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So now all I need to do is save up 300K--is this for real?

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Coffeetree · 30/08/2023 07:35

An article from This Is Money showed up on my feed this morning. Basically someone with £290K in pension pots at 50 years old, asking whether they're on the right track for retirement. The rest of the article was various investment advice. Generally the advice was "You're nearly there."

I read these articles and I feel like someone is playing a joke on me. I usually feel very very privileged in that, at 52, I have a mortgage that I'll hopefully be able to pay off in 4 years, plus about £50K in pensions. No inheritances on the horizon. I've worked in charities my whole life, then became single about five years ago, hence not much saved.

So, after paying off my mortgage, I then need to buckle down and save up 300K? That's not going to happen. My plan is to keep working and then go part-time or contract when I reach retirement age.

Am I the only one who thinks these "retirement advice" articles are really out-of-touch?

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MidnightOnceMore · 30/08/2023 08:33

Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday · 30/08/2023 08:23

stop perpetuating oppression for younger women & girls.

I had no family connections, was first to go to university, worked while at uni to be able to pay for anything, got a hard and fairly boring but well paid career. Every penny in my pension has gone through my payslip, same with my mortgage.

also not a landlord fwiw

it doesn’t help anyone to pretend it can’t be done. It can. It’s important that young women understand that pensions can’t be an afterthought, certainly not for after the mortgage is paid- it needs time to compound. They need to be paying in as much as possible as early as possible - the message that it’s all pointless and only for the lucky few doesn’t help anyone.

stopping buying a coffee a day is bollocks when it comes to home ownership but actually if this was applied to pensions from the day someone starts work with an employer matching then it’d actually amount to something meaningful. (I’m not suggesting everyone is wasting £3 a day on coffee, just trying to illustrate the little/often/early point)

I'm glad your hard work plus your good luck paid off.

But you only have to look at the salary pyramid in each institution to see that most people are in lower paid jobs.

Not everyone can rise to the top, there isn't space. It's a competition. You won, but don't blame others for the fact there are so many places below you. They didn't make society any more than you did.

BakingBeanz · 30/08/2023 08:34

Notamum12345577 · 30/08/2023 08:25

I have no idea how big my pot is, my annual statement (and the online calculator my provider has with which I can adjust my retirement age and lump sum etc) just tells me how much I will get a year when I retire at 62 in 22 years time! It is a final salary pension if that makes a difference (IE is pot size important for me to know)?

You don’t have a pot- final salary pensions work in a completely different way. The amount you’ll get a year is all you need to know, and it’s guaranteed.

CrossStitchX · 30/08/2023 08:37

@BadSkiingMum the kids' pensions are with the Co-Op which I think rebranded as Royal London. I don't even think that it's a specific "child" product, just a pension which you can start on their behalf.

https://www.royallondon.com/about-us/media/media-centre/press-releases/archive/parents-triple-boost-to-children-by-pension-payments/

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

thecatsthecats · 30/08/2023 08:38

RosaGallica · 30/08/2023 07:55

The super-rich do not get there by working, don’t be ridiculous. Nor do the moderately rich who live by landlording and getting other people to buy houses for them. In a country where it is now known that you can’t get into ‘hard and boring’ jobs without family connections, can’t buy a house in most of the country without family connections, and have to pay through the nose in training to get even a median level job (therefore largely inaccessible without family support), wealth is not earned nor earn-able when you start off in life with nothing. Jane Austen needs to be put back on school curricula as a textbook for life studies, especially for girls.

Eh?

I'm on track for a 300k pension from my current pot at the age of 34. I'm not super rich, nor am I a landlord, nor were there any family connections involved at any stage of my career. The biggest role my family have played in my financial life is by explaining finances and by demonstrating extreme frugality.

I'm not extremely frugal, but I do live well within my means, and have made sure my career has progressed up til now. Hence significant chunks of my income going into pensions every month.

Just as much as it is important for people like the OP to have advice fitting to their circumstances, it's also hugely important to contradict the narrative that this sort of thing is impossible, unobtainable. Because so many people believe it and then don't try.

FlatWhiteExtraHot · 30/08/2023 08:38

I don’t have any sort of pension and DH has the one he was auto enrolled on when that first came in. I’ve no idea how much is in it.

