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How on earth do your children still believe in Santa?

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mauvish · 21/12/2023 22:23

As the title says. I get the impression that people think that their DC still believe in Santa right up to secondary school age.

How? When the answer to every question in the world is a few computer clicks away? When they will hear from other children at school?

I remember asking my mum outright when I was about 7 or 8, (about yr 3 I think) and that was because I was being teased mercilessly at school for being one of the last to still believe in Santa. Part of the reason that I still clung onto the belief is that I'd heard bells one Xmas night when I was awake (actually this was probably tinnitus secondary to my chronic glue ear but I didn't know that at the time! and convinced myself it was Father Xmas!). I also remember my daughter being told the truth by another child in front of me at school drop off when she was about 5 or 6.

So how on earth are children supposed to still believe in FC (etc) until a much later age nowadays, when in so many other respects they are far more wordly wise at a younger age?

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CroccyWoccy · 22/12/2023 11:34

SemperIdem · 21/12/2023 23:22

Is it not a little bit funny that we’re all discussing the merits or lack thereof of believing in Father Christmas in children, whilst all being respectful of differing religions. Which are also very clearly made up.

My DS (9) discusses god and Santa in the same conversations - he believes in both. He sees them as somewhat similar. Which isn’t that surprising really.

Mittens1717 · 22/12/2023 12:13

FreshWinterMorning · 21/12/2023 22:46

How rude. Hmm And how depressing. How depressing for you to think it's 'cringe' for a child to believe in the magic of Santa at 11 years old.

@mauvish It's easy enough for children to believe in Santa, until a reasonable enough age if you help them believe, and you ignore people who CRINGE if children still believe in Santa by 10-11 y.o. Some children just believe the magic more, and for longer. Why is it 'cringe?' Confused

I agree, an 11 year old is still a child, let them be one

Calliopespa · 22/12/2023 15:13

BalletBob · 22/12/2023 08:55

Nah, it doesn't sound ridiculous. On the other hand, an adult who "cringes" at children believing in Father Christmas definitely is ridiculous. And just spiteful and immature.

No idea what your problem is with kids being kids but it's really sad that some adults want to rush them through childhood and rob them of that very short and very magical period of their lives.

Some people just want to look down at the mud. And the sooner the children are all looking at the mud, the better.

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