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Have you ever unexpectedly inherited anything?

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lepe · 03/02/2024 13:32

I haven't, minus a set of books from an old neighbour who I used to drop in for a cup of tea with.

A good friend of mine has just inherited a property portfolio from his grandfather. He had no idea he owned any other houses other than his own home. So it came as a big shock. The grandfather gave them to his first born grandson (son's son) rather than any other grandchildren. Friend knew his grandparents were comfortably off, but had no idea they owned £1mil+ in workers cottages.

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BCBird · 03/02/2024 17:17

No never. Am unlikely to

CrabbiesGingerBeer · 03/02/2024 17:48

fuckssaaaaake · 03/02/2024 16:36

Nothing. And I'll probably get a few dents when my parents pass.

You can’t inherit debts - they have to be paid from the estate before any legacies are given out but once the estate money runs out, the debts have to be written off (unless there is a co-signer).

That doesn’t stop some of the dodgier loan companies implying or even outright saying otherwise.

anicecuppateaandayummyshortbreadbiscuit · 03/02/2024 18:17

My MIL was one of 6 children. Her brother told her that she was the only one who had ever been there for him, especially since his wife had passed 10 years before. He said he wanted her to have everything, about £20k. They had no children).

He sat at his kitchen table and wrote on a piece of paper "This is my last Will and Testament"...and then he died of a heart attack at the kitchen table!

All of the other, previously lovely, family members, came out of the woodwork and went straight to a solicitor who eventually split it between all of the brothers and sisters, and of the 3 who had passed, it went to their many children, Big Irish families.

The remaining brothers and sisters gained about £3k each but the children of the deceased brothers and sisters had to split the £3k between many of them.

The Irish families were extremely well off, whereas MIL was the proverbial church mouse (poor as). They didn't need the few hundred pounds they received but she could desperately have used all of that money.

The families had previously been extremely close and had often stayed with MIL in London for free holidays, but they were so vile and threatening to her during the whole thing that she was heartbroken and refused to talk to them ever again.

I was shocked at how horrible and threatening they were to her. But Karma bit them in the bums because they gained a few hundred pounds but never got another free holiday at MILs house.

It was an eye-opener in making sure your Will is written and lodged with a solicitor.

spicedlemonpie · 03/02/2024 18:18

I was the only one in my step dads will i got everything homes a lot of money cars antiques jewelry you name it i had it.
I gave everything to charity kept nothing all the money went to children hospital GHS everything was giving away.
Two of the cars went in a day i put a sign in the windows FREE car please ask within.
The house and a flat I signed over to a homeless charity.
I put a sign outside one morning when i arrived that said house clearance everything must go everything free.
What was left not very much went to the tip.
I had nothing from it didnt want it.

MySonCyrilBaconSniffer · 03/02/2024 18:29

@ohididntrealise No bloody clue. Could be porkies but the person who told me is an ordinary reliable person. 🤷‍♀️

ToHellBackAndBeyond · 03/02/2024 18:32

That's a lovely thing to happen!

No inheritance here despite having wealthy dead grandparents because they left everything to charity to spite the family 😁 I'm also not in line for family inheritance because I'm not worthy as the black sheep 😁

Sunnnybunny72 · 03/02/2024 18:36

I inherited about £5000 from a great aunt who had never had DC. Her estate was split between her nieces and nephews but as our DF pre deceased her, me and my brother inherited his share.

TheRulerofThings · 03/02/2024 18:42

My dad inherited a 25 year old Ford Fiesta from an old lady on the street, which hadn’t been driven in years. It cost him more to scrap it than it was worth 😂

loveulotslikejellytots · 03/02/2024 18:54

My Nan's SIL (she was married to my Nans brother), left me a beautiful teapot. We didn't see them very often, but once when I was about 12 I'd said how lovely it was. She died when I was 30 but had specified in her will it was to come to me. And the matching cups. It made me so happy, more so that she remembered. It's not valuable but it looks lovely in my kitchen and I think of her every time I see it.

Corondel · 03/02/2024 19:10

fuckssaaaaake · 03/02/2024 16:36

Nothing. And I'll probably get a few dents when my parents pass.

Sorry, but that made me laugh (on a busy train). I imagined your parents’ spirits hitting your car with baseball bats.😀

HoneyButterPopcorn · 03/02/2024 19:11

Oooh. I but I always dreamed of inheriting something mysterious from a long lost relative. Like in a dickens novel

HoneyButterPopcorn · 03/02/2024 19:15

At least two of my relatives (great grand level) did this! One left loads of land and another - not quite sure of the whole story but they were pretty wealthy (famous name that people say ‘oh, as in THOSE XXXXX people???’).

