Another one in my early twenties, and it felt as though I had been an independent adult for years; hadn’t lived with a parent since I was 17.
I also have fabulous memories of that time. I was living in London in the mid nineties, with heatwaves and Euro 96 and Britpop; smoking numerous spliffs at the mixed swimming ponds at Hampstead Heath. By the late 90s, I had moved to another large UK city.
I had no mobile or internet, some better off friends did but that was a way off for me. Analogue TV and recording things off the telly. Big Breakfast. No reality TV, Big brother was the start IIRC, in about 2000. No Kirstie and Phil either
! 😂 Channel 5 started.
Labour getting in was huge! Everyone I knew was really into politics and election night was electric - ringing friends ‘ OMG did you see see Portillo’s face etc). Politicians did not appear to be quite so corrupt - the big deal was sex scandals and MPs always resigned.
Wages were crap but rent was cheap and everything else was cheap. You could go into a travel agent and get a last minute deal for a couple of hundred quid. Bars and pubs were abundant and we went after work a lot! Everyone smoked everywhere including in the workplace. We used to buy black market baccy from under the counter in the pubs. Pub lock ins.
Lots of greasy spoons around, full breakfast for a couple of quid. Stewed tea from a big pot and instant coffee. I remember going into my first Costa and feeling very sophisticated.
I wasn’t into shopping, but ‘town’ (the city centre) was rammed on a Saturday. No empty shops and all really bustling. The Pier, Woolies, Chelsea Girl/Tammy, BHS, C and A, Miss Selfridge, Athena. I wore Levi 501s men’s or combats with DM boots and ribbed vests, or short dresses over jeans. Glitter on nights out. No one checked ID - I would still travel for half price on trains and buses and then go to pubs etc. I was in my twenties by then, but did this from about 15-25 with no trouble.
Mainly I remember hours whiled away in the big city parks with a group of friends, lots of spliffs and booze being consumed and chatting before going and getting cheap food and chilling round someone’s house. I didn’t know anyone who lived with their parents, and few came from the city I lived in and didn’t see their parents very much. Parents visits were considered a bit of a drag because it involved cleaning up and hiding the dope!