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Please can we talk about gussets in women's underwear?

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Limth · 25/10/2023 22:11

Wise ones of MN, please help.
I'm trying to find information about underwear structure but Google is leading me to some very, ahem, unique corners of the internet.

Basically, I've taken to wearing men's boxer shorts because I find them so much more comfortable than women's.
Men's boxers seem to have a 'flat' gusset - one piece of material which stretches all the way from front to back, like us women have in normal, retro 'granny pants'.

Women's boxers, though, seem to have a diamond-shaped piece of material sewn into the gusset area which gets stuck in the crannies of my minge I find very uncomfortable.

First question, then - is there a name for that 'flat' gusset that you get in normal knickers and men's boxers? So I know what I'm searching for!

Second question - is there anywhere that sells women's boxers with this type of 'flat' gusset (or whatever its called)?

Thanks so much for any help you can give me.
I just googled "Inside of women's underwear" which has not filled my evening with joy.

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LorW · 26/10/2023 01:17

I wear the step one’s and they are very comfy OP. DH wears them too 😁

https://uk.stepone.life/pages/womens-underwear

Women's Underwear | Step One Bamboo Underwear

https://uk.stepone.life/pages/womens-underwear

LaurieStrode · 26/10/2023 02:19

Neverinamonthofsundays · 25/10/2023 22:28

I read the title as 'guests' so I may bow out now.

😂 @Neverinamonthofsundays

NigelHarmansNewWife · 26/10/2023 03:56

M&S high rise shorts are my recommendation. I have some of the no VPL ones that are in a 5 pack. Very comfortable.

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WomanOfSteel · 26/10/2023 07:26

TinyRebel · 25/10/2023 23:43

While we’re on the subject- a moan about M&S period pants. I don’t know if I just have a particularly forward fanny, but the absorbent gusset bit never, ever seems to come up high enough at the front. Come to think of it, have the same problem with winged sanitary towels, where it’s really difficult to get them positioned properly. It’s the same whatever weight/size I’m at.

Oddballs boxers though, absolutely fine - no caught flappage.

Please tell me I’m not the only one?

I use night sanitary towels back to front. I’m a front sleeper. I was going to try period pants but not sure they would work for me now. 😬

CaptainMyCaptain · 26/10/2023 07:34

LuckOfTheDrawer · 25/10/2023 22:16

I have a pair of women's swimming shorts with no gusset on the inside - just the crossed seam of the shorts. They're so bloody uncomfortable.

So do I. I ended up wearing pants inside them on holiday.

Daffodilsandtuplips · 26/10/2023 07:39

It’s called a gusset, nothing else, a gusset. I know what you mean op.
My 8 year old niece won’t wear girls knickers, she’ll only wear boys boxers from Next because they are cut in much the same way the op described, They don’t have seam s across the crotch area to chafe. She’s always hated wearing knickers , said they made her itch and got stuck in her ‘foof’ until her mum put a pair of her big brothers out grown boxers on her in desperation one day. She’ll happily wear these all day long.

Pleaseme · 26/10/2023 07:39

Wirapa on Amazon. They do have a gusset but a flat sewn in double layer of pant material. The material is a thick cotton it doesn’t ride up. They have boxer/ boy shirt/ granny

OopsaDazy · 26/10/2023 08:24

I'd move away from shorts as they always have a seam.

I find John Lewis Any Day bikini knickers quite generous in the gusset area.
They are about £12 for pack of 5.

I don't like shorts, for the reasons you mentioned, that there is a seam up the front.

Some M&S ones are okay but the gusset is cut smaller than it used to be ) in some bikini styles.

Limth · 26/10/2023 09:03

namestevalian · 26/10/2023 00:48

Don't know if they've been mentioned but Lucy and yak launched boxers

Oh, thanks. I like Lucy and Yak 😀

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Limth · 26/10/2023 09:15

OopsaDazy · 26/10/2023 08:24

I'd move away from shorts as they always have a seam.

I find John Lewis Any Day bikini knickers quite generous in the gusset area.
They are about £12 for pack of 5.

I don't like shorts, for the reasons you mentioned, that there is a seam up the front.

Some M&S ones are okay but the gusset is cut smaller than it used to be ) in some bikini styles.

No, I definitely want shorts. But I want shorts that come quite far down the leg. A lot of the recommended ones here (especially M&S) are too short in the leg.

They remind me of little hot pants that male film directors imagine teenager girls wear to sleepovers where they have sexy pillow fights before collapsing into a pile of lesbianism.

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Leggytigberk · 26/10/2023 09:49

I cheated and Googled a definition
a piece of material sewn into a garment to strengthen or enlarge a part of it.

  1. a bracket strengthening an angle of a structure.

You can get gussets sewn into shoulders of garments or armholes.

Dappy55 · 26/10/2023 10:40

I have just got some Asda shortie knickers and they have a nice flat oblong gusset bit, not long in the leg though

calyxx · 26/10/2023 11:01

Uniqlo often do boyshorts with a flat gusset. Also Muji, very light and thin

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