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Charged £5 to attend a wedding?

73 replies

AmyGraceJ · 06/09/2023 16:05

An old neighbour got married recently, we don't talk anymore but I did what people do and had a nosy on her Facebook.

She had created an events page for her wedding, which was in a field, called it a 'Festival' and sold tickets at £5 to attend.

That's crazy right?! It was like a viking theme wedding.

Each to their own but charging to attend a wedding is just a super level of Cheeky Fuckery, surely?

OP posts:
EnjoyingTheSilence · 10/09/2023 07:49

You don’t like your old neighbour, she’s done nothing to you, you weren’t invited, you have no idea if it was an amazing day or not, yet you come to here to start a post ridiculing her, this does not paint you in a good light.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 10/09/2023 07:57

We went to a wedding last month - BYOB and bring a dish. Everyone over compensated on the food and so much was thrown away. The B&G also have enough leftover bottles of wine and cans of beer to last them years. On top of travel and hotel.... Despite all the "presence rather than presents" bobbins, they are apparently p'eed off with us for not contributing to their 2 gift lists - 1 for house renovations, 1 for their honeymoon.

IhearyouClemFandango · 10/09/2023 08:03

AmyGraceJ · 07/09/2023 23:55

Because someone told me about it and I had to see for myself if it was as bad as she said. It was.

God you sound awful. By all means comment on the charge, but the rest of your posts are just sheer bitchiness.

smilesup · 10/09/2023 08:04

AmyGraceJ · 07/09/2023 22:52

You should have seen the photos. So fucking embarrassing. Raising their B&Q axes. Everyone looked like they stink 😭😂

Oh you're just nasty.

dollymixtureandflyingsaucers · 10/09/2023 08:07

"You should have seen the photos. So fucking embarrassing. Raising their B&Q axes. Everyone looked like they stink 😭😂"

The only embarrassing thing about it is your really rude comments, can you not see what you look like saying this rubbish?

fairyfluf · 10/09/2023 08:08

AmyGraceJ · 07/09/2023 23:28

Because I was her neighbour like a decade ago and we never really interacted because she was an oddball?

So you've come on mumsne to slag off an old acquaintances wedding? I think that's awful.

I also hope if they are reading that they had a great viking themed wedding.

fairyfluf · 10/09/2023 08:09

AmyGraceJ · 07/09/2023 22:52

You should have seen the photos. So fucking embarrassing. Raising their B&Q axes. Everyone looked like they stink 😭😂

Hmm... are you jealous perhaps? Weird reaction tbh

SurelyBassey · 10/09/2023 08:49

They're the oddball?
Maybe you need to look at your actions before trying to ridicule others
You sound nasty

Dancesaideveryone · 10/09/2023 08:53

TooBigForMyBoots · 07/09/2023 00:08

I'd pay it just for the craic.Grin

Fortunately you don't have to make such a decision as you're not invited OP. Stop snooping and enjoy your fiver.

Ha ha exactly

jannier · 10/09/2023 09:03

TheFutureMrsWolowitz · 06/09/2023 16:44

Last wedding I went to (obligation as it was DH's godson) we paid £200 ish for travel; £300 is for accommodation and a deeply irritating £500 for a cash gift. Then it was a cash bar and the food was a cash fish and chip van.

I'd be bloody thrilled with a fiver tbh.

Wow £500 cash gift can you be my god parent

RaininSummer · 10/09/2023 09:19

Sounds like great fun unlike most weddings. You sound like a very boring misery guts OP.

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 10/09/2023 09:49

What was YOUR wedding like OP?

Pottyberry · 10/09/2023 09:59

Quite surprised by the enthusiasm on here for a viking wedding- I think if someone started a thread saying "we want to get married in a field with fake fur and axes" people would be scathing.
Maybe ops nasty comments are spurring posters on to support the viking/festival wedding.

LG93 · 10/09/2023 10:07

Mrsmozza123 · 10/09/2023 07:09

@TheThingIsYeah ive seen how people behave with a free bar. Getting a new double measure every 5 minutes and only taking a couple of sips. The nearly full glasses left at the end of the night is appalling.
I had a cash bar at my wedding.

This was our worry, so we told the bar singles only and no shots unless they paid themselves, made a big difference!

FawnFrenchieMum · 10/09/2023 10:14

Slightly different as it’s a work event rather then a wedding, but taking a £5 contribution actually makes people think about whether they are likely to come and makes planning for numbers a little bit more accurate. We did this every time, not because we needed the £ contribution just to help with numbers. We gave them the £5 back in extra drinks vouchers.

Dolly567 · 10/09/2023 11:21

My friends chargin £120 pp to enter her hotel for her wedding abroad Blush

Dolly567 · 10/09/2023 11:22

Getting married abroad and expecting everyone to pay £8k plus fees to enter beyond shocked! Annoyed that we can't attend as we have multiple kids it's a joke

Blondeshavemorefun · 10/09/2023 13:25

I did wonder why you don't talk anymore

Seeing your post replies @AmyGraceJ

The neighbour obv worked out you are a mean person

NeedToChangeName · 04/01/2024 09:04

AmyGraceJ · 07/09/2023 23:55

Because someone told me about it and I had to see for myself if it was as bad as she said. It was.

@AmyGraceJ that's really unkind of you

They had the wedding they wanted, people had fun

Not your cup of tea? Fine. But you chose to mock their choice online, hoping strangers would agree with you. That says more about you than the bride and groom, TBH

PriceMeByTheYard · 04/01/2024 09:19

@AmyGraceJ - what you have said, and done, is really unkind.

Icantbedoingwithit · 04/01/2024 09:22

The only oddball here is you OP, wind your judgmental neck in.

ZolaBudd · 04/01/2024 14:22

NeedToChangeName · 04/01/2024 09:04

@AmyGraceJ that's really unkind of you

They had the wedding they wanted, people had fun

Not your cup of tea? Fine. But you chose to mock their choice online, hoping strangers would agree with you. That says more about you than the bride and groom, TBH

This was last year

Buyer97462 · 30/08/2024 01:39

AngryGreasedSantaCatcus · 10/09/2023 09:49

What was YOUR wedding like OP?

I'd let you know as I was invited but didn't pass the sniff test from the bride on the door.

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