Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Will you be wearing a poppy?

666 replies

thingsthatmakeyougohmmmmmmmm · 29/10/2023 20:00

To support the work that the Royal British Legion do.

Nobody around here seems to be wearing one.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
11
JamSandle · 29/10/2023 21:36

Yes.

FionaJT · 29/10/2023 21:37

No. I decided to stop after 2018 and the 100th anniversary of the armistice. I was happy to mark the sacrifice of the generations who were conscripted to fight in the world wars (my grandparents and great grandparents) but they are all gone. I don't doubt that the our professional armed forces do a great job under terrible stress but so do many others in public service and I don't choose to support all of their charities.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 29/10/2023 21:37

Of course why the hell wouldn't I. My DD actually got me one

Lokipokey1 · 29/10/2023 21:38

I wear my poppy with pride and support the RBL but every year when the children go crazy over buying the damn slap bands they sell I shudder and silently hope for them all to break asap!

Lou197 · 29/10/2023 21:39

Yes absolutely - unfortunatley we need more armed forces and I would always want to support those who, if asked, would give their lives for our way of life and democracy.

RosaMoline · 29/10/2023 21:43

Fucking hell. It’s not ‘glorifying war’
It’s to mourn those who fought for our freedoms.
My lovely grandad was a POW of the Japanese. Show some fucking respect.

Nanalisa60 · 29/10/2023 21:45

Yes from November

itsalongwaybackfromsorry · 29/10/2023 21:45

Nope

SurprisedWithAHorse · 29/10/2023 21:46

Yes, I will. To honour those who died so that I could choose whether or not I wanted to.

And a purple one, if I can find any this year.

DaizenShine · 29/10/2023 21:47

Absolutely not. As Irish descendant, the British Army is viewed by many, and myself, as an aggressor.

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/10/2023 21:47

RosaMoline · 29/10/2023 21:43

Fucking hell. It’s not ‘glorifying war’
It’s to mourn those who fought for our freedoms.
My lovely grandad was a POW of the Japanese. Show some fucking respect.

But you don't need a poppy to do that. I miss my grandparents who served. I respect what they gave. I am horrified by war and conflict. I also have worked a lot in homeless and ex-offender services which means I've probably assisted far more ex-servicemen (mostly) than most people.

Once someone starts on at people because they aren't performing grief and respect properly, there's an issue. And I'm willing to bet very serious money my grandparents would agree. My DGM in particular was a leftie shit-disturber. And formally WAAF. And lost my mother's father.

Blinkingbonkers · 29/10/2023 21:47

Yes, always do …but only in the week around 11/11. It’s not just relevant to the 2 world wars, it’s honouring anyone who has given their life in order to maintain our ability to live in relative peace on this island.

AgaMM · 29/10/2023 21:47

Divebar2021 · 29/10/2023 21:31

Give over with all this bollox about virtue signalling. I don’t see anyone complaining about that when people wear daffodils for Marie Curie cancer or Pink ribbons for breast cancer. It’s promoting a charity and raising awareness. I will wear a metal pin that my organisation produces but they’re not on sale yet. M&S produce a nice sparkly poppy brooch …. Or certainly used to so there’s no need to resort to plastic anything.

Except there’s no societal pressure to wear daffodils or pink ribbons, whereas there is with a poppy. As is evident by this thread.

So you’re comparing apples with oranges really.

whatkatydid2013 · 29/10/2023 21:48

No. I’ve already given a donation and will send money in with the kids to make one at school as I think it’s a good cause but I don’t wear a poppy and I encourage kids to just donate and not get anything. I think all the plastic that is sold seems unnecessary and I dislike the way the wearing or not wearing of one is policed by certain people.

SnowdaySewday · 29/10/2023 21:49

Yes.

As pp have said, it is not compulsory and we have the free choice not to do so. However, we should be mindful of the sacrifices to enable us to have that choice.

wesurecouldstandgladioli · 29/10/2023 21:49

ehb102 · 29/10/2023 20:02

Yes. I was so aghast by the lack of poppies here I volunteered this year.

My child is the first generation in a hundred years not to be touched by World War I. War trauma lasts.

Aghast, really?

Canthave2manycats · 29/10/2023 21:49

FlorenceBoot · 29/10/2023 20:08

No. Nor will I be going out iof my way to observe the two minutes silence. The World Wars were a long time ago.

Wow.

Notellinganyone · 29/10/2023 21:49

Nope.

Screamingabdabz · 29/10/2023 21:49

Yes. Their sacrifice will not be forgotten by me. They gave their young lives so that whingeing arseholes like some on this thread could make pathetic excuses about plastic, or that we’re kicking our heels up about ‘war’ or how irrelevant it all is…

Itsnotchristmasyet · 29/10/2023 21:50

I always buy them but sometimes I forget to wear them.

I will still buy at least one and plan to wear one this year too.

Iris1976 · 29/10/2023 21:51

Yes every year,my grandfather fought in ww2.

Itsnotchristmasyet · 29/10/2023 21:52

I started wearing the wrist band last year because I would keep losing my poppies/forgetting to put them on.

But you probably wouldn’t see the band if you walked past me.

LakeTiticaca · 29/10/2023 21:53

JaneyGee · 29/10/2023 21:31

Yes, for two reasons. First, in memory of my ancestors. My grandfather volunteered for the RAF the day after Dunkirk fell, and my great grandfather was twice wounded in WW1.

Second, because the smug, sneering, 'woke,' Guardian-reading left hate it. And anything that upsets them makes me happy.

👏👏👏👏

calimali · 29/10/2023 21:53

My grandad was a Normandy veteran and I always wore a poppy when the RBL was supporting men like him who had no choice but to fight.

That generation are all but gone now, and I no longer wear the poppy. Those who serve in the armed services now sign up and have entered the military of their own volition - two of them members of my family. I don't give to charity to support any other profession and I don't intend to make an exception for those in the military.

I also hate the way the far right have hijacked the poppy as a symbol. I will not wear one again.

SkinnyMalinkyLankyLegs · 29/10/2023 21:53

Yes, i will be come November.