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What is your favourite thing you've learnt from another culture?

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SandGroperNomad · 03/09/2023 15:35

I thought this would be a lovely thread to start and to see what other people's experiences were.

I have a few, and it's a hard choice but I would say the concept of blessing the children on Shabbat before I was Jewish. I love it, and it's now the favourite part of my week.

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carouselthoughts · 03/09/2023 17:38

BabyStopCryin · 03/09/2023 17:07

I’ll do the basic rice for now.

start with basmati rice. You have to go to a ME for for the good stuff! Tilda is expensive and a bit meh.

Use about 1 cup dry rice per person and rinse it in cold water, rub your hands through it and give it a real wash until the water runs clear. Cover in cold water and leave to soak for an hour or so.

rinse and then boil (I don’t add salt but some people do) until it’s almost cooked. Don’t stir loads or it will be mushy.

sieve and rinse in cold water to stop the cooking process

Put a little water in the bottom of your pan (enough to cover) and a tablespoon of veg oil. Heat.

pour the rice in and make it into a pyramid shape. Pop on the lid (close the steal holes) and leave it for a couple of minutes.

Take off the lid, pour over about half a cup of water (you shield hear it sizzle) then put a tea towel over the top and jam the lid on (I tie the towel over the top of the lid so that I don’t set it on fire).

Leave on high until you hear a ‘tic tic’ sound - just a minute or so, then turn the heat down to almost the lowest setting. Leave for at least 20 mins.

saffron - to colour the rice, grind up a pinch of this and add hot water. Leave to one side. When you are almost ready to eat, take off the lid (mind the steam) and pour it over the top, I usually fill the mortar with water again and pour that over too) and put the lid back on. When ready to eat I take off the lid and give the rice a bit of a light ‘scrape’ with a spaghetti-serving spoon to distribute the colour. Some people serve and add a knob of butter (to melt into the rice).

Now Tadhig is a whooooole thing on itself and there are loads of ways of making it.

  1. don’t do anything special but just do as above then steam the rice on a slightly higher temp to get the golden crispy finish (I add some ground saffron to the water in the bottom to enhance the colour).

  2. thinly slice potatoes and add these to the pan after you have put in the small amount of water and oil before the pyramid stage. This is my favourite.

  3. aunt makes it with yoghurt - I’m not quite sure how but it’s bloody lovely. Must find out.

  4. bread - ive only just found this one and am investigating!

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adding herbs and stuff…

you add flavours in layers - so a layer of rice, then sprinkle on the herbs or lentils, another layer of rice, another layer of herbs….

sabzi polov (herbs) - I buy the ready mixed dried herbs (nicer taste and texture) and will sometimes add some fresh herbs or some baby garlic (this looks like long spring onions).

Adas polov (lentils) - those little greeny brown lentils. Cook them first (until almost cooked) then add in layers. Some crazy people add sultanas (yuk).

baghali (Broad beans) - just peeled Broad beans and fried dill - again in layers.

zereshk - barberries. Get ones that are like little rubies. Wash and pop in the pan with a little oil and tiny bit of sugar as they are rather tart. Same as above, in layers. Not nice cold though - the berries are tart!

albaloo - only for the truly crazy. It has cherries in it a makes me sick! I call it jammy polov. Weird one.

How much of each ingredient I hear you ask? As much or as little as you like!

now we get to the advanced rice making…

loobia - cook onion, carrots and green beans with tomato, turmeric… so it’s like a little stew. I add a dried lime - I really like them. It sure it’s ‘traditional’. Some people like to add cinnamon. Let it cook, they layer it up with rice (always start with a layer of the plain rice). It takes a bit of practice to get the moisture levels right as you don’t want the rice to cook in the juice and become mushy. It’s worth it though and one of my favourites.

there are loads of recipes.

Best thing to have with it -

borani - steam some spinach, add some garlic salt to taste then mix into yoghurt.

mast o khiar - grate cucumber (squeeze out the liquid), add crushed up dried mint and garlic salt, yoghurt. And no, it’s not Tadzhiki (yes it is).

salad salad salad and more salad (fresh herbs, feta, walnuts, radish, spring onions).

These are the bare-arsed basic versions as I am lazy, but some people really go to town with lots of ingredients.

there are some amazing vegetable stews (pomegranate and walnut is a favourite) and grilled salmon is popular.

A Persian kebab (for the meat eaters) is pretty awesome and very easy (grate an onion and shove your thin slice of meat onto a Tupperware dish with it and marinade over night). Wipe off the onion and griddle with some tomatoes.

I married into an Afghan family, so this is practically the same as what we do Grin

Rysimo · 03/09/2023 18:16

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 03/09/2023 17:25

That's is the same in Indonesia. The bus leaves when it's full!

They have a concept called "rubber time".Smile

Lovely to hear its not just restricted to one area of the world.
Even lovelier to hear its called 'rubber time'!

SandGroperNomad · 03/09/2023 18:18

These are all so good, thank you! I was going to ask for the rice recipe so thanks for sharing that...

I agree on the saffron though!

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Runforthehills754 · 03/09/2023 18:21

That steak is not nicest when chargrilled to within an inch of its life like Brits like it.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 03/09/2023 18:21

We've just come back from the Netherlands, who has reminded me how "chill" they seem to be and how risk averse we are in comparison in the UK. DS pointed out that all the pictures of things you're allowed to do on the waterslides in the Netherlands, are things you are specifically not allowed to do on the slides are our local leisure centre!

