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DS shown drug video - county lines and how to handle?

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HeathersFeathers · 15/09/2023 01:39

DS said ‘I need to tell you something but you must promise not to tell the school’ .
Today during class, two boys ‘Z’ and ‘X’ were jesting around, posturing/showing off trying to establish a pecking order. My DS is not friends with, but sits next to child Z.
Child X said I’ve got year 11 friends who can sort you out’ to child Z. Then Z said ‘well I know people in these circles so you can’t touch me’ and proceeded to show X and my DS a video of himself with lots of bags of weed lined up on a table wrapped in cling film and was saying to the camera, this one is x grams, this one x grams etc. like a sales video . (To be clear - Z was in the video talking to the camera) Z told my DS , he was going to save up to buy a ‘scaler’ something along those lines, DS not sure what drug paraphernalia looks like or names for it. DS said how much is one of those and what’s it for . Z said ‘it’s a machine to roll joints with’. They are 12.
DS has begged me not to tell the school as apparently only himself, child X and another person have been shown this video. DS is scared it could be traced back to him telling someone.
What should I do with this information? I mean, I know what I should do, but I don’t know that I can trust the school to handle
this properly and protect my DS .
DS has had trouble in the past from tough kids at this school, I raised concerns and DS said it caused him some problems, ended up with a smack in the mouth. ( inner city school that has its fair share of issues).
can’t help but think it’s county lines. Obv told DS to stay away from this kid.

OP posts:
paradoxically2 · 15/09/2023 15:04

Anonymous tip off?

Cropout · 16/09/2023 09:51

Our school had a visit from the police and drugs dog during an assembly. It was just billed as an educational visit but would provide a good opportunity for school to notice something independently.
Could you suggest something like that happens?

avemariiiaa · 16/09/2023 10:03

You inform the safeguarding lead, you show them the evidence you have, and ask them to leave your child's name out of any investigations as he isn't directly involved.

You can't leave it and do nothing.

SurelyBassey · 16/09/2023 10:55

avemariiiaa · 16/09/2023 10:03

You inform the safeguarding lead, you show them the evidence you have, and ask them to leave your child's name out of any investigations as he isn't directly involved.

You can't leave it and do nothing.

Do you live in Disney land ? Honestly @HeathersFeathers stay well clear

Beezknees · 16/09/2023 19:45

00100001 · 15/09/2023 07:53

Until your son is coerced into doing the same thing because he's too scared about the consequences of telling anyone...and 3 months later he's dragged into it all and you're faced with your son being withdrawn and in trouble. And then you find out that people knew about it and did fuck all to help.

Nah. I'd completely understand people looking out for their own children and my child not being their priority. That's how you survive.

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