Bloody CofE…

And there’s another wing of the family, also very famous brand name, who we are mysteriously ‘not related to in any way’ (but we actually are). I’m sure there are some skeletons in the cupboard there.

we are skint. Nouveau poor as Adrian mole used to say.

BirthdayRainbow · 03/02/2024 19:20

I have only had one inheritance and fully expect it will be the only one. I was left £2k by a grandparent.

Gloriousgardener11 · 03/02/2024 19:23

My MIL was left a house by a second cousin of hers.
It was a total shock as they had very little to do with each other and hadn’t communicated for years.
The people around her that she saw regularly and who helped her with day to day stuff got all the crap inside!

Goldenphoenix · 03/02/2024 19:25

I unexpectedly received an old gold ring from my Mum's great Aunt. Had only met her a few times so was ever so touched she had left me something. The ring is beautiful (though far too small for me to wear). It was made my someone in her family who was a jeweller.

Natsku · 03/02/2024 19:28

Not me but my DD. Her dad died some years ago and he had nothing but debts so of course didn't expect her to get anything but turned out that he had inherited from his grandfather years before but the inheritance hadn't been distributed (because disagreements over it) so DD inherits it in his place (and still no sign of it getting distributed, because there's still bloody disagreements over it). Will only be a few thousand euros though after her dad's debts have been paid, but she also inherited 50k from his parents who died a couple of years ago.

eandz13 · 03/02/2024 19:34

I inherited my great grandfathers war medals which I was over the moon with, I had no idea my grandmother even had them! I'm a history fanatic and it was so thoughtful of her. I'm framing them and putting them on the wall above other old bits, bats and books I've collected.
My daughter inherited her great, great, great grandmothers engagement ring (it's being kept in a box safe until she's old enough to look after it herself), it's absolutely beautiful.

fuckssaaaaake · 03/02/2024 19:40

@Corondel 😂😂

CatOnTheLap · 03/02/2024 19:50

Neither me nor DP will ever inherit anything as both our elderly mothers live in social housing. (Both fathers already dead). It came up in conversation and we realised we are the only people we know who won’t ever inherit. We couldn’t think of a single person we know who doesn’t have at least one parent who owns their own home.

DrearyLane · 03/02/2024 19:53

When I was 21 - just about to graduate - I inherited £1k from an old lady I hadn’t seen for over ten years, but to whom I’d been very close to age 5-7.

it meant that when I started working I could buy smart clothes, put a deposit down for a place to live etc and generally survive til my first pay cheque. Bless you Aunty Anne.

underneaththeash · 03/02/2024 19:56

Yes - I had 30k from grandma and I put it in premium bonds. If offset the fact that both DH’s parents were completely incompetent and we had to house them!

PosyPrettyToes · 03/02/2024 19:58

One of my parents had a branch of their family in another country - a load of great aunts and uncles we never met - and none of them had children so over the years we’ve all received an unexpected few thousand here and there, as each has died intestate and the money has trickled down, which has been amazing.

Several years after my dad died, his company got in touch to say they’d made a small miscalculation on his pension, so each of his kids unexpectedly got enough for a good family holiday.

Arabels · 03/02/2024 19:59

loveulotslikejellytots · 03/02/2024 18:54

My Nan's SIL (she was married to my Nans brother), left me a beautiful teapot. We didn't see them very often, but once when I was about 12 I'd said how lovely it was. She died when I was 30 but had specified in her will it was to come to me. And the matching cups. It made me so happy, more so that she remembered. It's not valuable but it looks lovely in my kitchen and I think of her every time I see it.

Oh that’s so sweet. She must have been really touched by your comments.

hazelnutlatte · 03/02/2024 20:12

My DH inherited a good sum of money when his dad died. He hadn't seen his dad since he was about 5 years old and didn't even know where he lived so it was definitely out of the blue!

letsbepositive2024 · 03/02/2024 20:14

TheRulerofThings · 03/02/2024 18:42

My dad inherited a 25 year old Ford Fiesta from an old lady on the street, which hadn’t been driven in years. It cost him more to scrap it than it was worth 😂

Can you refuse to accept an inheritance? Did he have to take it?

Just curious

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