It just never occurred to us when we were young and broke and now we’re middle aged and not much better off 😂. The amounts being bandied around here are pie in the sky for either a single person or a couple earning minimum wage or not much more.

I think it’s incredibly important to make young people more aware of the necessity to not opt out of paying in. My DD was very blasé about it, figuring she’d rather have the extra £7 or whatever it was a week. Once I pointed out that her employer would be paying in too, she decided to stay in the scheme.

StillProcrastinating · 30/08/2023 08:51

found this online - it’s mad to think how much the state pension will cost the public purse in years to come.

So now all I need to do is save up 300K--is this for real?
dootball · 30/08/2023 08:52

In 4 years your mortgage will be paid off. If you continue to paid in to your pension pot at the same rate you are currently paying towards you house, then pension pot will increase by a large amount by retirement age.

lljkk · 30/08/2023 08:53

these "retirement advice" articles are really out-of-touch?

A huge amount of what I encounter everywhere is "out of touch" with my experience, and maybe "out of touch" with many people's experiences.

strawberriesarenot · 30/08/2023 08:55

CrossStitchX · 30/08/2023 08:08

Also the best thing we did in terms of savings for our kids was to start pensions for them when they were born. We pay in something like a tenner a month, they can't touch it until they are 60 and should grow significantly.

Is this possible? Please could you tell me how.

Ginmonkeyagain · 30/08/2023 08:56

@FlatWhiteExtraHot Good advice! More than that, the money she puts in to her pension comes out of her pre tax salary - so it's free money from her employer AND the government.

ActDottie · 30/08/2023 08:58

I don’t find it disheartening it’s just reality. I’m 30 and have about £100k in pension pots been paying in religiously since I was 22. And I up my contributions when I get pay rises. My other friends all prioritise holidays and festivals as they want to “live now” but financial security is really important to me.

Yes I get not everyone can save for a pension but there is help for those people in terms of pension credit - my grandparents got this as they didn’t save a thing.

I do think there’s an issue atm where people are getting to 40/50 and not having started a pension because no one was really encouraged to until recently.

But I’m hoping my generation are a bit more aware of it with auto enrolment etc. and also adverts on the telly but only time will tell.

mycoffeecup · 30/08/2023 08:59

Coffeetree · 30/08/2023 08:20

Yes, five years ago my retirement plan involved sharing my husband's pension and living in the mortgage-free marital home. Oops.

Assume you are divorced? Did you not get half his pension in the divorce?

needtofatoff · 30/08/2023 09:00

You need to contribute as much as you can afford and take advantage of any workplace contribution. My actual contributions are only about £30k but my employer contribtuion (effectively matched at 5%) plus the tax relief plus the investment growth (monitored not just left) over approx 15 years (nb 30k drip fed in not lump sum) means one of my pension pots is worth nearly £300k. I am mid 40's.

My current employer (a bank) tops up 13% if I pay 7% so I have 20% of a relatively high salary being paid in now. I chose the job on the basis of the pension contribution as many are still only matching to 5% (like my old employer). The 7% reduces my tax bill now so is more like approx 4% out of pocket to me.

Impossible to save £300k as capital unless a v high earner or supported by others so don't be discouraged by that.

At 50 ish it is a no brainer to save as much as you can as you can take 25% out tax free at 56/57. Assuming you have any free cash which is very difficult these days.

BarbaraofSeville · 30/08/2023 09:03

Coffeetree · 30/08/2023 07:53

Yes I agree, and I have worked out the figures. I don't take cruises or have fancy cars etc now so I won't suddenly start doing that when I'm 67. So as long I can keep working part time I'll be fine.

I agree that £300k or more is a good amount to have for retirement, but my issue is that when faced with an article like that I just go, "Right, I will never have that much, so what's the advice for me?"

Just save what you can and don't worry about it.

My DM is a widow living in a mortgage free house on the state pension and a small amount extra from my dad's pension. She probably has about £1200/1300 pm coming in.

She has enough money to do what she wants. Fine she can't go on world cruises or drive a Porsche, but she goes on holiday, has pets, does her food shopping in M&S/Ocado, has money to do things in the house, has the heating on when she wants to, can go out for lunch most weeks, has paid for her funeral, can treat grandchildren, that sort of thing.

