If your partner did something in bed that you weren't comfortable with, would you be angry?

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If your partner did something in bed that you expressively told them you weren't comfortable with, would you be angry?

TMI,I'm so sorry. but my husband was touching and kissing my breast and could see I didn't like it. He just said he thought I had gotten comfortable with it now. I then told him not to just not suck on them (I told him in the past that I was sexually assaulted and my assaulter sucked on my breast). He said "They're mine". "We'll get you used to it" and proceeded to do it.

I feel my feelings are undermined and quite sad.
Am I overreacting?

You poor soul, I’m so sorry he’s behaving in this abusive, manipulative way.

He’s overriding your boundaries, sexually abusing you by touching you sexually without consent, and minimising your objections.

This is Not Okay.

I am so sorry this has happened to you.
Your husband does not care about your enjoyment only his.
He knows you hate this and associate it with an assault yet persists.
He coerced you into sex when it was painful for you.
I think you need to get away from this horrible man.
I am so sorry and it is not your fault xx

sounds like he is a total unfeeling prick so if he does it again kick him in the nuts

You should not be with this vile man OP. He has shown you who he is and what he thinks of you. Leave him.

He wouldn't be in my life, let alone my bed.

I couldn't stay in a relationship where I didn't even have control over my own body.
He sounds absolutely dreadful. So sorry this has happened to you again OP.

That’s just not ok. I’m so sorry he did that to you.
Fo you want to talk a bit more about your situation? Are you financially dependent on this man? Maybe we can help you with the practical steps to taking your power back.