me in her will. She offloaded her jewelry on my while she was alive (purely as she knew I wouldn’t flog it) and left me something far more valuable than money - the memories, values and time spent with her.

thebestinterest · 04/02/2024 00:00

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:22

Wow! How did she have so much money?

Sounds like my DHs parents. They are still alive, but they are FRUGAL. We (and all their kids) were shocked to
learn that they plan to leave them all an inheritance. DH said they never did anything fun growing up… never went anywhere, it was always work.

thebestinterest · 04/02/2024 00:02

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 03/02/2024 22:13

It is. Highly impractical, with my dogs, so it never gets used.

Edited

I’ve been saving for a set which is around $1500! 😭😂

LuluBlakey1 · 04/02/2024 00:17

determinedtomakethiswork · 03/02/2024 22:41

Why on earth did she stay with that idle husband? And how could she take care of her business if she was caring for someone?

She loves him- they have been together since school.

Her niece works in the salon and ran it for the time it was 24 hour care.

CharlotteFlax · 04/02/2024 00:23

@determinedtomakethiswork yes, I know (now!), but back then I simply believed what I'd been told, so was nicely surprised to receive a cheque for a bit more than pennies!

Justyouwaitandseeagain · 04/02/2024 00:31

Namechangeforthis88 · 03/02/2024 22:47

A very run down riding school, as a going concern, from a batty maiden aunt. I had to leave the high flying corporate career that was making me ill to take over the blasted business. My aunt wrote into the will that I had to move in and make a go of it for at least a year, or it would be sold and the proceeds would go to an animal charity, so initially I planned to make minimal effort for the minimum amount of time then sell to developers and get out. Over time, I fell in love with the scruffy, rag tag, bunch of ponies, I couldn't help myself. My aunt knew that deep down I always regretted not turning my childhood love of horses into a career. It was lonely at the start, then the handsome, but slightly gruff farrier started finding excuses to pop in more than necessary. We did get off on the wrong foot thanks some silly misunderstandings that we were both too proud and stubborn to resolve! Thank goodness he came to the rescue one night when my beloved Thunder was struck down by colic; as the storm that prevented the vet from attending cleared and the sun came up, we fell into each others arms, exhausted and relieved and I knew I wouldn't be selling to the evil developers after all.

Probably an attempt at romance from someone associated with the evil developers as well along the line somewhere.

I have been looking for a book like this for many years, if it exists, please let me know!

i knew this would be a book or film plot line! The closest I can suggest is 'A merry Christmas wish' 2022 film 🤣

Jk8 · 04/02/2024 00:37

Apparently Ben Fogle got his start in adult life through a random inheritance ?

bibbidiblobidyboo · 04/02/2024 00:55

My gran was left the house of her aunt. The aunt had no children and she was always with my gran. The other aunts and uncles were furious that they hadn't got a share but were never around. My gran did all her shopping, cleaning, taking her to appointments, had her round for Christmassy and any other celebration. The rest of the family had never bothered.
It was life changing money and some beautiful things. Gran and Grandad bought a fancy retirement flat in the centre of town and went on a few cruises.
I, in turn inherited from my gran.
I'm currently wearing the aunt's engagement ring and my gran's ruby necklace that Granda bought her after the inheritance had come through.

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