Who said you can’t join the conversation m.
You can. And people can reply.
You have been at his side. You haven’t done it.
I am sure plenty of people would object to me joining a sahp conversation, giving advice and so on, when I am not a sahp. I scroll by them. I don’t have the experience and it’s not relevant to me.
You again, completely ignore the fact that career building is very different for men And women. Besides which, I am sure your husband talks to your however you aren’t there doing the work and experiencing it. Not a chance does he come home and recount and entire days thought, interactions, micro decisions and so on.
You can post what you want. I can reply that not all threads need someone to come along and input what their partner earns. I think it come across as someone feeling the need to just be included even if they don’t have anything relevant to add.
I think the whole ‘His job is actually ‘our job’ because he couldn’t do it without my input and I know everything there is to know about it’ (which is what I responded to) to be incorrect and a bit odd.
As I said, not every conversation. Needs to include men. Nor doesn’t it need to include the point that someone has to sacrifice anything for someone to earn a lot. That’s factually incorrect. The message that one person has to ‘sacrifice’ their career for another to earn isn’t true. And it’s not a sacrifice if it’s something you want to do.
And it does my head in. So are we even?