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Original poster

I think I just came across an actual psychopath on OLD

109 replies

KittyKat877 · 10/09/2023 21:15

Had a message from this guy today... wtf? This was defo the push I needed to make me delete my account!

I think I just came across an actual psychopath on OLD
I think I just came across an actual psychopath on OLD
OP posts:
Lorelielee · 10/09/2023 22:37

edgelord 😂

HRTQueen · 10/09/2023 22:41

Absolutely report him

but I think he is more likely an idiot who wants to come over dark and interesting and yes some women will be interested in trying to fix him/make him happy

MaybeanothertimeNotReally · 10/09/2023 22:42

Delete this thread so he can't link it to your other posts.

Original poster
KittyKat877 · 10/09/2023 22:43

I've name changed, so he won't be able to link this to previous posts

OP posts:
ImWally6 · 10/09/2023 22:48

Wowser. Dodged an actual bullet.

AllHopeandRainbows · 10/09/2023 22:48

MerryMarigold · 10/09/2023 21:41

I reckon someone create a 'revenge profile' using someone else's pic and name. It's quite clever really.

Yes! Deffo could be an angry ex. Surely can’t be a real person. Terrifying if it is though! What if “he” has profiles under other names/photos too 😯

Original poster
KittyKat877 · 10/09/2023 22:53

Reported it. 😊

I think I just came across an actual psychopath on OLD
OP posts:
Hollyppp · 10/09/2023 22:54

MerryMarigold · 10/09/2023 21:41

I reckon someone create a 'revenge profile' using someone else's pic and name. It's quite clever really.

I agree. I was wondering if this was fake or phone hacked by an ex or something

Blessedbethefruitz · 10/09/2023 22:55

Reminiscent of my second real boyfriend at 17. Absolute weirdo and dangerous, only boyfriend my parents objected to. He completely believed his own press and odd ideas. I've no idea where he is now (on plenty of fish perhaps?!) - maybe looking for lady number 5 or 6 with the same first name so he doesn't have to learn a new one? He was a real prize... 🤣

Jibo · 10/09/2023 22:57

LOL what a loser. Just a sad attention-seeking wanker (in the literal sense). A true sociopath would pretend to be normal/lovely to lure people in.

TotalOverhaul · 10/09/2023 22:57

LittleBoPeepHasLostHerShit · 10/09/2023 21:29

Sounds like my ex.

Was he that idiotically honest about what a demanding toe-rag he was?

isitshe · 10/09/2023 22:59

HRTQueen · 10/09/2023 22:41

Absolutely report him

but I think he is more likely an idiot who wants to come over dark and interesting and yes some women will be interested in trying to fix him/make him happy

I can just picture him in a sweaty grotty dressing gown being waited on hand and foot, screaming at his woman-servant/mother-substitute for getting him killed in his video game by briefly obscuring his view of the screen with her fussing around him

Lastchancechica · 10/09/2023 23:02

Thanks for reporting op, that’s def not okay.

tt9 · 10/09/2023 23:16

I'm 90% sure this specimen lives with his mum and is probably the only woman he has ever interacted with...

Lastchancechica · 10/09/2023 23:18

tt9 · 10/09/2023 23:16

I'm 90% sure this specimen lives with his mum and is probably the only woman he has ever interacted with...

Well that’s going to go down well when the police rock up.

Otterock · 10/09/2023 23:23

the optimist in me wants to hope this was some kind of joke/prank profile (albeit not a funny one)

the realist in me wants to think it’s just an edgelord

the pessimist in me thinks this might be serious, do these men honestly think this is a good idea? Are they that delusional?

oakleaffy · 10/09/2023 23:25

Well isn't he quite the charmer.

Luciansmum6 · 10/09/2023 23:27

Oh come on.. as if he would be that open. Clearly a troll account or attention seeker.
as someone who literally works with psychopaths and personality disorders for a living lithe one’s you have to watch out for normally think they are great and go to great
lengths to conceal their true nature

jlpth · 10/09/2023 23:40

On the plus side, his bio clearly identifies him as a rather scary individual. Better than a bio that makes him sound nice and then you find this scary stuff out when it's too late.

determinedtomakethiswork · 10/09/2023 23:59

Yes, far better if it's a real account that he has told people who he is, even though there are tons of women who will believe they can change him.

HotSince82 · 11/09/2023 00:03

Nah, not a psycho.

Just your common or garden edge lord

ShellySarah · 11/09/2023 00:10

It sounds like a wind up though not funny

Mollymalone123 · 11/09/2023 00:14

he sounds like he’s been learning psychology from YouTube videos and self diagnosed himself.He has a massive ego that’s for sure

Saz12 · 11/09/2023 00:25

Ooh, can I come (wedding) dress shopping w you, OP?

Superlegs · 11/09/2023 00:30

He sounds delusional. Making me think of you won’t like me when I’m angry, I’ll scream and scream until I’m sick. Either way I’d give him a swerve sad git.