NorthernExpat · 30/08/2023 09:05

In answer to your question, what do I do if I can’t just find £300k:

The thing that wasn’t obvious to me ( a financial advisor told me) was that in many cases you’re better to prioritise putting money in your pension over paying down your mortgage. Particularly if your company does salary sacrifice the amount of tax you save plus the return on the investment in your pension is way higher than the interest you pay on your mortgage. So you should pay into your pension now, and then use a lump sum from it to pay off your mortgage if you need to, as your money will have worked harder for you. Mortgage debt is the cheapest and most secure debt you’ll ever have, but psychologically we just want to own our house and have that security.

He could show that this held true even if your mortgage interest rate went up to 7 or 8% but after that it depended on your tax bracket.

ickky · 30/08/2023 09:06

strawberriesarenot · 30/08/2023 08:55

Is this possible? Please could you tell me how.

Just google Junior SIPP

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 30/08/2023 09:06

We had a pension company come in and talk to us at work. They said if you want to continue living the same lifestyle as when you're working, in general you need to aim to save 10× your final salary.

This isn't going to be achievable for a lot of people (including myself).

I do think that younger people need it drummed into them that they will care a bout it one day so start saving early. Appreciate with cost of living though savings are just not possible for a lot of the population

Sometimes when we are thinking about a big purchase we work it out that it will mean working another x months or years when we are in our 60s and then it puts us off. We put any bonus (though mine is peanuts) straight into pension. Also whenever I've had a raise I try and increase my pension contribution and sustain a simular lifestyle

strawberriesarenot · 30/08/2023 09:08

I will have the mortgage paid off, state pension (paid up with NI) and maybe 20k savings for emergencies. I am used to driving a small old car, and living within my means. After getting kids through driving lessons, uni, and me being self employed that was the best I could do. I don't see it as terrible. I will have a home and small garden.

Colourfulponderings · 30/08/2023 09:12

This is really helpful. I’d already thought that I’d like to pay into their pensions when they’re young and saving for houses so that they’d get the benefit of compound interest. I didn’t realise you could do it while they were children!

Paq · 30/08/2023 09:13

I don't think there's much pension advice you can give someone in your situation. No point in going back and telling you all the things that you should have done.

If you have any spare income prioritise saving/paying down your mortgage debt. Look at your employer's pension scheme to see if they match additional contributions.

You will have an asset in your house in retirement so you could potentially downsize, or get a lodger. There will also be state benefits.

Coffeetree · 30/08/2023 09:14

NorthernExpat · 30/08/2023 09:05

In answer to your question, what do I do if I can’t just find £300k:

The thing that wasn’t obvious to me ( a financial advisor told me) was that in many cases you’re better to prioritise putting money in your pension over paying down your mortgage. Particularly if your company does salary sacrifice the amount of tax you save plus the return on the investment in your pension is way higher than the interest you pay on your mortgage. So you should pay into your pension now, and then use a lump sum from it to pay off your mortgage if you need to, as your money will have worked harder for you. Mortgage debt is the cheapest and most secure debt you’ll ever have, but psychologically we just want to own our house and have that security.

He could show that this held true even if your mortgage interest rate went up to 7 or 8% but after that it depended on your tax bracket.

Now that is really helpful, thank you.

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dottiedodah · 30/08/2023 09:14

The thing is people are expecting to have a similar lifestyle as when they were working.I read somewhere that about 30% of people dont have any private pension at all! If you have paid off the mortgage then its not so bad ,but in future years more people will hit retirement with rent to pay as well. The figures quoted are unrealistic I think

BelindaBears · 30/08/2023 09:15

If your mortgage is going to paid off when you're 56 you could easily work another 10 years and all the money you had previously been paying on a mortgage can go into your pension. It might not be £300k but it doesn’t sound such a bad situation to me?

ScribblingPixie · 30/08/2023 09:15

I'm not going to hit that amount, so my plan is to look at how to enjoy life for not many £££. I've already got a low maintenance home in a great area. I won't run a car. Public transport will be free & I'll have access to free & low-cost culture. I've always been frugal so I reckon I'll be able to eat well and go on interesting European holidays like I do now. If I get short, something like doggy day care pays £50 a day in my area. My parents were pretty comfortable on state pension + a little bit. No splurging but a good life.