AlisonDonut · 03/09/2023 18:22

Afternoons are for snoozing. Learnt that since moving to France.

Fwendi · 03/09/2023 18:29

yellowsmileyface · 03/09/2023 16:54

Ghanaian decorative coffins, one of the most interesting and unique funerary customs in the world.

The Ga people of Ghana see death as a rite of passage to be celebrated, and bury their deceased in artistic coffins in a symbolic and meaningful shape. Sometimes the coffin relates to their profession, such as a fish for a fisherman, or it relates to a hobby or interest.

In comparison, standard coffins are so bleak and impersonal.

In general, I find perceptions of death in various cultures very interesting. Much of the world sees it as an intermediate phase, rather than an end as we do in British culture, and this difference in perception is often reflected in a culture's funerary customs.

I've just been down the Ghanaian coffin rabbit hole! Seems like a much better way to send our loved ones off. Ive decided Iwant a sausage dog one when my time comes :)

CurlyhairedAssassin · 03/09/2023 18:33

That meeting a friend for a quick coffee can be just that - a very affordable 20 mins sit down and chat and on with your day, till tomorrow when you might do it again with another friend. And that you don't need a second mortgage or need a kilo of marshamallows and squirty cream putting on the top. You certainly don't feel the need to put it in a disposable cup and walk around sipping it on the bus.

God we do coffee all wrong in the UK, why did we inherit the crappy American way of doing it and not the European way.

jolaylasofia · 03/09/2023 18:37

how to basmati cook rice with absorption
using a shattaf
family first
not wearing shoes in house
washing babies bum and not using wipes

SandGroperNomad · 03/09/2023 18:38

For all the people saying "not wearing shoes in the house" do you have carpet down?

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smooththecat · 03/09/2023 18:39

How to cook rice.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 03/09/2023 18:40

Runforthehills754 · 03/09/2023 18:21

That steak is not nicest when chargrilled to within an inch of its life like Brits like it.

Try not to generalise. There are plenty of Brits who prefer it as it's meant to be ie. medium rare to rare.

WhiteArsenic · 03/09/2023 18:42

Runforthehills754 · 03/09/2023 18:21

That steak is not nicest when chargrilled to within an inch of its life like Brits like it.

Not all of us!

mine = Japanese ear scoops. Little bamboo curved long handled spoons for extraction of ear wax, with decorative ends. Mmmmm.

smooththecat · 03/09/2023 18:42

Yeah, I also came round to seeing shoes off as the way and I used to be a shoes on house person. You’re just walking dirt into your house if you don’t and I like a clean floor that I can sit on and feel comfortable.

smooththecat · 03/09/2023 18:46

Rice and shoes off are two of the most fierce battlegrounds on mumsnet.

LadyKenya · 03/09/2023 18:47

SandGroperNomad · 03/09/2023 18:38

For all the people saying "not wearing shoes in the house" do you have carpet down?

I don't, I have laminate, and always wear slippers. The concept of shoes being worn in the house is alien to me, it is something I have never done. They are taken off at the door.

mushroommummy · 03/09/2023 18:48

BiscuitsandPuffin · 03/09/2023 15:57

I'm sure this will offend some, but mine is that the pregnancy "rules" about things like hot tubs and sushi and folic acid are a cultural construct and can safely be ignored for the vast majority of cases. As everyone in China and Japan does (and we did when we lived there)

completely agree!

my favourite is traybakes in Northern Ireland. Delicious variety of buns made by Protestant families as treats… amazing baking skills!!

also shoes off in the house.
a glass of red wine with dinner

LadyKenya · 03/09/2023 18:49

And for myself it is definitely a hygiene thing, also as a child that was the way it was at home.

saveforthat · 03/09/2023 18:51

Runforthehills754 · 03/09/2023 18:21

That steak is not nicest when chargrilled to within an inch of its life like Brits like it.

Well I would have to disagree that most Brits like overdone steak. Everyone I know eats it rare or medium rare.

saveforthat · 03/09/2023 18:53

LadyKenya · 03/09/2023 18:47

I don't, I have laminate, and always wear slippers. The concept of shoes being worn in the house is alien to me, it is something I have never done. They are taken off at the door.

I don't know anyone who wears shoes in the house here either.

ThinkingAgainAndAgain · 03/09/2023 18:56

My Indian friend (who is shared dogs with as a student, and we cooked together to save cash) told me that in her culture, you always cooked a curry to the taste of the person who liked the least amount of chilli. And the people who like it hotter add chilli to their taste at the table.

BabyStopCryin · 03/09/2023 18:56

saveforthat · 03/09/2023 18:51

Well I would have to disagree that most Brits like overdone steak. Everyone I know eats it rare or medium rare.

My sister and DS are big rate steak eaters. I always say a skilled vet could revive the cow.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 03/09/2023 19:01

Boggling at the glass off red wine with dinner too. How is that from another culture? Or do you mean for children?

Runforthehills754 · 03/09/2023 19:02

Maybe it's just where I'm from but everyone will only eat well done steak and are disgusted at anything else.

I first tried medium aged 21 in Spain and OMG game changer.

It's just a lighthearted thread folks I do know that not all x million Brits only eat well done.

LylaLee · 03/09/2023 19:06

BabyStopCryin · 03/09/2023 15:59

How to cook proper - and I mean proper - rice. As any Persian will tell you, there is only one way 😉

What is the way?

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